https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 20 May 2026 11:01:14 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others/page/2#post-1402161 Wed, 05 Feb 2014 20:54:33 +0000 ChiCalGoBee 1402161@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: I totally do, so try not to. Whenever someone "@s" me, I always respond. And if I missed them inadvertently I feel awful! It's the same with Facebook BDay messages-I try not to just "like" each one, but give at least a quick response. If you're taking the time to directly contact me in this world of "likes" and "thumbs ups" and "smiles," I feel like it's nice to respond back. However, I am very much in the minority...I haven't found many that do this, ha ha:-). *ETA: I'm not super popular or anything, so maybe if I had like 200 birthday messages I wouldn't do this! Perks to being a nerd I guess :wink: * </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1399729 Wed, 05 Feb 2014 01:00:09 +0000 .twist. 1399729@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>OMG, I always feel guilty. Don't hate me or feel left out. I love you all. :heart: :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1399699 Wed, 05 Feb 2014 00:18:01 +0000 Kimberlybee 1399699@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel that some posters or bloggers are better at replying about the questions or comments but it's just too time consuming to reply to everyone individually. So no hard feelings from me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1399696 Wed, 05 Feb 2014 00:14:41 +0000 Kimberlybee 1399696@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sammyfab: LOL I think you said it very politely. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1399689 Wed, 05 Feb 2014 00:04:37 +0000 Pepper 1399689@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ugh I always feel guilty about this! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1399687 Wed, 05 Feb 2014 00:03:15 +0000 MrsScallop 1399687@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! It can be time consuming to get to all the replies, and sometimes I have nothing to say other than thanks for commenting. If I reply, I really try to make it unique to the person's comment. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398518 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 15:10:50 +0000 MapleMoose 1398518@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: Didn't know about that page. I'll have to bump it up soon to keep it on the horizon. Thanks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398508 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 15:08:40 +0000 mrbee 1398508@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MapleMoose: our programmer has been really busy lately, so I've been mostly reorganizing the board forums.</p> <p>But please do remind me about the feature here!<br /> <a href="http://suggestions.hellobee.com/topic/easier-way-to-reply-when-threads-are-more-than-one-page" rel="nofollow">http://suggestions.hellobee.com/topic/easier-way-to-reply-when-threads-are-more-than-one-page</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398482 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 15:03:16 +0000 MapleMoose 1398482@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: It's not like you're super busy or anything.... (kidding!!) :wink: It will be a great feature when it comes out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398473 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 14:58:30 +0000 mrbee 1398473@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MapleMoose: @MrsMccarthy: Haha you're right, it's my fault sometimes! One of these days we'll make it easier to reply to posts on multi-page threads!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398468 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 14:56:54 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1398468@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. Especially when there are several on another page and I can't deal with going back to find them and hit reply. I always feel bad because I wouldn't want anyone to think I don't care about their input </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398466 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 14:56:40 +0000 MapleMoose 1398466@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! I feel bad. It's hard to @ reply to more than one person at a time from my phone. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398440 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 14:47:23 +0000 Lindsay05 1398440@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. I am terrible at responding! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398426 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 14:44:09 +0000 Torchwood 1398426@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, I feel super guilty! I try to always say something like "thanks for all the responses," then reply directly to the ones that I have a response or question for. But I feel terrible. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398223 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 13:40:36 +0000 Sammyfab 1398223@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@theotherstark: haha...I'm hoping I didn't make myself look like an axe murderer there! I promise I'm not! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398189 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 13:32:58 +0000 BSB 1398189@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yup, I feel bad but it's because I usually don't have time read all the responses and reply to everyone. I wish there were more hours in my day. </p> <p>I do, also, start threads but never respond to responders. I'm guilty of 'post and run.' I'm sorry, I wish I had more time to devote my time to HB. I need a HB assistant. ;) Gives me run down on threads and responds to threads for me. LOL! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398178 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 13:29:44 +0000 theotherstark 1398178@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sammyfab: Note to self: always respond to Sammyfab's comments.... :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398174 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 13:28:41 +0000 theotherstark 1398174@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ha, I do too. Was actually just thinking this earlier! There are the replies that I reply to because they asked a question, or I had a question or comment for them, and then I feel awkward just ignoring other responses because I really do appreciate that they took the time to reply to my post. And then I feel like I'm responding too much :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398153 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 13:25:20 +0000 Running Elley 1398153@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I always feel guilty but usually I don't have time to respond to them all so I respond if I have a further question or if a response really resonates with me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398146 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 13:24:02 +0000 Sammyfab 1398146@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't ever start threads...so nope!</p> <p>I do feel like crap when I've posted in someone's thread and they don't even acknowledge my post even though they've responded to everyone else. I try and put a lot of thought into my posts. I always make a mental note when this happens... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398112 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 13:16:33 +0000 mrbee 1398112@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: haha sometimes I get a little Sally over here too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398107 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 13:15:28 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 1398107@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel this way on blog posts, so I try my best to acknowledge every comment! Sometimes there really is nothing to say back though, especially if the comment is a one-liner, but in those cases I try to at least say, "thank you"... haha I'm an equal opportunist. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398101 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 13:13:17 +0000 pui 1398101@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have no regrets! lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398099 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 13:12:21 +0000 mrsjyw 1398099@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I do sometimes. If there's questions, etc. I try to answer. If it's comments that I don't always respond.</p> <p>If it's topics I've created asking for advice, I try to respond as much as I can! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398074 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 13:01:34 +0000 mediagirl 1398074@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I try to respond to everyone if I'm responding to one. I probably do this because it really bugs me when I see someone responding to other people and they "ignored" my comment. :) Sensitive Sally over here. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398069 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 12:58:53 +0000 Periwinkle 1398069@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I do sometimes. Especially when someone responds to my thread and it takes me forever to write back. I feel a little like I asked for advice and then took the responses and ran! I like to try and acknowledge those who took the time to write :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398060 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 12:56:20 +0000 artsyfartsy 1398060@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>All the time. Lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1398051 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 12:53:32 +0000 snowjewelz 1398051@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I do if they are talking to me about something or asking/answering a question I had! I don't care as much if it's just collecting opinions or a thread for fun. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1397963 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 12:34:43 +0000 Mrs. Polish 1397963@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: it's better than a birthday. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-feel-guilty-when-you-respond-to-one-comment-and-not-to-others#post-1397955 Tue, 04 Feb 2014 12:33:07 +0000 mrbee 1397955@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Polish: Well since it's your Hellobee anniversary, how could I not reply! :) </p>