https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 11 Apr 2026 07:08:59 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house/page/2#post-1606754 Thu, 01 May 2014 19:16:10 +0000 Mrs. Lion 1606754@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Vegmama: I am sure the last thing she wants is to wander into the wrong part of town ;) That actually gives you a really great opportunity to bring up your fears without making her feel like you don't trust her. I am sure it will all work out! It sounds like she is comfortable with you if she is able to ask you little questions without feeling like she is bothering you, and I am sure she will understand if you express your concerns. Good luck momma! :) It is so hard...but it will get easier! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house/page/2#post-1606729 Thu, 01 May 2014 19:09:41 +0000 PinkElephant 1606729@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I let (and encourage) our nanny to take my daughter out. I prefer she not take her in taxis unless absolutely necessary (I do the same), and have specified places she can take my toddler (parks certain friends' hones, etc.). If I'm not at home, I ask her to text to keep me updated on where they are going, when they leave, and when they arrive home. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house/page/2#post-1606391 Thu, 01 May 2014 17:18:30 +0000 Vegmama 1606391@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Madison43 &amp; @Mrs. Lion: Love this perspective. She's liked that I've been around a bit over the past 3 weeks. She just started then, and she's had a ton of little questions. I think it's helping her feel comfortable. She had never changed a diaper before starting with us!!! There's a learning curve, for sure, but she's so great with our daughter, and I know it'll be great. </p> <p>We live in a transitional neighborhood in our town, so I do worry about them accidentally walking into a scarier part of town. Like, you can walk south with no issues, and north might be iffy ... So I think as long as I communicate that with her, we should all be good! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house/page/2#post-1604116 Thu, 01 May 2014 03:50:46 +0000 lamariniere 1604116@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I completely understand the concerns, and I won't mention my own paranoias to fuel your fire. :silly: But I do let the babysitter take my 5 month old of the house. I WAH, and it's much easier for me when they go out for a stroll. DD usually will nap at that time too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1604038 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 23:25:27 +0000 BoogieBea 1604038@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My sister dealt with this recently. She also works at home so she just takes breaks and walks with them. She did actually have trust issues with hee nanny though which is why she was hesitant about having them go alone. But that's a different issue. When we had a part time nanny, we encrouaged them to go out. She and my son did have an accident though on one of their walks. But I was happy with the way she handled the incident so I was happy about that. That accident could've totally happen even if it was my husband or myself so I was not upset about that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603974 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 22:11:00 +0000 lady grey 1603974@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Vegmama: Don't feel stupid! I remember feeling exactly this way. DH wanted to take LO out for walks (without me) at 3 weeks old and I was so freaked out. But over time, I got used to it. </p> <p>My LO was born last summer, so I was also really worried about the sun exposure. We would stick his car seat on a snap and go and use one of these covers to keep him out of the sun:<br /> <a href="http://www.carseatcanopy.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.carseatcanopy.com</a><br /> If this code still works you only have to pay for shipping: MARCHMADNESS14 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603957 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 21:59:06 +0000 Sapphiresun 1603957@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't think you're being silly, but getting out is good for everybody. There's some research that says newborns that are exposed to daylight regularly get on a proper day/night sleep pattern much faster!</p> <p>I have flashes of cars jumping the sidewalk and hitting us when we're out walking too. I know it's somewhat irrational.... but it definitely crosses my mind. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603941 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 21:42:39 +0000 Dagny 1603941@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes but my younger sister is my nanny. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603901 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 21:09:41 +0000 mamimami 1603901@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We don't let the nanny take the kids off the property. So to our condo gardens yes, outside to the street no. But I think if we lived in the states I'd be ok with that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603894 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 21:05:19 +0000 mrsrain 1603894@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>As a former nanny I used to take the little one out for a walk almost every day. She was just a few months old at the time. She had a little sun-hat, and I would put sunscreen on her, too.</p> <p>If it makes you feel better, maybe you could all go for a walk together a few times. If you see anything that makes you nervous you can address it right away with the nanny, without sacrificing your LO's time out of doors. Just be honest with her! I would understand a mom confessing her nerves to me, but might be hurt if she wasn't willing to work up to feeling comfortable with something like that... does that make sense? