https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 25 Apr 2026 07:58:37 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-546369 Sat, 02 Feb 2013 20:15:47 +0000 holdonforonemoreday 546369@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rainbow Sprinkles: LOL </p> <p>I am definitely the same, as I've had two c-sections. Prob tighter, as there has been no nookie for quite sometime... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-546052 Sat, 02 Feb 2013 14:11:48 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 546052@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Like a hot dog in a hallway. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-546035 Sat, 02 Feb 2013 14:01:58 +0000 Weagle 546035@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BabyBoecksMom: Aahh... There is hope! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-545907 Sat, 02 Feb 2013 11:33:49 +0000 MrsRcCar 545907@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am definatly tighter. DH and I joke that they put an extra stitch for good measure. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-545736 Sat, 02 Feb 2013 07:58:23 +0000 MamaMoose 545736@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. If anything I'm tighter. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-545692 Sat, 02 Feb 2013 02:08:52 +0000 luckypenny 545692@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel like I definitly am. I can hardly orgasm from sex when it used to be that I could 3+ times sooo easily :( wayyy less sensitive too</p> <p>Wahhhhh! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-545683 Sat, 02 Feb 2013 01:40:42 +0000 sarac 545683@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Lozza: Yeah, I was pretty pleased. I got really lucky in that department. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-544568 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 14:54:51 +0000 cyndistar3 544568@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I only pushed one near 9 lb baby out but I am pretty sure I am just as tight as before if not more since cracking down on kegels! I pushed for almost an hour and had no tears though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-544524 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 14:46:06 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 544524@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>At first, it was super loose, but now it seems like it's tighter than it ever has been... which can make things uncomfortable sometimes. </p> <p>@Weagle: I had a super small tear on the inside and it still hurt me 6 months in. My doctor said it takes longer to heal if you're breastfeeding because of the low levels of estrogen. It will get better - I promise! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-544510 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 14:43:30 +0000 Lozza 544510@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sarac: Agreed- things are actually more comfortable now :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-543854 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 10:55:28 +0000 Weagle 543854@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Opposite for me. I had a 2nd degree tear. Apparently my OB is a great seamstress. It's still pretty painful 9 months pp. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-543827 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 10:45:12 +0000 littlebittyhouse 543827@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Opposite for me too - second degree tears. Feels like the first time, every time! The things we do for our babies! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-543778 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 10:29:01 +0000 mrsmenow 543778@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>After the first two I honestly felt tighter, although I bet we were DTD a lot less often. We haven't DTD since DD 3 was born. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-543768 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 10:26:20 +0000 mediagirl 543768@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sure it was at first but now...let's not discuss the lack of us time due to well...you know....</p> <p>(humming Madonna....) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-543759 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 10:24:38 +0000 yin 543759@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pushed for almost 3 hours with a 6 lbs baby with no stitches. It's tighter, and I have no clue how that is possible. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-543550 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 09:43:48 +0000 cascademom 543550@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Opposite for me. I had second degree tears. The attending OB stitched me really well. My husband and I joke about getting that extra "re-virgin" stitch. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-543476 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 09:23:17 +0000 rachiecakes 543476@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: 'I choose sleep' - meee too!</p> <p>quite the opposite. I had a million stitches from a giant episiotomy, it's like I'm born anew! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-543449 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 09:16:21 +0000 mrs. wagon 543449@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs.B: haha EXACTLY this.</p> <p>I am so like you @chopsuey119: 2 8+ babies pushed out the vagine (hehe), pushed 3 hours with the stuck #1 and #2 came out in 15 mins! </p> <p>At first it was DEFINITELY looser, so loose that I was afraid my internal organs were gonna spill out. I was seriously freaked out and my OB confirmed that my bladder was really low, but that was normal and not concerning at all. Now things are so tight and dry that I dEFINITELY choose sleep.... poor WS. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-543438 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 09:13:24 +0000 MaisyMay 543438@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't think so. I pushed for less than 40 minutes, and had a second degree tear with one stitch. When we got involved, it felt fine, even snug. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-543429 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 09:10:08 +0000 Mrs.B 543429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>At first yes it was loser but now at 4 months pp I'm almost tighter then before. We rarely get frisky because I usually choose sleep so maybe that has helped tighten it back up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-543382 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 08:59:17 +0000 heffalump 543382@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So far I've only pushed one.... I think I bounced back :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-541726 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:37:15 +0000 DillonLion 541726@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. But I'm only 9 weeks PP so I'm hoping things are still tightening up? Hopefully? Please Lord?</p> <p>The first time we DTD after she was born I had zero pain whatsoever. So I guess that is a good thing. But I've been doing kegels ever since.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-541677 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:28:43 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 541677@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: that's what DH says! Thanks OB:) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-541554 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:12:15 +0000 Bao 541554@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: haha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-541544 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:10:36 +0000 sarac 541544@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! But it is a positive for me - I was too tight before. I pushed for 2+ hours. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-541492 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:02:53 +0000 sorrycharlie 541492@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, it's so painful now because its the exact opposite! I think OB did too good a job fixing the tears.. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-541446 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 19:55:33 +0000 autumnlove 541446@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, but I had a C-section. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-541421 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 19:52:17 +0000 Running Elley 541421@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sweet T: @FutureMrsMcK: Same!!!</p> <p>I was surprised but the answer is no! I pushed for less than half an hour though. Not sure how much that comes into play. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-541409 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 19:49:58 +0000 lovehoneybee 541409@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sweet T: Same here, haha!</p> <p>I was so worried that when we had sex post-baby it would be like pushing a vacuum down a hallway, but I was very very happily mistaken! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-think-youre-looser-down-there-post-baby#post-541401 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 19:48:50 +0000 Sweet T 541401@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, I actually think it's the opposite. </p>