https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 01 May 2026 15:47:44 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2331909 Fri, 23 Oct 2015 15:01:27 +0000 autumnlove 2331909@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty even right now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2331902 Fri, 23 Oct 2015 14:59:58 +0000 MrsLonghorn 2331902@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>dada all the way right now (13m)! Most of the time, he will let me do stuff...but if he sees/hears dada somewhere else in the house, he immediately melts down until dada comes into the room with him. He is also oscillating between super clingy and super independent - I pretty much always guess wrong, and that is met with screaming/flailing until he gets what he wants. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2331888 Fri, 23 Oct 2015 14:49:51 +0000 Smurfette 2331888@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Right now I think it is pretty even. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2331885 Fri, 23 Oct 2015 14:48:50 +0000 Truth Bombs 2331885@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Um, whichever parent is the opposite of what she's getting. Seriously, if I tell her daddy is doing bed time she cries for me, if I tell her I'm doing bedtime, she cries for daddy. Little stinker. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2331868 Fri, 23 Oct 2015 14:42:16 +0000 snowjewelz 2331868@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me! She always prefers me in her almost 11 months of living :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2331857 Fri, 23 Oct 2015 14:37:49 +0000 Thrifty Mama 2331857@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mama's boy here! DS has a complete meltdown if I leave the room (even if I'm just down the hall) and prefers me over daddy anyday. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2329575 Wed, 21 Oct 2015 20:43:08 +0000 fancyfunction 2329575@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>She's been having a major mommy preference for the past few weeks. It started around the time she started preschool. She's almost three and up until now, I've always been with her - never did a drop-off type class. I'm also 21 weeks pregnant, which she understands (as much as she can) so not sure if that has something to do with it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2329569 Wed, 21 Oct 2015 20:41:32 +0000 Mae 2329569@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>YUP. Team Mommy all the way. My LO has big issues if I'm home and not with her (like if DH tries to play with her in another room so I can cook or clean or just not be toddler wrangling). She also sobs every time DH takes her to bed. </p> <p>But I feel like somehow she is ALSO more attached to DH too. She recently started running to him and wanting to be picked up the second he gets home from work, which is new. And she she loves hanging with him if I'm totally out of sight. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2329549 Wed, 21 Oct 2015 20:29:36 +0000 travellingbee 2329549@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ugh all mommy right now which sucks when I'm so big and pregnant. Won't let daddy take him to the potty in the middle of the night :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2329547 Wed, 21 Oct 2015 20:28:47 +0000 LovelyPlum 2329547@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We've currently switched from Daddy's Girl to Team Mama, all day, every day. Today's the first day she willingly went to DH without a fight in a long time. Mama's exhausted. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2329546 Wed, 21 Oct 2015 20:28:15 +0000 lawbee11 2329546@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Maybe a tiny preference for me. But she's mostly into both of us! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2329541 Wed, 21 Oct 2015 20:25:17 +0000 Foodnerd81 2329541@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mommy, all day every day. Poor DH gets almost no affection. The only way to get her to hug or kiss him goodbye is to make a game of us kissing her back and forth, first mommy, then daddy, and on and on. So at least he gets that. And she will let him sooth her back to sleep in the middle of the night. :grin: </p> <p>Basically she's fine with him but would always prefer it be me. And it's exhausting for me and doesn't feel very good for him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2329537 Wed, 21 Oct 2015 20:22:33 +0000 twodoghouse 2329537@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Major mama attachment right now. They have always been team mom (ahem, team boobs) but they are going through some major separation anxiety lately. They've also become a little possessive about sharing me with each other and a couple times lately A has tried to push B off my lap when we are all snuggling together before their nap. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2329530 Wed, 21 Oct 2015 20:19:20 +0000 jhd 2329530@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mama all the way. And he's been sick this week which means I cannot leave him for even 10 seconds without tears. Poor Daddy! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2329526 Wed, 21 Oct 2015 20:17:12 +0000 lovehoneybee 2329526@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>#TeamMommy</p> <p>He's started allowing D to go in, change his diaper and put him back to bed when he wakes up at 4-5AM, though, so I got that going for me :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-lo-have-any-strong-parental-preference-right-now#post-2325842 Wed, 21 Oct 2015 20:15:00 +0000 mediagirl 2325842@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Currently we're pretty well split, which is nice! </p>