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603885 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 20:54:42 +0000 daniellemybelle 1603885@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When I was a nanny, the parents wanted me to take their LO on walks or to the pool everyday &amp; often asked me to drive him to activities. This was when I was 19, too! He was a little older though - I think 18 months when I started.</p> <p>My mom is my nanny now (part-time) and they go outside every day. She has taken LO on errands &amp; such as well. She is good about texting me play by plays because I do worry but I think it's something you just have to get over as a mom! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603660 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 19:33:24 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 1603660@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>With my last family I remember being there a good 3 months (their LO Was 6 months at the time) before they started letting me take her on walks. We texted when we went out &amp; texted when we go home &amp; were to never be gone more than 30 minutes at a time. I didn't mind. We looked forward to our walks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603604 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 19:11:37 +0000 SleepyMonkey 1603604@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>our nanny goes out every morning and afternoon, and is rarely in the house. they go on playdates, to the playground, to the library, and to a class. i think it is good for both LO and our nanny (socialization, fresh air, change of scenery, etc). we live in a small apartment, though, so i would feel bad if they are both cooped up for 10 hours straight. we live in a walking neighborhood, so no driving necessary. i say go for it - you'll feel better after a few days and your LO makes it home safe &amp; sound! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603520 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 18:32:06 +0000 Mrs. Lion 1603520@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Madison43: I completely agree with this. I think it is absolutely okay for a parent to spend time with the nanny and the child. Yes, if it gets out of hand it can be a problem, but as a nanny I would prefer the open communication. The nanny has asked for trust/freedom that the parent doesn't feel comfortable with. I think for a nanny/parent relationship to work there has to be honesty. She should absolutely be able to freely say "I would love to let you guys get out more often, but I would like to show you around the neighborhood a few times first". Plus, it gives them an opportunity to chat about how things are going and to gush over the cute new things LO is doing. When I was a nanny I never would have been offended if a parent wanted to stay with me the first time we did something new. I do agree though that it can be taken too far to the point of making the nanny uncomfortable, so that is definitely something to consider. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603488 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 18:12:49 +0000 Madison43 1603488@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@travelingnanny: so this is something I don't really understand and I've heard it pretty frequently from nannies. I am also genuinely curious, not attacking at all. If she went out for a walk every time with them, I get feeling micromanaged, but the first time, or until she's comfortable with her? I don't think it's that big of a deal. It's no different than any other job - I'm a lawyer and when I started at my current firm, I came with a breadth of experience and great references, but my boss didn't just trust me to litigate important cases right away, he had see for himself that I could handle it first. Just last week, he came to court with me "to watch" just bc it was for an important client. It's not the most comfortable experience but I don't feel micromanaged and ummm, he's my boss, so be can come with if he wants to! Similarly when my nanny started, she had a ton of experience and great references, but I still worked from home for a week plus to see her in action and offer some guidance when needed.<br /> Shouldn't nannies have to earn their employer's trust too?<br /> . </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603356 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 17:10:24 +0000 Mrs. Lion 1603356@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Vegmama: I don't think anyone thinks you are stupid or care too much &lt;3 I think we all just want to reassure you that it will all be okay. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603355 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 17:09:55 +0000 Vegmama 1603355@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lion: Thank you for the encouragement. I like the idea of going with them!! Our nanny is awesome, and as someone suggested, I know she wouldn't be offended if I went with. If anything, it would give us some time to hang out &amp; catch up. </p> <p>She's never nannied before, so we're learning this thing together! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603354 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 17:08:39 +0000 Vegmama 1603354@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bunnylove08: Thank you!!! I wonder if it would work with our stroller. We have a cheapy Chicco stroller, and I find myself only going on walks first thing in the morning or after sunset to avoid direct sun on her/in her eyes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603350 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 17:04:42 +0000 Vegmama 1603350@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@meganmp: I know!! She &amp; I go on walks everyday, and I was watching the forecast with a happy heart for this week! