https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 07 May 2026 03:45:02 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1025278 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 19:36:56 +0000 SleepyMonkey 1025278@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>if i'm drunk too, then its ok :) if its just him and he sleeps on the couch (he snores MASSIVELY when he is drunk and i am a light sleeper) then i'm ok with it! we both like to drink and he has dealt with me being drunk a bunch of times. i am worse than he is and he's so good at dealing with me. he is pretty controlled even when he is wasted. i haven't been wasted in over a year though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1025139 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 18:09:23 +0000 anonysquire 1025139@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. bird: only because I'm terrified of vomit. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1025125 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 18:04:11 +0000 Cherrybee 1025125@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Officially, it wouldn't bother me if he got silly drunk but deep down it would (Id never let on to DH because he rarely goes out without me and he deserves his fun). It bothers me the morning after when he's hung over and refusing to do anything! </p> <p>DH is super sweet when he's merry though so I can't be mad at him! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1025106 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 17:52:08 +0000 jh524 1025106@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it depends on how drunk he got. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024963 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 16:53:17 +0000 winniebee 1024963@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If it was a planned night out and I knew about it, I wouldn't mind. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024956 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 16:51:10 +0000 nana87 1024956@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My first thought was no i wouldn't mind, but I voted other bc there have been times where he went out while i was home studying, and I found it annoying because he'd be all chatty and I would be stressed out and tired. But that's more me being jealous that he was having fun while i was working than anything else, haha. Generally I do not mind him going out with the boys, it makes me feel less guilty bc in grad school I don't take much time off, even nights/weekends, and I don't want to make him feel cooped up because of me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024785 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:55:27 +0000 Running Elley 1024785@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: Smart!! We're totally implementing this rule!</p> <p>I'd be upset. However, it's not the drinking or night out that I care about. I'm 100% fine with DH having a good time with friends! My problem is that when he does this its on a night when he doesn't have to work the next day. On days that he doesn't work I count on him to help with LO or at least be alive enough to even just be with us since we don't see him much during the week. When he gets drunk he is totally out of commission the next day. He expects me to feel sorry for him and basically just let him sleep all day long which is usually the opposite of what we were planning for the day. </p> <p>Luckily he doesn't go out and get drunk like this very often, maybe 2-3 times a year. The ideal scenario would be going out, getting a good buzz and still being fine the next day. I would have no problem with it at all. It's the playing 30 games of beer pong, etc and getting absolutely wasted that pisses me off. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024758 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:48:16 +0000 JennyLayneAZ 1024758@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I voted other. It really depends on my mood whether I'd be bothered or not LOL Usually I don't mind, as he doesn't go out and get wasted often. (as in, its been a few years?) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024755 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:48:05 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 1024755@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Dh has been sober since just before I met him (5 years now). It would really bother me if he was drinking! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024725 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:40:40 +0000 lovehoneybee 1024725@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>As long as he wasn't driving (as in, had a ride home that wasn't me having to pack up a light-sleeping baby to pick him up) and it wasn't happening all of the time (Once or twice a month? Fine. Once or twice a week? Not so fine.) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024707 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:37:06 +0000 Mrs. Pen 1024707@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, but because that's not him at all and he NEVER gets drunk. Ever. so I would be very worried if he did. It'd be very out of character.</p> <p>He told me he's only been drunk once in his life and it was before we met. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024695 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:32:43 +0000 Dandelion 1024695@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pui: me either...I've been drunk, but never blacked out, and never did something so stupid as that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024694 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:32:30 +0000 cascademom 1024694@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH got trashed recently at his company party. I had my company party the day before, only had a beer and a half. When DH was trashed, it had been so long since he's done a lot of social drinking that I found it hilarious. Especially hilarious was his request for "one chicken taco." So funny. I got him gatorade, tacos, and got him to bed. I had sushi by myself as he slept off his hangover. Hilarious! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024686 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:30:43 +0000 pui 1024686@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Dandelion: I've never been close to that drunk... how do you get so drunk that you pee on your own belongings!? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024674 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:28:59 +0000 Dandelion 1024674@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It wouldn't bother me with DH, but he wouldn't ever do it.</p> <p>My ex, though...not long before we split, he came home wasted one night and completely missed the toilet...by an entire room. I was so mad that he peed all over our bedroom carpet. I told his entire family and anyone we knew, because I wanted him completely humiliated about it. At least he peed all over his paintball gear, too, which was a point of contention in our relationship. Serves him right. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024671 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:28:00 +0000 Vegmama 1024671@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Bookish: I'm the same as you!! Guy's nights rarely happen here, so if it does, it's fine. :) Plus, I'd rather just be at home with a book and a warm bath!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024593 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:09:38 +0000 HabesBabe 1024593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wouldn't bother me in the slightest-- as long as he and his friends are safe; no sweat off my sack. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024572 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 15:05:55 +0000 swurlygurl 1024572@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, it wouldn't bother me. He works hard and rarely makes time for his own fun. I actually encourage him to go out and have fun! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024535 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 14:59:05 +0000 deerylou 1024535@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH and I don't really drink in excess anymore - our wild days came to an end before we started dating one another, and we've only seen the other drunk a small handful of times. He's really chatty when intoxicated, and will repeat the same story several times. If anything, I would be more irritated listening to him ramble, and would probably just lock him in the bathroom with a pizza and a jug of water to talk to himself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024523 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 14:56:58 +0000 regberadaisy 1024523@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If it was a planned guys night and he was not driving? No. Granted it doesn't happen all the time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024518 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 14:56:16 +0000 heffalump 1024518@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The only time DH has gotten drunk since I've met him was his bachelor party. He doesn't even have a sip of alcohol, ever. So yes it would bother me if he got drunk.... because it would just be weird for me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024507 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 14:53:38 +0000 Mrsbells 1024507@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I dont drink at all, and he may occassionally have a drink at a work event but he has never come home drunk so I havent had to worry about this </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024500 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 14:51:54 +0000 mrsjyw 1024500@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. Dh got rid of his get drunk days before we met and is really good about his limits even tho he is a tank. He's respectful on guys nights and rarelt stays out superlate either. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024409 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 14:26:24 +0000 CottonCandy 1024409@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HLK208: My words exactly! I just don't think its appropriate for a parent to get sloshed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024320 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 14:07:48 +0000 kjpugs 1024320@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sometimes DH has to burn off some steam (he's in the restaurant industry) and I am totally fine with it... as long as: 1) he isn't SHWASTED- that's not attractive at any age let alone 31. (He's gotten like that once in the last few years and he was so embarassed- it was due to him drinking on an empty stomach and I was with him sober driving.) 2) he has a safe way to get home and is with trustworthy people. 3) It's not an ALL THE TIME thing. 4) It's his own $$, not him blowing off steam on our family dime.</p> <p>I think it's situational... but like you put in the poll if he's safe that's mostly what matters. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024303 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 14:00:24 +0000 mrskc 1024303@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Doesn't bother me as long as he is being safe. He actually did this a couple months ago. went out with the guys and came home lit up. It was comical. It's a very rare occurrence for him though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024298 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 13:58:03 +0000 mrs. bird 1024298@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: why do you have to babysit him to make sure he doesn't throw up? if he has more alcohol in him than his body can process, the natural response is to vomit to avoid absorbing more and having complications from overconsumption. in this case vomiting, as long as it's not aspirated, is a good thing! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024290 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 13:55:23 +0000 Littlebit 1024290@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It doesn't bother me at all. He also handles hangovers REALLY well so the next day isn't really a concern either. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024277 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 13:51:07 +0000 DillonLion 1024277@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It is kind of a loaded question since DH is an alcoholic</p> <p>If he wasn't, no it wouldn't bother me as long as it was communicated that those were the plans and he didn't drive </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-it-bother-you-when-your-so-gets-drunk/page/2#post-1024273 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 13:50:18 +0000 autumnlove 1024273@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Doesn't bother me if he is safe...even if I have to pick him up! </p>