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<title>Hellobee Boards Topic: Do you ever give up the cleaning war?</title>
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<title>chopsuey on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1474731</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 15:32:22 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I clean and tidy up every day, but my house is always messy.
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<title>Mrs. Twine on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1474726</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 15:30:59 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrs. Twine</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@Mrs. Bee:   The messes get more sophisticated. There's nothing quite like a room full of glitter, or nailpolish on the sink. :D&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;At the same time, Ellie, at 7 is very responsible for taking care of her messes, so that really helps. She tracked mud in yesterday and was fantastic for cleaning it up when she noticed. She actually asked me for a wet cloth!
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<title>winniebee on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1474724</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 15:30:41 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>winniebee</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I clean up every day.  Wiping counters, sweeping floor, dishes, laundry, general tidying.  Whenever I give up for a day, I regret it!
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<title>Jenn23 on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1474718</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 15:28:29 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Jenn23</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@mrs. bird: We don't wear shoes in the house either, but we have a dog so he tracks dirt in. :(  Before we had him a few years ago and we didn't have our young son, I won't tell you how often I mopped or vacuumed. :) It was great! Well, great for me anyway, maybe not the house!
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<title>mrsjyw on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472998</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 11:44:12 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>mrsjyw</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I clean every day, but I give up the big, deep clean war and save that for the few times we get around to it!
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<title>Mrs. M on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472983</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 11:41:57 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrs. M</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I clean everyday, but once LO could crawl it seemed to go downhill from there. I can only get things done when she is sleeping.
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<title>mrs. bird on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472834</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 11:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>mrs. bird</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@Jenn23:  ummm.... you mop once a week??  that, my friend, is a cleaning success story!  you don't even wanna know how often i mop :D  in my defense though, we do not wear shoes in the house and we don't have a LO, so our floors don't get as dirty as others might.  i had a housekeeper years ago, i miss that woman!  thinking of her almost makes me want to work full time so i could justify the expense... almost
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<title>mrs. wagon on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472783</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 11:16:13 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>mrs. wagon</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Sometimes I give up the daily war (basically living room tidying and dishes/counters) but I always regret it the next day when the mess is twice as big. I gave up the war on bathrooms a long time ago... it's awful. I only clean when people come over.
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<title>petunia354 on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472767</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 11:14:01 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>petunia354</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I try to keep the kitchen tidy on a daily basis but do a more thorough cleaning on the weekends. It blows.
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<title>yellowbird on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472737</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 11:10:14 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yellowbird</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I clean like once a week. Our house is cluttered, but I'm just exhausted!!!
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<title>mediagirl on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472670</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 11:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>mediagirl</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I give up when I'm sick (which feels like all the time these days). So when I'm not sick anymore, it's misery just to clean everything I left while I wasn't feeling great.
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<title>Anagram on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472652</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:58:30 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Anagram</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I'm a cleaning failure.  I blame my mom, who was a total neat freak, because she always forced us to clean constantly and now I loathe it (total cop out.  secretly, I'd love to be a clean as my mom).&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;My husband is also a cleaning failure, so yeah.....we just try to make sure it's presentable when company comes over.  The rest of the time, not so much.
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<title>skibobrown on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472635</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:55:39 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>skibobrown</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We half give up during the work week and then recover on saturday.  I always intend to stay on top of cleaning during the week, but never really pull it off b/c DH and I need to spend so much time working including most of the hours after DD goes to bed.
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<title>Jenn23 on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472623</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:54:16 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Jenn23</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@mrs. bird: I'm the same! Cleaning has never come naturally to me and even now being a SAHM for over a year, I'm waiting for that to happen. :) I tidy up throughout the day, run errands, cook and do laundry, but I absolutely despise cleaning. The only daily cleaning I do is the kitchen and picking up toys. I hate mopping, vacumming, dusting and only do it once or twice a week which I know should be more often.
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<title>LovelyPlum on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472611</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:52:03 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>LovelyPlum</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We give up sometimes, yes!  Now that we're in the new place, I'm trying to be better about it, but it's hard!
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<title>MrsH on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472564</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:44:33 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>MrsH</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We do not clean every day. We pick up if people are coming over, if the clutter is getting out of hand, or if the cleaning lady is coming to clean.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Eta: we do vacuum fairly often as we have pets.
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<title>Mrs. Pickle on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472553</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:42:58 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrs. Pickle</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Every few days (like yesterday) I will ignore the kitchen. Otherwise I try to keep everything clean.
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<title>mrs. bird on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472515</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:37:58 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>mrs. bird</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;i'm the worst at keeping house.  i like cooking, i'm pretty good at staying on top of most things (keeping things stocked, keeping up our calendar, making sure DH has meals packed, clothes ready for work, meds refilled, bills paid, etc), but cleaning, i suck at cleaning.  i can go way too long letting it slide and then i get overwhelmed.  &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;i love my parents to death and they were (and still are!) amazing parents, but cleaning wasn't something they made a big deal about (unless we had company coming over) and i wish they had been more strict about instilling a cleaning routine because it doesn't come naturally to me.
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<title>Rubies on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472439</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:30:28 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Rubies</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I hate messes but my house is always a disaster.  I feel like I'm cleaning or tidying all the time!
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<title>LuLu Mom on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472428</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>LuLu Mom</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;My living room is a war zone, I pick it up every night before bed, and then she destroys it again in the morning.  I can't wait until she's old enough to be downstairs in the play area!
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<title>Andrea on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472418</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:27:24 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Andrea</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I make sure the house is tidy every day. DH is always impressed that everything is cleaned up by the time he comes home. :-)
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<title>snowjewelz on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472415</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:26:57 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>snowjewelz</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I try to wipe down counters in the kitchen after cooking, and do the same in bathrooms in the morning. Getting a Roomba has also helped that I can just turn it on during the week to clean up floors a little bit, but I still have to clean clean every week.
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<title>Mrs. Oatmeal on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472412</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:26:34 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrs. Oatmeal</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;There are some things that I just can't do every day, or else I'd feel like I was trapped in Groundhog Day.&#60;br /&#62;
But, I do have to do the floors/dishes/livingroom daily. LO is just now mobile, and she keeps finding and eating dust bunnies. So I've got to get on my game.
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<title>Mamaof2 on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472409</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:26:19 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mamaof2</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Our house is usually pretty clean EXCEPT for the play room!  I will clean it and I swear 5 mins later its a disaster zone again!!!&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I usually leave it and clean on Friday nights when the kids are sleeping - if I clean when they are awake its impossible!
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<title>looch on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472401</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:24:46 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>looch</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I think it will get worse!  Right now, I can contain my son's mess, but when and if he gets into sports, I can only imagine the gear taking over.
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<title>Mrs. Bee on "Do you ever give up the cleaning war?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-ever-give-up-the-cleaning-war#post-1472391</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:23:32 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrs. Bee</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;It seems like no matter how much and often I clean, the house just gets so messy every day. Sometimes I just give up and let it be messy for a couple of days, but then it drives me crazy and I have to do an intense cleaning session that ends up taking even more time anyway.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I think it gets better as the kids get older?&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Do you clean every single day (besides the stuff you have to do like dishes/laundry)? Or do you sometimes give up the daily war?
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