https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 28 Apr 2026 13:23:34 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-about-your-los-future-a-lot#post-61070 Fri, 27 Jan 2012 06:56:21 +0000 Rubies 61070@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think about what she'll be like as a toddler, child, teenager, young adult, etc. I *worry* about things like peer pressure, bullying, and self-esteem. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-about-your-los-future-a-lot#post-61063 Fri, 27 Jan 2012 05:39:43 +0000 Andrea 61063@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'll have a passing thought and wonder but I don't spend a lot of time focusing on it. I feel confident that she has a great future ahead of her because we are doing everything we can in the present to help her get there. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-about-your-los-future-a-lot#post-61053 Fri, 27 Jan 2012 04:46:04 +0000 mrbee 61053@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I find that if I worry about things I can't control, I quickly go insane! I used to be terrible at this, but am slowly getting better... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-about-your-los-future-a-lot#post-61041 Fri, 27 Jan 2012 00:25:01 +0000 sunshine44 61041@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I try to live in the moment but its so hard to. I often find myself watching her play and I think if any of her traits at 6 months will carry on into her adolesence. I can't wait to see the person she becomes and I worry only that I will not be able to give her all the tools she needs to be a good human being. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-about-your-los-future-a-lot#post-61032 Fri, 27 Jan 2012 00:06:27 +0000 MamaCate 61032@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think about those things too, especially since i was a goody two shoes with the stuff artbee mentioned while my husband was a little more trouble. I hope she ends up like me! I am excited to watch her personality emerge and evolve... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-about-your-los-future-a-lot#post-61020 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 23:50:53 +0000 HabesBabe 61020@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I actually don't think about stuff like that at all-- one of my friends asked me a similar question the other day, and I was just thinking about taking things one day at a time. </p> <p>I think it's because I see myself as more of a "baby mom" than a "kid mom," which is the opposite of the hubs. He can't wait until Pony baseball starts! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-about-your-los-future-a-lot#post-60978 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 21:17:30 +0000 MsMamaBear 60978@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, I worry about her having sex or getting pregnant young...ironic since I didn't have her until I was 30.LOL </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-about-your-los-future-a-lot#post-60427 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 12:00:52 +0000 PastaAndPotato 60427@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>we're not even pregnant yet, and think about our future LO's future a lot! i worry about a lot of things (like you listed, sex, drugs, drinking, etc), and then just generally wonder what our children will be like </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-about-your-los-future-a-lot#post-60407 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 11:52:52 +0000 heffalump 60407@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm always thinking about what my LO will be like when she gets older. My hubby and I are a lot alike and I wonder if she'll follow our footsteps and be like us or be someone completely different.<br /> I don't care either way as long as she's healthy and happy... although I do hope she's at least a little like me because I was a good kid- didn't do drugs, smoke, have sex too young, etc. I get pretty terrified when I start thinking about that stuff and my LO!</p> <p>Do you think about your LO's future a lot, or do you just live in the moment? </p>