https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 07 May 2026 01:36:54 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723542 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 11:53:17 +0000 Littlebit 1723542@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsLipGloss: @blackbird: 100% agree with both of you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723531 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 11:48:10 +0000 Cole 1723531@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For the most part yes. I don't run straight to him with every gory detail and occasionally I fail to mention that I bought us each a cookie at the bakery and then ate both... But for the most part I tell him everything. If someone asked me not to I wouldn't and if it is a situation where it gets awkward due to us being friends with a couple I will probably not tell him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723495 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 11:31:23 +0000 sunny 1723495@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty much. But if someone asks me not to share it with my husband, I will honor their wishes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723489 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 11:29:06 +0000 lizzywiz 1723489@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope.<br /> Like my friend from a while back who had an affair? He doesn't need to know that and form half-baked opinions about a woman he barely knows. It isn't fair to her and besides, a confidence is a confidence. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723460 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 11:19:17 +0000 travelgirl1 1723460@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. I value my friends a lot, if they tell me a secret I won't risk damaging that friendship by telling DH. He's very much of the mindset that if they want him to know, they'll tell him, otherwise it's none of his business. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723457 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 11:18:59 +0000 Meridian 1723457@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, I always feel like I can't keep anything from him or I'll burst! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723431 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 11:10:00 +0000 Alivoo01 1723431@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yup! If I don't think he cares, then I don't share, but if we talk about something regarding that topic, it might come up then. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723361 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:46:11 +0000 yerpie110 1723361@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty much. It's understood between us and our friends who are married or in serious relationships - if one knows, assume the other does, too. The only times I don't is if I'm specifically asked not to repeat something, if I forget, or if it would just bore DH. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723332 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:35:55 +0000 regberadaisy 1723332@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pui: exactly. </p> <p>Everyone that knows us knows that if you tell one something it means the other knows. If we were explicitly asked to not share that we will honor their wishes.</p> <p>I'm not saying I immediately run and tell my husband everything that someone tells me! But if I know there's a good chance my husband will know. That's just the way our relationship works. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723321 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:31:38 +0000 MsLipGloss 1723321@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@grizz: what PP account . . . ? *wink* *nudge* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723320 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:31:30 +0000 Caly 1723320@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Depends...for the most part there's an understanding things are shared with SO's. However, there are things I use my discretion on and don't share for a variety of reasons. If they ask that something not be shared, I'm a steel trap. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723319 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:31:16 +0000 MsLipGloss 1723319@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Smurfette: @blackbird: I agree. I value the friendships I have, and just because DH and I are married doesn't mean that we need to share a brain, too. I think the disclaimer *if you're telling me you're telling my hubs too* is a lame cop out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723315 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:30:35 +0000 night cheese 1723315@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. If a friend asks me specifically to keep something a secret, I won't tell my husband - just like I wouldn't want my friends to tell their spouses if I told them something in confidence.</p> <p>Also, my husband couldn't care less most of the time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723314 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:30:20 +0000 .twist. 1723314@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Smurfette: Totally. Sex &amp; Vajaja talk is a no go. and my husband REALLY doesn't care about what goes on in my friends bedrooms/panties. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723309 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:29:17 +0000 Boheme 1723309@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I also don't tell my husband when I buy baby wraps. My PP account is my secret money :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723308 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:28:30 +0000 Smurfette 1723308@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@blackbird: I agree vagina and sex talk stays between us ladies. Some things I don't need to tell DH. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723303 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:27:31 +0000 autumnlove 1723303@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not always. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723300 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:27:11 +0000 Mamaof2 1723300@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope - he doesn't need to know everything I know </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723296 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:26:18 +0000 blackbird 1723296@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not always. He really doesn't care and I value my friendships so I keep my trap shut :)</p> <p>I think it's shitty that if I tell my girlfriend something secret/personal, I have to assume she'll blab to her husband. But most of my big secrets are woman stuff, so I really hope she's not telling her husband all about my vagina :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723294 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:26:08 +0000 Synchronicity 1723294@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Bookish: LOL I have kept the occasional Starbucks secret, myself :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723292 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:25:32 +0000 MrsBrewer 1723292@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, I would say 99.9% of the time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723290 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:24:40 +0000 mlm2934 1723290@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i tell him 98% of everything. most of my friends assume telling me a secret includes DH knowing and vice versa - if they told me not to even tell DH, I wouldn't. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723287 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:23:24 +0000 LuLu Mom 1723287@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not always, sometimes it's a women to women thing, and I think those don't need to be shared. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723283 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:22:36 +0000 Bookish 1723283@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty much. I won't tell him that I bought Starbucks this morning, though :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723282 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:22:29 +0000 Synchronicity 1723282@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Most of the time, I share with him. If someone specifically asks me to keep it just to myself, and it doesn't affect him or our relationship at all, I will definitely respect their wishes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723275 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:21:50 +0000 Boheme 1723275@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not always. If a friend tells me something in confidence, I don't tell him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723274 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:21:45 +0000 Adira 1723274@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty much. Although Hubs doesn't care about a lot of things, so if I know it'll just bore him, I don't bother, haha. But my BFF and I have talked about how all our secrets are shared with each other's SOs, so we just assume that if we tell each other something, their SO will know it too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723268 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:20:06 +0000 matador84 1723268@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mostly. Some stuff he just doesn't hold interest in so I don't tell him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723262 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:19:09 +0000 illumina 1723262@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. There are things that my parents have told me that they wouldn't appreciate if I told my DH.</p> <p>I also think the other way around that if I told a friend something in strict confidence I wouldn't be happy thinking they would tell their OH straight away. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-tell-your-so-everything-1#post-1723261 Thu, 26 Jun 2014 10:19:06 +0000 .twist. 1723261@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty much. There are certain things I know DH just wouldn't care about so I don't tell him. There are also certain non-harmful serious things that my BFF has told me that I have kept secret for her. Things that make me LOOOOL but embarrass her to no end. (and vice versa) </p>