https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 22 Apr 2026 10:36:05 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2127335 Mon, 30 Mar 2015 19:58:07 +0000 WinterBee 2127335@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsjyw: I miss him almost every day. I know... CHEESE, but it's true. There's a couple nights a week that are his 'late nights'. After 12+ hours of not seeing him I'm excited to see him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2106720 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 21:00:41 +0000 DillonLion 2106720@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. We commute together so we have 2+ hours of bonding time every day. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2106697 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 20:42:25 +0000 jhd 2106697@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are together a lot because he WAH and I SAH, but sometimes I really do miss him. We don't often spend quality time together. And LO likes to stay up later so we rarely get time together after he goes to bed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2106623 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 20:08:05 +0000 artsyfartsy 2106623@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've been thinking about this a lot lately! I feel like most of the time I treat him as my co-parent and/or roommate. Before baby we couldn't spend ENOUGH time together. Now it's "Did you check on T before you came to bed? Ok, goodnight."</p> <p>I miss how we treated each other in the dating stage a lot. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2106596 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 19:54:57 +0000 SleepyMonkey 2106596@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. We have no time for "us" these days, its making me feel lonely. I am hoping it is just temporary and we will have us time again soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2106587 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 19:51:02 +0000 Canoli 2106587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was just thinking today how we really need to reconnect. We have 2 kids and both work long hours and it's just hard to devote time to each other daily. We no longer have alone time at night because our oldest started protesting going to bed and the only way to get him to sleep is to go with him in our bed! We used to transfer him into his bed after he fell asleep but that no longer works so now he is in our bed every night. </p> <p>But I tell myself that the days are long but the years are short with kids and we will have adult time when our kids are older. The good thing is we both are on the same page that right now our kids need us first and they are our priority. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2106192 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 14:55:24 +0000 Mrs.Pinecone316 2106192@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm a misser! I work nightshift 3 nights a week, usually in a row so there can be a good chunk of the week we are lucky if we see each other in passing so I always get bummed going into work. Now that I am on maternity leave and home I get bored and can't wait for him to get home from work. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2106130 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 14:26:14 +0000 Ra 2106130@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not really. I love him but I enjoy my space. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2106121 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 14:24:16 +0000 Smurfette 2106121@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! He is gone most weeks. It is really hard. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2106048 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 13:55:58 +0000 wrkbrk 2106048@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>no, unless she is out of town (~5 times a year for work). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2106039 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 13:53:08 +0000 PawPrints 2106039@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Um... yes. Even though we're together constantly - we spend every evening and all weekends together, and we do a fair amount of online chatting while we're at work. Sometimes I tell him I missed him when he gets back from like a 20-minute grocery run and he gives me the "you are definitely insane" look. We are also pretty independent at the same time, though, and I do enjoy doing things without him, and encourage him to do the same. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105930 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 13:18:32 +0000 sarac 2105930@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, I totally miss just the one on one quality time that can be hard to find when you have a very chatty three year old. We try to get some time together each night, but it's hard when I'm pregnant and tired. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105726 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 12:09:17 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 2105726@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I miss him so much. He works late several times a week, when he is home he is kind of just in relax zone. I'm pregnant and taking care of a toddler so I'm usually pretty tired. He goes to bed around 8 or 830 which is usually when I'm just finishing kitchen clean up so he's asleep once I get to bed. He sits in his recliner,I sit in the couch<br /> He isn't much of a talker to begin with so you throw in being tired or not being around and we don't talk much. I adore him so much and miss him desperately. One day it will be easier to connect. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105639 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 11:29:00 +0000 littlejoy 2105639@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Other than having a baby, our overall schedules haven't changed much. I do think I'd like a date night every now and then, and more intimacy, but unless I'm thinking about it, I don't feel like something is missing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105623 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 11:26:19 +0000 shellio 2105623@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, even when we actually get to spend time together it doesn't feel the same. I miss the "old" him and the old us too, I guess. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105620 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 11:25:49 +0000 FaithFertility 2105620@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes!!!!! We really enjoy each other and with a new baby and him back to work, I miss him a lot, he is a huge help and we'll my best company!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105611 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 11:21:50 +0000 blackbird 2105611@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, we go through stages. We have been sick a lot this winter and it meant we were often quarantined or just not hanging out much. Being tired, exhausted, and/or sick makes us feel like ships passing in the night. And i feel like my threshold is high after his life in the military! But it happens :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105595 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 11:13:47 +0000 Baby Boy Mom 2105595@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes he works a bazillion hours. The little time we see each other is usually family time so it's hard to talk. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105591 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 11:13:01 +0000 2PeasinaPod 2105591@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>All the time here too. We both work full time, and nights are focused on LO. We haven't had a date night in a while, and his parents watched LO while we ran errands the other day. It was nice just to be able to hold his hand while we're walking in a store. I miss the little stuff like that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105576 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 11:08:20 +0000 littleredhairedgrl 2105576@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>yes. a lot. by time he gets home A is usually asleep and we eat and then i'm ready for bed. and since we moved there has been a lot of work to do to our house so even on weekends he's busy doing projects for the house. sigh.. need more date nights.. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105402 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 10:11:34 +0000 Applesandbananas 2105402@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cherrybee: haha this ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105400 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 10:10:54 +0000 travellingbee 2105400@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not really because we get to spend time together. Neither of us has a particularly demanding work schedule and he doesn't travel for work very much. On the rare occasion he does though, I miss the heck out of him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105394 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 10:09:29 +0000 Freckles 2105394@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. Or, more like I miss "us". :bummed: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105391 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 10:08:01 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 2105391@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! There are some weeks where he works late all week long so we see each other half an hour a day. There's really no time to connect in that short of a period. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105373 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 10:03:24 +0000 rachiecakes 2105373@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cherrybee: right?</p> <p>We're both pretty independent people, always have been. I love our time together and our family time together but we enjoy our time alone too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105365 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 10:02:15 +0000 illumina 2105365@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. The days he WAH I don't, because he is right there and we talk throughout the day...but when he's in the office I look forward to him getting home and spending the evening together :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105357 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 09:59:53 +0000 Cherrybee 2105357@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't get a chance to miss him because he's always there! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105347 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 09:58:22 +0000 LuLu Mom 2105347@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Right now yes, he's going through a "holy cow i'm about to be a dad of 2" thing right now, and he's a little stressed. I miss my fun-loving, easy going husband. I'm supposed to be the high strung one not him, i'm hoping a date night on Saturday will ease his mind a little! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105329 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 09:53:31 +0000 snowjewelz 2105329@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, so much! With a 3 mo old, and us both working, there seems to be zero time for anything! Even if we get to eat dinner together, we're doing it in a hurry... And some nights if we're REALLY lucky, we get to watch a tv show or 2 together, or even cuddle for a while in bed and talk, but that's rare! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-miss-your-so#post-2105260 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 09:36:56 +0000 twodoghouse 2105260@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, so much. I SAH with our ten month old twins and when DH walks in the door I'm like hallelujah! It's really nice when the kids go to sleep and we just sit on the couch and talk about our days. </p>