Hellobee Boards Topic: Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?

Hellobee Boards Topic: Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon? https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 01 May 2026 13:02:41 +0000 BabyBoecksMom on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon/page/2#post-1174335 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 10:01:55 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 1174335@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Geez - I guess we're bad to worst. We'll start out as the old couple, but then he twitches a little when he falls asleep and it always wakes me up, so I just get comfy on my side of the bed. heartonastring on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon/page/2#post-1174331 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 10:00:35 +0000 heartonastring 1174331@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Bad to worst. We just don't like touching in our sleep. Sometimes we even erect what we refer to as, "the pillow barrier" between us! sorrycharlie on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1174320 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 09:57:20 +0000 sorrycharlie 1174320@https://boards.hellobee.com/ we are apparently bad to worse haha. i hate being touched when i'm sleeping! BananaPancakes on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1174303 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 09:53:17 +0000 BananaPancakes 1174303@https://boards.hellobee.com/ My husband HATES being touched while he sleeps because I am a furnace, so we're in the "bad to worse" category. We like when we end up in hotel rooms with 2 beds because it's like a vacation from sleeping together. ShootingStar on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1174287 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 09:47:53 +0000 ShootingStar 1174287@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We both like our space while actually sleeping, so we mostly look like the bad to worst couple, lol. But a lot of nights we do a few minutes of cuddling before going to our separate corners, which looks like old couple. Very rarely I'll be the big spoon. Alivoo01 on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1174276 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 09:43:59 +0000 Alivoo01 1174276@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We start out as old couple or trust each other. A few minutes later, we're either relationship getting bad or too tired because the hubby runs hot and he likes to sleep cool. purrpletulips on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1174070 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 08:32:19 +0000 purrpletulips 1174070@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Don't like being touched while sleeping plus I sleep on my side and DH sleeps on his stomach so we are most often "relationship getting bad" swurlygurl on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1174044 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 08:24:54 +0000 swurlygurl 1174044@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Either 'Woman depends on her man', or 'After a fight'. Not sure I'm buying those descriptions... haha Mrsbells on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173990 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 08:07:23 +0000 Mrsbells 1173990@https://boards.hellobee.com/ old couple!! Koolbreeze on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173975 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 08:04:42 +0000 Koolbreeze 1173975@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Relationship getting bad to worse...but with a little toddler between us. :P Revel on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173963 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 07:59:55 +0000 Revel 1173963@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @Bao: @Mamaof2: Uh oh, us too! We;re shopping for a king so we can be farther away from each other :) Mamaof2 on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173957 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 07:57:32 +0000 Mamaof2 1173957@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We are bottom left - bad relationship! haha This is the reason I got a King size bed - I do not like to be touched when I sleep. We may cuddle for a few minutes then its me to the left and him to the right! Mrs. Lemon-Lime on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173791 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 04:53:08 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1173791@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We start out spooning for pillow talk: woman drpends on man or old couple; but when it's really time for sleep we are After a Fight.He slips on his bbackand I sleep on my belly. Cherrybee on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173785 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 03:54:17 +0000 Cherrybee 1173785@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Our isn't on here. Ours is the one where the man sprawls out, taking up most of the bed, while simultaneously gathering up all the duvet and hugging it, snoring like a plane taking off, while the woman perches on the end of the bed shivering, just grateful to be in bed at that moment and not seeing to the baby. Y'know, *that* one? Running Elley on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173761 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 01:35:30 +0000 Running Elley 1173761@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Too tired and normal! Which is a very accurate description lol cyndistar3 on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173757 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 01:32:17 +0000 cyndistar3 1173757@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We cycle through most of these in any given night lol... though not typically hot new couple, woman depends on man or relationship getting bad to worse. Surprisingly dh is the one that likes to spoon, my ideal sleeping position is the "after a fight" option without the fighting of course :) PointeShoesTutus on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173748 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 01:19:33 +0000 PointeShoesTutus 1173748@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Our relationship must be bad and getting worse and/or after a fight based on the names of these sleeping positions. We both love a good cuddle but for sleeping, we don't like to be touching, except maybe our toes. Every so often, I wake up on my back holding DH's hand. But we aren't a spooner couple when it comes to sleep. TheSwissWifeStyle on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173746 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 01:17:09 +0000 TheSwissWifeStyle 1173746@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I'm usually the big spoon, at least in the beginning. If we're spooning that is. We both tend to be stomach sleepers. lemondrop on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173741 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 01:13:35 +0000 lemondrop 1173741@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Too tired, Trust each other, or Bad to worse. As long as he's not breathing on me, I'm happy (all day sickness does not help here). I'm not a big spoon fan, I love my space. Kimberlybee on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173697 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 00:11:11 +0000 Kimberlybee 1173697@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Lol this is too funny! Where do they come up with this stuff? Before LO we were really a romantic couple, it was future planning & promise sleeping style. Now it's too tired & normal sleeping style but I love being a mommy so I am at peace with this. Lol HLK208 on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173615 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 22:25:02 +0000 HLK208 1173615@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Haha! Woman depends on man or too tired and normal! CupQuakeWalk on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173614 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 22:19:07 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 1173614@https://boards.hellobee.com/ The "trust each other" one. Each to our own sides but his hand will be on me somewhere. Ra on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173604 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 22:02:08 +0000 Ra 1173604@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I prefer for him to sleep as far away from me as possible! I do not like being touched when I'm trying to sleep. In general, I'm not a big cuddler. Mrs. Jump Rope on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173548 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 21:19:18 +0000 Mrs. Jump Rope 1173548@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I don't like to be touched while I'm sleeping! We are usually the Tired couple but sometimes it's the relationship getting bad lol pui on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173544 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 21:17:47 +0000 pui 1173544@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I kike #4 too. hellocupcake on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173531 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 21:13:17 +0000 hellocupcake 1173531@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Trust each other, or at least that's how we start the night (: T-Mom on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173463 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 20:47:27 +0000 T-Mom 1173463@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Bad to worse!! DH gets so hot and sweaty when he sleeps.. IRunForFun on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173461 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 20:47:05 +0000 IRunForFun 1173461@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I guess we sleep like we just had a fight! I like to sprawl out on my stomach and he's a back sleeper, but we will usually have a leg, foot, or hand touching the other person to stay connected. We can't sleep all cuddled up because I get too hot! MrsScallop on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173440 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 20:39:49 +0000 MrsScallop 1173440@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I prefer young woman and oldman, like old couple (being the small spoon), but we usually end up at relationship getting bad to worst because DH thinks I give off too much heat at night. Although, right now it is even worse and he tends to sleep on the couch because of working all night/me bringing LO into bed early in the morning :( mrskc on "Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-prefer-to-be-the-big-spoon-or-the-little-spoon#post-1173438 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 20:38:56 +0000 mrskc 1173438@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We start out as either old couple or old man & young woman sleeping style then we end up like relationship getting bad. Lol we like our space when we sleep!