https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 15 May 2026 13:43:29 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558412 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 09:07:02 +0000 Mrs. Oatmeal 1558412@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I really try not to, but I catch myself sometimes being overly annoyed/irritated with someone, and I realize its because of something that happened ages ago. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558387 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 09:02:52 +0000 MrsBrewer 1558387@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Eek I don't know! I feel like I can go both ways! I think I hold grudges against people that aren't very close to me, and I don't have many interactions with. But if it's close friends of family, I normally get over it pretty quickly! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558373 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 09:00:07 +0000 Synchronicity 1558373@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, unless it was something pretty unforgivable. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558300 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 08:45:05 +0000 Adira 1558300@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mamaof2: I'm glad I'm not the only one! &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558281 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 08:42:04 +0000 Dandelion 1558281@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. I don't have the energy to spare on that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558272 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 08:40:13 +0000 yin 1558272@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, I get it from my dad. We hold grudges and are both very stubborn. I don't even know what his sister did to be excommunicated, but they have only spoken to each other once in the last 30+ years. Hopefully I'm not that bad. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558262 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 08:38:53 +0000 chopsuey 1558262@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I forgive and get over things very quickly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558258 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 08:38:13 +0000 Mamaof2 1558258@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: ugh - me too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558240 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 08:34:30 +0000 Adira 1558240@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, I still get mad when I think about certain things ex-best friends have done or said to me. And I'm a terrible friend because I don't confront them about it either and just let it fester until the friendship dies. I'm the worst. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558204 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 08:29:15 +0000 mrsjyw 1558204@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't. Life's too short. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558192 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 08:27:04 +0000 LuLu Mom 1558192@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't know if it's a grudge, but I have the awful habit of throwing things back into DH's face in arguments. Even though I'm over it, I use past situations. I have to stop doing this, but things just fly out of my mouth. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1558188 Thu, 10 Apr 2014 08:25:41 +0000 snowjewelz 1558188@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't, but it's hard to truly forgive/forget and to move on! I try not to think about it too much and just focus on other things. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1557617 Wed, 09 Apr 2014 21:37:05 +0000 Mae 1557617@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If someone gives me a genuine apology they are (almost) always immediately forgiven and I don't hold a grudge. What I have trouble with is letting things go when I haven't gotten an apology. Sometimes I know it isn't worth the fight, but I have a hard time forgiving when the other person isn't sorry. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1557607 Wed, 09 Apr 2014 21:30:26 +0000 MrsSCB 1557607@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, not at all. I tend to put a lot of thought into why people act the way they do, if there's something happening or something that did happen in their lives to make them act a certain way. I really think that the vast majority of people don't have malicious intent, and if someone does something that hurts me, I try to figure out why and then can usually just move on. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1557596 Wed, 09 Apr 2014 21:18:41 +0000 Rockies11 1557596@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am absolutely incapable of holding grudges - I am def on the extreme side of forgiving too and I can't take it when someone is upset with me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1557595 Wed, 09 Apr 2014 21:16:52 +0000 MarieJ 1557595@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Unfortunately, I do. I'm really bad about it :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1557585 Wed, 09 Apr 2014 20:57:26 +0000 regberadaisy 1557585@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't typically so it takes a lot for me to hold a grudge. When I do I do not forgive nor forget easily. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1557581 Wed, 09 Apr 2014 20:55:56 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 1557581@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Anagram: oh me too! I definitely feel like that is totally something different. I'm talking someone accidentally hurt your feelings or did something stupid or thoughtless not people in the habit of being difficult or even "poisonous" to be around. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1557576 Wed, 09 Apr 2014 20:50:49 +0000 Anagram 1557576@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't hold grudges per se, because holding a grudge requires a certain level of energy. But I've absolutely stopped hanging out with people that are negatively affecting my life.</p> <p>I don't feel bad about doing that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges-2#post-1557571 Wed, 09 Apr 2014 20:47:46 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 1557571@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I tend to be way on the extreme side of forgiving &amp; it males it really difficult for me to cope when I mess up, apologize &amp; the other person doesn't instantly warm up to me. </p>