https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 28 Apr 2026 20:18:45 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794903 Mon, 20 May 2013 09:11:41 +0000 Turd Ferguson 794903@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hahahah, I'm the person that deletes evvvveryone. I went from 600+ "friends" down to 105. There's been a few people that have tried to "friend" me again, and I just ignore it. I personally wouldn't be offended (unless it was like, my best friend or sister or something, and even then I'm sure they'd be in the process of deleting their facebook or something), and I'm not a huge facebook-er in the first place. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794900 Mon, 20 May 2013 09:11:22 +0000 Mrsbells 794900@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: Sometimes I think they may have deleted me by mistake </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794894 Mon, 20 May 2013 09:10:33 +0000 DillonLion 794894@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I delete people all the time...so no, it doesn't bother me when someone else does the same. I figure they don't care to see my updates/life events, that's fine. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794888 Mon, 20 May 2013 09:09:01 +0000 TheReelDeal 794888@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I actually haven't noticed when people deleted me, but like Modern Daisy said I've noticed when I've been put into a certain category and can't see specific things on people's pages, etc. While I understand what people are doing, don't accept a friend request from someone you don't want to see what's going on. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794878 Mon, 20 May 2013 09:06:27 +0000 rawrasaur 794878@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MediaNaranja: Haha, same. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794876 Mon, 20 May 2013 09:06:02 +0000 Modern Daisy 794876@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I haven't noticed anyone delete me yet (even though I'm sure it's happened), but I have noticed that people put me into a different friend category where I now can't see most status updates or write on their walls. It usually happens right before someone has a baby or makes a big announcement that I find out about anyway, but just can't see through FB. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794872 Mon, 20 May 2013 09:05:21 +0000 SugarplumsMom 794872@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yup. A one of my close friend's close friend's deleted me and a bunch of our mutual friends when they had a falling out. It was weird cause she was commenting on my pics one day and all of the sudden she cut (all of us off). There must be others, but with them I didn't notice. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794859 Mon, 20 May 2013 09:01:21 +0000 Alivoo01 794859@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I probably wouldn't notice since I only read the News Feed on FB and don't actively post or follow people. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794839 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:54:27 +0000 avivoca 794839@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't notice. I recently deleted a bunch of people (those from college/high school that I'm not really keen on) and I hide a bunch of stuff from certain people. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794827 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:51:41 +0000 MrsKoala 794827@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It has bothered me a couple times because it didn't really make sense for them to delete me but I got over it. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794826 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:51:30 +0000 LuLu Mom 794826@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I guess I've never really noticed? I had one girl from HS delete me, but we never really got along so I laughed about it more than anything. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794825 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:50:48 +0000 looch 794825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I noticed for a while, now I don't worry about it anymore. I also don't delete, I just hide them. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794824 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:50:47 +0000 2PeasinaPod 794824@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would say it depends on the person. Most I wouldn't care, but if it were someone I was close with and they deleted me out of the blue, I would worry! I probably wouldn't notice for a really long time though! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794820 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:50:02 +0000 babynumber1 794820@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I never notice. I also never delete people, I hide tons of people though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794814 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:47:30 +0000 doxielove 794814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I only get annoyed if the person who deleted me was the person who added me in the first place. It's like, why even add me then? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794779 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:34:27 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 794779@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't notice. I'm not very active on Facebook. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794773 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:31:49 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 794773@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mostly I don't notice. There was one very immature person who made a big to do about it, and after that I was very glad that she made the decision to defriend me!</p> <p>Edited to add: Do you defriend people? I never do! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794756 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:21:22 +0000 nana87 794756@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sure I've been defriended and didn't notice, and in those cases I def do not take it personally (esp since I didn't notice!). but I did take it very personally when it was my ex-best friend... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794754 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:19:58 +0000 Bao 794754@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah depending on the person. If it's someone I try and "keep up" with and notice I am no longer friends with them, it makes me wonder why. I do delete people sometimes, but only if it's someone that added me so long ago and we never even had a conversation, likes, comments etc...in that case, that doesn't bother me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794748 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:18:17 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 794748@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I noticed when my MIL and one of my SILs removed me from FB. I thought it was weird, and I won't friend them again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794744 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:15:35 +0000 Boheme 794744@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No not really. I go through phases of purging people from my own account too, just because I like to keep my Facebook pretty private. I mean, as private as you can be on something like Facebook. So I just chalk it up to the same when people delete me because I rarely post, much less post anything offensive. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794739 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:13:24 +0000 MediaNaranja 794739@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, even when it's an old college acquaintance that I haven't spoken to in six years, ha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794733 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:11:11 +0000 Anagram 794733@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Generally, I don't think I even notice if people delete me. Like...my former sister-in-law (she and my brother were married, and are now divorced) apparently deleted me, but I didn't even notice until she refriended me with a long explanation of how it was just too hard to see updates that might have my brother in them, etc., so she'd had to temporarily delete me.</p> <p>I was like...oh....well.....I didn't notice, but I'm glad you are feeling better about everything, or something else equally lame. It was super awkward. </p> <p>I did notice recently that my little sis defriended me on Facebook, but I can't say that's a suprise, because she's mentally ill and goes through paranoid phases that we're all out to get her. So I don't feel bad about that---I still have her phone number and all. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794731 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:08:08 +0000 kjpugs 794731@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>YES, not with family (that's weird!) but there is ONE that bugs me beyond belief. A mutual friend that I hung out with occassionally deleted me off her FB and I NEVER knew why. It still bothers me to this day because I see my friends interact with her and I just want to be like, WHAT DID I DO? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-take-it-personally-when-people-delete-you#post-794716 Mon, 20 May 2013 08:03:09 +0000 sorrycharlie 794716@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>my "cousin" - our parents grew up together - just returned from his tour in Afghanistan on Saturday. His mom was posting updates from the waiting area for his plane - and when I went to post to his wall to welcome him back and say thanks, I was a little confused to see that he deleted me! haha! </p> <p>I didn't add him again cause I wasn't sure what was going on, and didn't want to be awkward. I posted on one of his Mom's videos to welcome him back instead :)</p> <p>has this happened to anyone else before? </p>