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603349 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 17:02:07 +0000 Vegmama 1603349@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Madison43: Thank you for being kind with your response!! A few of the other responses made me feel stupid for caring so much. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603344 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 16:57:49 +0000 Anagram 1603344@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't have a nanny, but I live in a town with tons of nannies, and they are outside with their littles all year long, through rain, snow, sleet, hot weather, you name it.</p> <p>My lo goes to daycare, but they take the babies out in gigantic strollers for walks when the weather is nice. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603341 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 16:55:55 +0000 Synchronicity 1603341@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm a nanny, and I have to admit, I would be rattled if I wasn't allowed to leave the house with the kid(s)! My employer really really really encourages it. I also drive them all over the place, it was a requirement for the job. I love going on outings with the kids, but even just a stroll around the neighborhood or to the park is nice! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603324 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 16:46:12 +0000 californiadreams 1603324@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would be more upset if my nanny didn't LO out to get fresh and do something different than stay home all day. So i definitely think you should! I also find it easier to work at home when no one else is. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603318 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 16:43:25 +0000 Mrs. Pen 1603318@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I get upset when it's a beautiful day and our "nanny" (brother) doesn't take J out! He isn't a fan of going outside so I feel like I have to twist his arm to get him to do it. </p> <p>As for a nanny driving a child somewhere? That requires a whole new set of precautions and concerns! Even if my brother had his license, I wouldn't trust my child as his passenger. Not just because it's him, but he is a teenager and I'm selective about who can drive with J in the car. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603314 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 16:40:57 +0000 meganmp 1603314@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I EXPECT our nanny to go out with them! She started when they were older than your LO, but if she stays home with them every day that she's there, I start to get a bit annoyed. It's not just boring for her, but for them, too! Also, I live in the PNW too- how often are you going to see days like today? Get them outside!</p> <p>I'm re-reading what I wrote, and I sound bitchy. I promise, I'm saying this with a lighthearted tone! I just want you, your nanny and your LO to be able to appreciate this unbelievable weather we are going to have this week! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603259 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 16:18:27 +0000 travelingnanny 1603259@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. Lion and @mrs green grass- If mama goes out with them some nannies might not feel trusted and or micromanaged. Hopefully her nanny is cool with it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603249 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 16:15:04 +0000 bunnylove08 1603249@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, it was a requirement. We had a sun shade for her and when she was old enough to wear sunblock our Nanny would put it on her with a hat. </p> <p>sunshade - <a href="http://www.giggle.com/on/demandware.store/Sites-giggle-Site/default/Product-Show?pid=0004099813&#038;kpid=0004099813&#038;gclid=CJjv19KQib4CFYMSOgod-m8AaQ" rel="nofollow">http://www.giggle.com/on/demandware.store/Sites-giggle-Site/default/Product-Show?pid=0004099813&#038;kpid=0004099813&#038;gclid=CJjv19KQib4CFYMSOgod-m8AaQ</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603245 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 16:14:12 +0000 mrs. tictactoe 1603245@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The worrying is normal and it will get easier. I think about the same things, but it is good for your baby to go on walks outside and I'm sure the nanny would like it, too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603244 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 16:13:43 +0000 travelingnanny 1603244@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it is perfect fair to look at her driving record. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-let-your-nanny-take-baby-out-of-the-house#post-1603241 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 16:12:02 +0000 Mrs. Lion 1603241@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think worry is part of being a parent and eventually you have to come to terms with the fact that any life worth living comes with some risks. As long as the request is not unsafe or unreasonable, sometimes i think we just have to give something a try and move through the fear. I really like the suggestion of going together at first, especially since you are home. I would not have survived this first year of parenthood without being able to get out of the house, and i would feel the same way as a nanny i think. </p>