https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 02 May 2026 06:18:41 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner/page/2#post-1220304 Fri, 15 Nov 2013 21:00:00 +0000 .twist. 1220304@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. My biggest thing with any kind of humour is, know your audience! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner/page/2#post-1220202 Fri, 15 Nov 2013 20:02:23 +0000 JessKas 1220202@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're horrible. But we've been trying to use less un-PC jokes now that LO is here... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner/page/2#post-1220195 Fri, 15 Nov 2013 19:59:29 +0000 MsMamaBear 1220195@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Reese: I'm a wet blanket too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner/page/2#post-1220112 Fri, 15 Nov 2013 19:07:59 +0000 Vegmama 1220112@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@DillonLion: We are REALLY inappropriate things when it's just the two of us. Things I would never say in mixed company. We know that each other is kidding, but I would never expect someone else to understand. Same with our future kids ... We'd keep the jokes to ourselves until they aren't around. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner/page/2#post-1220110 Fri, 15 Nov 2013 19:06:05 +0000 googly-eyes 1220110@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@DillonLion: I thought I'd be the only one to say this but yeah we definitely do, usually about ridiculous accusations/people at his job... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner/page/2#post-1220022 Fri, 15 Nov 2013 17:48:16 +0000 Fronkinzankinsbride 1220022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ha. Yes. We use them in a way that makes our intent obvious (satirical) not in a sexism/racism/homophobia is only funny in private way. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner/page/2#post-1219972 Fri, 15 Nov 2013 17:08:54 +0000 Mae 1219972@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't know if we say things that are un-pc so much as we say really mean things (about public figures, not people we know) and we swear. A. LOT. </p> <p>I told him the other day that we were going to need to knock off the f-bombs once this kid arrives and he's like why the fuck are you telling me you swear more than i do? lol so true... :/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner/page/2#post-1219935 Fri, 15 Nov 2013 16:46:05 +0000 cyndistar3 1219935@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We say a lot of very unpolitically correct things. I only say it in front of people that I know understand my humor and dh tries to do the same but he has aspergers so sometimes it just happens :/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-674760 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 17:45:36 +0000 sorrycharlie 674760@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH is worse than I am! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-674485 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 16:27:31 +0000 anonysquire 674485@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Honeybee: hahahahahaha omg! I can't believe you said that lol, but so hilarious! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-674482 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 16:25:53 +0000 skibobrown 674482@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH sometimes says pretty sexist things around me, which totally pisses me off. I think he just does it to get a rise out of me, but it totally drives me nuts. I have often tried to get him to think in the mindframe of someone who is an underrepresented minority. (As I am, due to my gender, at work.) He just doesn't get it though, b/c he's never walked in those shoes... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-674476 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 16:24:03 +0000 Reese 674476@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not really... I am really PC .. Probably because I work with minorities, oppressed communities, and people with DA </p> <p>&lt;--- wet blanket </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-674474 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 16:23:40 +0000 ladyfingers 674474@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Omg yes. Never in public but we will have to stop when LO is older. Should stop now... We have a very "gallows" sense of humor, though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-674371 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 15:46:51 +0000 Goldilocks1107 674371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>All the time. Usually at home. And we now follow those comments with "We need to stop saying things like that soon, before LO understands" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-674370 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 15:46:43 +0000 banana 674370@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! But it's not very often. And definitely not in front of the kids because you never know what they will pick up from you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-674362 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 15:45:16 +0000 marionberry 674362@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't as much, but DH does a lot. It's just part of his humor! We'd never say it in public circles though and I didn't think about our future baby, so I'll have to watch how that goes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-674338 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 15:41:02 +0000 sarac 674338@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not as much in front of my daughter, because she doesn't know the difference. My sense of humor is really important to me - it was something that my father and shared. Now that he's gone, there's really no one left who genuinely gets it. My husband comes pretty close, though. So I try to keep it alive. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673738 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 13:05:43 +0000 autumnlove 673738@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sometimes! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673644 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 12:44:24 +0000 mrsjazz 673644@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband will say sexist things to me as a joke, like "keeping me barefoot and pregnant" or asking when his dinner is going to be made but for the most part our jokes are very inappropriate but not un-PC. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673633 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 12:40:28 +0000 daniellemybelle 673633@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not really. We don't try to be "politically correct" but at the same time, we just don't think racist/sexist/etc. jokes are funny at all. It seems like that's what most of you guys are referring to?</p> <p>We do sometimes make fun of people on TV, like for what they are wearing or if they aren't that cute, and we probably want to curb that when we have a LO. But I don't consider that "politically incorrect" - just unkind! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673571 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 12:24:56 +0000 cranberryapple 673571@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We do it all the time too, but the sad thing is that sometimes, though we say it in a joking manner, we're probably not joking....we're bad! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673534 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 12:10:34 +0000 Foodnerd81 673534@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes definitely. The responses are so funny- now I wonder what other people are saying at home! </p> <p>Dh is worse than me though, and I'll have to draw the line between inappropriate unless it's jut the two of us, and just really inappropriate. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673522 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 12:06:29 +0000 littleveesmommy 673522@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not so much me but DH does all the time! He does try to be more civil and correct in front of DD but slips. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673510 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 12:03:03 +0000 mrskc 673510@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Definitely! We will need to watch ourselves as LO gets older. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673496 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 11:59:17 +0000 littlek 673496@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>yes.. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673451 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 11:47:49 +0000 Pepper 673451@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>All the time! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673450 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 11:47:44 +0000 teamjse 673450@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes all the time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673446 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 11:46:33 +0000 edelweiss 673446@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>all the time. it's something we need to watch out for when LO starts to understand. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673435 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 11:42:01 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 673435@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH says alot of politically incorrect things to get a rise out of me. To me it's not funny at all. I ignore him or sometimes answer him back using nicer terminology.</p> <p>Edit: One time he said the N word around my dad, and my dad gave him his two cents on why he shouldn't say such filth. DH later told me he did not appreciate getting lectured in his own home. Oh well don't say nasty words. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-or-your-dh-say-really-un-politically-correct-things-in-a-joking-manner#post-673415 Thu, 28 Mar 2013 11:33:42 +0000 immabeetoo 673415@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH does and it dries me bananas because I want him to quit before LO can comprehend! I know he does it just to goad me but still. I'm more of a stick in the mud I guess - I can be mean but usually not in the un-pc way I think you mean. </p>