https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 07 Aug 2026 20:57:48 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1353600 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 14:16:16 +0000 lilyann 1353600@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We've been together since I was 17 (he was 18), so we know the majority :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1353542 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 14:02:12 +0000 Pancakes 1353542@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Wagon I'm completely an oversharer too! I think sometimes he wishes that I didn't share as much as I do. He, on the other hand, is a much more private person. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1353536 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 14:01:16 +0000 Crystal 1353536@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>All the important stuff! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1353528 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 13:59:38 +0000 nana87 1353528@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't think there is anything I've intentionally not told him. He doesn't/never wanted to know much about my past relationships, so he doesn't know everything but that's by his choice. The biggest thing he doesn't know is that I had a huge crush for years (middle school through college) on the son of a family friend; nothing ever happened with the guy though, and if he doesn't want to know about relationships, it seems silly to tell him about an unrequited crush that disappeared when I met him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1353296 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 13:19:21 +0000 Anagram 1353296@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Aimed: tha's similar to us. We met when we were both 30, so we definitely lived a lot before we met each other. I don't think either of us are *ashamed* about our pasts, it's just....water under the bridge. You can't catch someone up on 30 years of your existance. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352622 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 11:12:35 +0000 mrs. wagon 1352622@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! I'm an oversharer. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352601 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 11:08:16 +0000 Lozza 1352601@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, not at all, and we're happy that way!<br /> We're actually totally open about past relationships- I didn't really have any of note (and DH doesn't really have any interest in the ones not of note), and DH's history before me wasn't exactly extensive or sordid, so occasionally I'm curious and ask questions and he has no problem answering.<br /> I can't off the top of my head think of anything that I'd directly lie to DH about if he asked, but there's plenty I don't voluntarily share either because it's not relevant to our lives now and it's embarrassing (like when I cheated on a test in high school) or because DH isn't really into extensive emotional processing or overanalyzing, so he has no interest in hearing my thoughts and feelings on every subject ever (I have friends who indulge me in this instead, much to DH's relief). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352598 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 11:07:50 +0000 Ginger333 1352598@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, I'm an open book - but we've also been together since we were kids (15) and in the 20 years since, we've had a lot of time to talk :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352561 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 11:03:32 +0000 HabesBabe 1352561@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, there are some things better left unsaid (or kept for myself). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352463 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:48:23 +0000 LovelyPlum 1352463@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Probably not every little detail, but he knows most things. Occasionally, something will come out that surprises one or the other of us, but we are very open with one another. Both of us have had moments that we're not proud of, but we don't hide them. We don't bring them up regularly, but I'm glad that we've talked about them at least once. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352445 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:45:19 +0000 illumina 1352445@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not everything. We don't know every detail of each others' past relationships, just a few odd details. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352427 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:42:30 +0000 cyndistar3 1352427@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We have been together since I was 14 so whatever little past I had he knows about it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352425 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:42:16 +0000 mrsjyw 1352425@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty much everything. Inside and out. Anything my memory recalls, he knows. LOL :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352419 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:41:52 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1352419@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hope not! I love learning new things about each other as the sharing comes out organically.</p> <p>We have shared alot and I am amazed at what he remembers , but he most certainly does not know everything. If we spent more time with my friends and a certain cousin he would definitely know the origins about a few things. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352414 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:40:53 +0000 Smurfette 1352414@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. We don't talk about our past relationships. I don't want to know how many people he slept with. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352395 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:37:59 +0000 Aimed 1352395@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, we met as adults in our 30s so it's probably not even possible or desirable to know everything. I feel like for me, it's good to have pieces of our life that are just yours. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352378 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:35:14 +0000 Alivoo01 1352378@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mamaof2: LOL @ your stripper comment. I'm sure your husband about had a heart attack after learning your drug use.</p> <p>There's SOME things DH doesn't know about me, and it's not that I don't want to share with him. The topic hasn't come up for us to discuss it. When it does, I share. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352347 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:27:59 +0000 yoursilverlining 1352347@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! Both of us led, ahem, full lives before we got together and neither have any interest (or see any upside) in sitting down and going over every detail. The past is the past :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352340 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:26:28 +0000 Mrs. Deer 1352340@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@loveisstrange: same! Together since 17, known each other since we were like 12. Doesn't leave a lot of room for the unknown :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352317 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:23:08 +0000 yellowbird 1352317@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! He really hasn't asked too much about my past. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352297 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:18:34 +0000 loveisstrange 1352297@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Um... probably? We've been together since we were 18, so... yeah. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352295 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:18:20 +0000 Anagram 1352295@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>nope. And I like it that way. </p> <p>I don't have any deep, dark secrets...but I just prefer a "don't ask, don't tell" policy when it comes to past relationships. For both of us! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352288 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:17:12 +0000 MapleMoose 1352288@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, we've been friends since middle school and together for 10 years so there's no secret past for us. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352280 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:15:32 +0000 Ash 1352280@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty much! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352269 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:13:26 +0000 MrsBrewer 1352269@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have to say no. I'm not hiding anything from him, and he knows more about me than anyone else on the planet. But there are certain things I just don't feel comfortable sharing with anyone truthfully.</p> <p>I have to admit though, I have been really wanting to talk to him about it, but I just haven't worked up the courage. I know it wouldn't affect our relationship at all.....it's something completely with me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352252 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:10:07 +0000 Ra 1352252@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh, yes. I am an open book. We both are chronic over-sharers so we know all about each others past and past relationships. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352251 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:09:47 +0000 mrs. bird 1352251@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, and I don't know everything about him. We're okay with that as long as they are things we know the other wouldn't want to know. Like his number, I don't wanna know! He is more curious about things I haven't offered than I am. I do think if your partner asks, you should answer honestly unless it's something you really aren't comfortable talking about, in which case I think it's okay to say so. But I don't feel compelled just to tell him everything that's ever happened to me just because we're married. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352247 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:09:19 +0000 snowjewelz 1352247@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mae: Same w/ you, I asked a lot of details about his past relationships to be nosy, but he didn't (maybe it's a man's pride? haha) and I'm not about shove the details on him! I think if something important/major happened in those relationships I would've told him already. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352246 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:08:56 +0000 Littlebit 1352246@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, he doesn't. I'm not hiding anything huge, but I don't see the need to go over my life history with a fine tooth comb or anything. He doesn't see the need either. In fact, some of what he does know he probably would rather he didn't. I'm a nervous talker ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/does-your-so-know-everything-about-you#post-1352237 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 10:07:45 +0000 T.H.O.U. 1352237@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yea I agree we don't talk much about past relationships. </p> <p>He does not know how much I have a shopping addiction. </p>