https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 10 May 2026 12:52:30 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-nannychildcare-worker-ever-make-you-feel-bad#post-569153 Fri, 15 Feb 2013 15:24:01 +0000 cascademom 569153@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sometimes. She offers suggestions so that LO will be be behaved at daycare. At one point, he wasn't being too social or independent. She encouraged us to put him on the playmat and do laundry. Once we did that, he got a lot better. She encourages us about his sleeping patterns as well so that everyone is well rested. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-nannychildcare-worker-ever-make-you-feel-bad#post-569141 Fri, 15 Feb 2013 15:20:51 +0000 autumnlove 569141@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, a part time worker commented on how much my belly has grown since the last time she saw me (8ish weeks ago?) and she told me to not neglect LO when the baby is born. Thanks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-nannychildcare-worker-ever-make-you-feel-bad#post-569111 Fri, 15 Feb 2013 15:00:54 +0000 mediagirl 569111@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Today I took her in and after her primary care provider said how cute she looked, she told me that "they always have a hard time crawling around in dresses." Uh...sorry? I almost wanted to tell her to feel free to change her into one of her other outfits when she did a diaper change next. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-nannychildcare-worker-ever-make-you-feel-bad#post-569086 Fri, 15 Feb 2013 14:50:24 +0000 mrsjazz 569086@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not on purpose, of course. But do they every say something to you that sets off the Mommy guilt?</p> <p>Once our nanny asked why LO wasn't wearing a onesie under her shirt. It was a cold day, but LO was in a long shirt, her winter coat, and her bundleme and was going to be in a warm home all day. I kept wondering if maybe I should've put something on her and if she was cold.</p> <p>I send LO with boots sometimes and I noticed she's never wearing them when we pick her up so I just stopped putting them on and today she said, "Where are her boots? All the other kids at the Y are crawling around with their boots on and your LO is the only one with socks?!"</p> <p>I know these are so minor but I felt guilty about it for most of the morning. Does this happen to you? </p>