https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 09 May 2026 11:24:40 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2474427 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 12:46:19 +0000 petitenoisette 2474427@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes we do except when I was pregnant and going to bed super early. </p> <p>Every once in a while he wants to stay up and watch something but in general it is pretty important to me to go to bed together. Plus we get up pretty much the same time (and him usually earlier than me) so he has no need to stay up later! </p> <p>@Aimed121: agreed! We are lucky that our schedules line up but in general I just like ending our day together. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2474326 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 12:16:09 +0000 rachiecakes 2474326@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Never. He works nights and often isn't home until long after I've gone to bed.<br /> I also wake up early and am at work before 8am, so I can't really "wait up for him" either. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2474320 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 12:14:39 +0000 gingerbebe 2474320@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We try because he takes forever to get ready for bed and makes a racket, so I just get annoyed if I get woken up. That, and I generally just sleep sounder when DH is in bed with me. </p> <p>But just lately its been harder because DH has been working in his office so late. I generally wait up until about 11pm and then go to bed because I'm pregnant and exhausted. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2474313 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 12:13:13 +0000 DillonLion 2474313@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A lot more often than we used it. I wish we did it every night, but I'm an early bird and he's a night owl, so it doesn't really work out well for either of us to do it at the same time every night. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2474266 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 11:53:51 +0000 Alba4 2474266@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I always want to, but my husband likes to relax longer and go to bed later. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2474033 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 10:54:16 +0000 lovehoneybee 2474033@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Occasionally, but not often. We work different shifts, so he goes to bed later a lot of the time. It works out nicely because I leave G asleep in a RnP in the living room with him and go up to bed. He usually changes her and brings her upstairs to me when she wakes up (around 1-2am) and goes to be then. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2474026 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 10:52:41 +0000 Adira 2474026@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. I get up 1.5 hours before he does, so I usually go to bed at least an hour earlier than him. I miss going to bed at the same time though. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2474023 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 10:52:23 +0000 MrsSCB 2474023@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sort of? We get in bed at the same time generally, but he'll almost always read or watch stuff on his phone for awhile after I fall asleep. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2474018 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 10:51:23 +0000 ValentineMommy 2474018@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, we always get into bed at the same time, and watch tv together.</p> <p>He usually tries (emphasis on try) to stay up until I fall asleep, because he snores horribly, which keeps me up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473976 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 10:39:13 +0000 Umbreon 2473976@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, hardly ever. I am asleep an hour or so before he comes to bed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473896 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 10:08:41 +0000 coopsmama 2473896@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Every single night of our marriage so far. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473893 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 10:06:44 +0000 oliviaoblivia 2473893@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Usually.<br /> I'm going to bed a bit earlier now though because DD3 likes to sleep with a boob in her mouth. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473889 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 10:05:02 +0000 Aimed121 2473889@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, it's kind of an unwritten rule! (not rule but habit?). I actually place ridiculous importance on it, as my parents who are about to celebrate their 50th Wedding Anniversary always did and still do it so I think it's a good thing to wind down together! But we have similar schedules so that makes it easier for us too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473845 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 09:38:32 +0000 yin 2473845@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, most nights. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473841 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 09:37:05 +0000 Mrs.KMM 2473841@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It totally depends on the day! Sometimes we do, sometimes he stays up later playing video games, sometimes I stay up later reading. It's a crapshoot! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473797 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 09:22:23 +0000 NovBaby1112 2473797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! I am in bed by 9:30 and DH could stay up until 1am.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473779 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 09:18:45 +0000 snowjewelz 2473779@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>More or less, but some days I'm def more tired and go to bed maybe half hour to an hour before him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473769 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 09:14:23 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2473769@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Most of the time. Sometimes he goes to the gym and I am falling asleep in bed by the time he gets home. Or we will both get in bed and he stays up to watch one more show after I fall asleep. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473766 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 09:13:37 +0000 cascademom 2473766@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. DH stays up later to make sure that LO #1 is asleep and play a game. I go to bed early to wake up early to catch the train or do mornings with the kids. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473763 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 09:12:05 +0000 Mamaof2 2473763@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>nope - I usually go to bed at 9:30 and DH stays up working most of the night </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-go-to-sleep-at-the-same-time#post-2473761 Thu, 25 Feb 2016 09:10:56 +0000 autumnlove 2473761@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Do you usually go to bed at the same time as your SO?</p> <p>We always go to sleep at the same time when we are both home. I want to sleep earlier but I also want qt after bedtime to talk and watch shows together. </p>