https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 01 May 2026 01:19:20 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-378239 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 23:03:47 +0000 Baby Boy Mom 378239@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsaudi: ditto! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-378203 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 22:25:18 +0000 Mrs squirreld 378203@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He's does if I ask. I find it hard to relax though. On the other hand I LOVE giving them- even own a massage table! So DH gets them often... I love the oil smell, the relaxation music... And ofcourse touching my husband ;-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-378202 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 22:20:29 +0000 mrsjyw 378202@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep! Just got a back rub! I think his incentive (outside of pregnancy) is he likes them from me too ;P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-378199 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 22:17:07 +0000 lovehoneybee 378199@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Constantly when I was pregnant, occasionally otherwise. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-378177 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 21:58:20 +0000 yoursilverlining 378177@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yup :) almost every day. He brushes my hair too, which I like more than a massage! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-378108 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 21:12:26 +0000 Meridian 378108@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: He's usually just teasing me!! Meanie, haha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-378055 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 20:27:23 +0000 mrs. bird 378055@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@highwire: DH is the same way about feet. They gross him out to no end!</p> <p>He will, but usually when he wants something else ;) or if I'm sore he will, but those ones huuurt! They are productive though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377984 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 19:46:44 +0000 DillonLion 377984@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: says he isn't a 'foot person'. If I had ugly feet I might understand but they are pretty as far as feet go, in my opinion... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377982 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 19:45:49 +0000 Turd Ferguson 377982@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ohhhhh yes. Pretty much almost nightly if he's around. It's fabulous. He's a winner. :D </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377969 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 19:35:00 +0000 mrbee 377969@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sweetchic: Haha does he really "pretend"? Or does he just not want to do both feet!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377966 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 19:33:58 +0000 DigAPony 377966@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, if I ask! I give him back massages pretty frequently too, though my hands get sore really fast. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377965 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 19:33:49 +0000 mrbee 377965@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@highwire: Why won't he touch your feet? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377956 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 19:24:38 +0000 Mrs. Bee 377956@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes he does! I have a lot of tension in my shoulders. I don't reciprocate because its easier for him with his big hands and my small shoulders and hard for me with my small hands and his big shoulders. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377953 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 19:22:32 +0000 DillonLion 377953@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Very rarely we give each other back massages. He will not touch my feet, which depresses me to no end lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377919 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 19:00:46 +0000 chopsuey 377919@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He does, but his massages hurt me! So I only ask for them when I really need one </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377914 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 18:56:54 +0000 Foodnerd81 377914@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not nearly enough. More likely he will give me a super fast, like, 1 minute one, and then claim he is tired. He promised me one like 4 nights ago and I'm still waiting.<br /> I always feel like my feet are too stinky to enjoy a foot massage! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377898 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 18:43:42 +0000 lawbee11 377898@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>All the time! He gives me back massages at least a few times a week. And we have a deal that if I am watching sports with him, he has to give me a foot massage, so I get those a lot, too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377890 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 18:34:21 +0000 Meridian 377890@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He gives the most amazing foot massages!! Sometimes he'll pretend that he only wants to do one foot, and then I have to beg him to do the other! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377859 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 18:12:39 +0000 Springtime 377859@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He will do it if I ask! Foot rubs are my favorite so he tries to do them often but he always complains after a few minutes how his hands hurt lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377829 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 17:55:18 +0000 Mrs. Tricycle 377829@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He likes them, so he knows I need a occasional one if he's to get anything in return. :) I love foot rubs, but DH read something about foot massages sending women into pre-term labor, so he's refused to do them during the last 9 months. I can't wait to hit 40 weeks so they can resume again! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377826 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 17:54:14 +0000 glimmersnaps 377826@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When I was pregnant he gave me one almost every day. Otherwise, just occasionally. </p> <p>:) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377824 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 17:53:11 +0000 autumnlove 377824@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope but he scratches my back occasionally if I ask! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377819 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 17:51:46 +0000 PurplePumps 377819@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine rarely does. He didn't do it much when we were dating either so he likes to remind me that there was no false advertising. On the contrary, I used to a lot when we were dating, and now I don't as much... so it may be worse in his shoes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377815 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 17:50:16 +0000 MrsH 377815@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Backrub with a doctors note or lots of puh-leases. Either way they don't last very long.</p> <p>No way would he ever give me a foot rub. Maybe if KUed, we shall see. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-dh-give-you-massages#post-377812 Sun, 04 Nov 2012 17:48:39 +0000 MrsTiz 377812@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine does not. At all. He didn't when we were dating so i'm not expecting them to start anytime soon, my sisters SO will walk up behind her and start rubbing her shoulders for no reason, it's sweet.</p> <p>What about you guys? Foot or back massages happen in your house? </p>