https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 23 Jun 2026 22:53:34 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171747 Fri, 08 May 2015 09:20:50 +0000 Anagram 2171747@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't know if I'll have a favorite--but my mom sure did! It wasn't me. :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171726 Fri, 08 May 2015 09:02:45 +0000 Mamaof2 2171726@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have favorite things about each child - but I don't like one more than the other. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171715 Fri, 08 May 2015 08:48:26 +0000 oliviaoblivia 2171715@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not at all.<br /> My grandmother very clearly plays favorites with her kids and grandkids it's made for some ridiculous dynamics over the years. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171703 Fri, 08 May 2015 08:41:08 +0000 snowjewelz 2171703@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Haha I only have one so it's easy :) And of course right now I feel like I can't love anyone else more than her! </p> <p>I think I'm my mom's fav and my sister is my dad's. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171685 Fri, 08 May 2015 08:29:31 +0000 mamimami 2171685@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Both of them are my favorites for different reasons. I bond a lot with my son because I drive him to school every day, and he's super sweet and easygoing, and he's older so he's easier to converse with. My daughter is my little dolly and she's quite mercurial, so she does frustrate me a lot but she also brings me a lot of joy and laughs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171605 Fri, 08 May 2015 07:13:05 +0000 yellowbird 2171605@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't, but my 2nd lo is only 5 weeks old! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171586 Fri, 08 May 2015 06:49:52 +0000 Tanjowen 2171586@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: @Mrs. Pen: We all agree my oldestbrother has been solidly in the lead for years :grin: My parents always say they don't play favorites but admitted once they might struggle more with some of us (cue neon flashing sign over me and my sisters head, haha). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171584 Fri, 08 May 2015 06:44:07 +0000 Mrs. Pen 2171584@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Tanjowen: haha my brothers and I openly agree my oldest sister is the favorite and my parents are not amused either ;) they always tell us they have no favorites and love us all equally. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171531 Fri, 08 May 2015 04:54:06 +0000 Andrea 2171531@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No favorite but I also appreciate the easier one for the day if the other one is being particularly difficult! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171498 Fri, 08 May 2015 00:57:35 +0000 Kimberlybee 2171498@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I only have 1 so I can't answer from experience but favoritism is very apparent on my inlaw's side. You can clearly tell who is the favorite sibling (siblings) or cousin and I feel so bad for the others. Luckily, we're right in the middle (neutral ground) so I can stay out of that drama. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171481 Thu, 07 May 2015 23:08:03 +0000 HLK208 2171481@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep. Whoever listens, impresses or cuddles me is my favorite for the day! Haha. I love them all the same though. But yeah, some days I appreciate the "easy" one. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171478 Thu, 07 May 2015 23:05:20 +0000 Boogs 2171478@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not a favorite, but I have moments where I like one more than the other. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171464 Thu, 07 May 2015 22:20:14 +0000 stargal 2171464@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Depends on the day...lol whoever is being better behaved.is mu.favorite for.the day. Lol just kidding.<br /> But no i love.both of them fiercely and really.dont favor one over the other. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171438 Thu, 07 May 2015 21:45:28 +0000 Mamasig 2171438@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. Not at all, but they are only 1 and 2.5. I wonder if it will change as they get older. </p> <p>My mom had a favorite. Definitely my brother! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171410 Thu, 07 May 2015 21:14:29 +0000 twodoghouse 2171410@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I absolute 100% don't have a favorite, BUT there are days when one is in a really sweet/funny/adorable mood and the other is grouchy or whatever. But then the next day it's reversed, so it's impossible to favor one over the other. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171398 Thu, 07 May 2015 21:03:16 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 2171398@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't yet but I'm only 2 weeks into being a parent of 2. I definitely feel less of a bond/less amazed by LO2 than I felt with LO1 but the longer she's here, the more and more I start to like her. We'll just have to see what personality emerges as she gets older! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171376 Thu, 07 May 2015 20:42:32 +0000 Foodnerd81 2171376@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Tanjowen: haha I'm one of five kids and we always talk about who the favorite is. We pretty much agree that my older sister is moms favorite. Dads changes based on recent events- and I have the youngest grandbaby and I'm pregnant, sooooo.... ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171360 Thu, 07 May 2015 20:28:50 +0000 Tanjowen 2171360@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This made me laugh. I only have my one LO, so no favorite as yet, but my 4 siblings and I tease our parents that there a favorite numbering system. I'm currently #1 because I have the newest grandbaby (moved from last place to first, yes!). My parents don't seem amused... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171356 Thu, 07 May 2015 20:21:29 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 2171356@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, sometimes. One of my kids is much more difficult than the other and has a personality that's a bit harder to bond with. Then I go through moments where I'm completely amazed by her and feel really guilty, but I think this is just a tough season and things will be totally different a year or two from now. I think once she's able to express herself better, we will bond more. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171355 Thu, 07 May 2015 20:21:12 +0000 WinterBee 2171355@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Truth Bombs: I'm my dads fave and my brother is my moms too. It's pretty obvious. Even more obvious when/if my brother and I fight haha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171350 Thu, 07 May 2015 20:16:40 +0000 Truth Bombs 2171350@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I only have one LO and I love her so much I feel like the one in my belly will always be second favorite :bummed: </p> <p>My parents both have clear favorites (my brother for my mom and me for my dad). It's totally fine, they both love both their kids but they have a favorite, no one feels bad about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171346 Thu, 07 May 2015 20:12:01 +0000 Foodnerd81 2171346@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Id love to know true answers to this. And if each parent has the same if different favorites. </p> <p>I only have the one LO so she's my favorite. Even when she doesn't listen. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-have-a-favorite#post-2171303 Thu, 07 May 2015 19:32:42 +0000 mrbee 2171303@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I do! I used to feel bad about it, but then my favorite switched... and I realized that my favorite is just whichever kid is listening better. Now I feel ok about it - but I hide which one is my favorite from my kids. I wonder if they can tell anyway? I don't think so, but you never know!</p> <p>Do you have a favorite? </p>