https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 10 Apr 2026 04:23:53 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834590 Tue, 17 Jul 2018 20:23:26 +0000 LAZB 2834590@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was never told what percent chance I had of getting pregnant with such terrible numbers and endo and a luteal phase defect, but I’d imagine pretty low. And yet I’ve been pregnant five times. I’m just saying, if you feel at peace with leaving it up to chance, that’s wonderful, but if not, there must still be some hope. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834589 Tue, 17 Jul 2018 20:19:20 +0000 pachamama 2834589@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@dc yoga bee: I got told I had less than 5% and I got pregnant 3 times. 🙃 my second RE was so much wiser and realistic- like Stardust, she's like, "we are not going to waste our time with IVF and IUI injectables were unsuccessfully before. You might just need a little push (clomid) and we'll keep it as natural as possible because thats what works." However, I didn't want to do clomid or the IUI (I'm terrified if twins and I truly had no faith it would work in my case) and I got pregnant that month. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834584 Tue, 17 Jul 2018 19:51:21 +0000 dc yoga bee 2834584@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: she is gorgeous! Just to give you hope I got pregnant with my daughternaturally after 13 months. Then started trying when she was 9 months to include two rounds of clomid once we hit the year mark. Nada. Another year almost and I got pregnant again naturally after the HSG again. I miscarried at 8 weeks in April. My RE was really pushing IVF and then IUI and we said not at this time. Especially because I’ve been pregnant twice naturally (same month as hsg) we decided to do one more round of clomid and the RE said what makes you think it will work when it hasn’t before? I said you keep telling me I have 4% chance of naturally conceiving yet I’ve done it twice. I think I’ll habe faith. And I got pregnant. It’s still really early but you never know. Best of luck, we will be thinking of you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834546 Tue, 17 Jul 2018 13:21:31 +0000 LAZB 2834546@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: she is beautiful! I’m sorry this has been such a tough road </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834545 Tue, 17 Jul 2018 13:20:23 +0000 Stardust17 2834545@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CatchAFallingStar: that’s amazing!! Yes, I see an RE but he hasn’t gone into those options (injectibles that is). I will definitely bring it up at my next appointment. Thank you for the advice! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834544 Tue, 17 Jul 2018 13:19:16 +0000 Stardust17 2834544@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pachamama: aww thank you!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834236 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 13:35:34 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2834236@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: I’m almost 40 and my AMH was .29 when they checked it right before my IUI that gave me our little 4-month-old girl. It was a little better 4 years ago with our first daughter, but still not great. We did injectable Menopur and a trigger with both girls and both IUIs worked the FIRST try! Our insurance covered a lot of it, surprisingly. Are you seeing an RE? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834234 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 13:30:07 +0000 pachamama 2834234@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>And your daughter is gorgeous. She could be literally a twin of my son. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834233 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 13:28:07 +0000 pachamama 2834233@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: ugh hun I'm really sorry. Especially because your hopes were up so much. Not what I wanted to hear. Mourn a little (doesnt mourning every 4 weeks suck?) Then make yourself a little plan. If you want to message more email me <a href="mailto:lserbalik@gmail.com">lserbalik@gmail.com</a> (I can't figure out the HB wall) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834230 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 13:12:10 +0000 Stardust17 2834230@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CatchAFallingStar: I have an AMH of 0.27 and a high FSH. We have thought about IUI and while it’s definitely more reasonable in price, I’m just afraid it won’t work and will have wasted the money. My prognosis isn’t great but at the same time, I had my daughter (and more than likely my AMH was this low then but we didn’t know) and I got pregnant last November with just tracking ovulation...on our 1st try. Sadly we lost the baby at 8 weeks. It gave me a hope that seems a bit unfair at times but now I’m just racing the clock. I say this is our last round and mostly believe that but if another opportunity seems like we need to act, then we would.<br /> What other injections are there? I’m not a good candidate for IVF. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834225 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 12:47:48 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2834225@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: she's gorgeous! Have you thought about IUI and injectable meds? What's your infertility diagnosis? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834219 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 12:25:36 +0000 Stardust17 2834219@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CatchAFallingStar: no need to...AF arrived today. I’m just not going to use those particular tests anymore. This will be our last round of Femara and trigger shot. After this, it’s solely up to God. It’s never easy but I feel like we’ve done our best and it’s just not meant to be so far. We have a beautiful, healthy daughter and she has been the best thing I’ve ever done! Fingers crossed that this is our month! </p> [attach=8833/18/pbyz2o.428x600.496F536C-AA78-4126-8C0E-0C07F3F6B3DC.jpeg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834218 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 12:21:49 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2834218@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: have you tested again? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834011 Sat, 14 Jul 2018 19:17:11 +0000 pachamama 2834011@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Tuesday good Lord girl, you have self control. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834009 Sat, 14 Jul 2018 18:28:55 +0000 Stardust17 2834009@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pachamama: there’s a vvvvvfl on the white ones but it didn’t show up until hours later so I guess I can’t count it just yet....God give me the patience!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834005 Sat, 14 Jul 2018 17:42:16 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2834005@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: Tuesday? Wow. You are patient! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2834004 Sat, 14 Jul 2018 17:41:52 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2834004@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: there’s definitely a line on the top one! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833987 Sat, 14 Jul 2018 12:42:16 +0000 pachamama 2833987@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: my gauge was always, "is it absolutely snow white?" Like immediately I could tell if a test was negative. I always think if there's anything at all it's positive. (I always used Amazon cheapies and found them to be very sensitive). On my phone I can't see anything in the bottom one but can you see something? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833944 Sat, 14 Jul 2018 05:44:41 +0000 Stardust17 2833944@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pachamama: if I don’t start my period by Tuesday, I’ll buy a FRER! 💕 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833942 Sat, 14 Jul 2018 05:27:43 +0000 Stardust17 2833942@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So here’s this morning...top one is Walmart (supposedly infamous for evap lines??) and bottom is dollar tree. Both with the same FMU and results didn’t show up right away.<br /> Also, my last cycle started 6/18 and was 3 days, had peak ovulation on 6/30 and we BD on 6/26 and 6/30 (but it was almost midnight).<br /> I’m not testing anymore until Tuesday unless AF rears her ugly head.<br /> Thoughts?? </p> [attach=8833/18/pbuqe8.450x600.E5158D72-BE2B-4DFD-84ED-B61CABFF1BCE.jpeg] [attach=8833/18/pbuqe9.450x600.CD267E6C-972B-4AEF-8076-ECE6F9CB2B7B.jpeg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833934 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 23:25:40 +0000 peachykeen 2833934@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: That statistic sounds crazy to me! I think 11dpo is early to average, actually! Fingers crossed for you - anxious to see an update :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833886 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 18:44:12 +0000 crazydoglady 2833886@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've had evaps on those before, so it's really hard to say. I hope for your sake that it is a BFP! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833875 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 17:12:08 +0000 Foodnerd81 2833875@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: 11 dpo is definitely not late in the game. Fingers crossed for you. It’s so hard to think about anything else when you are testing and retesting! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833850 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 13:49:12 +0000 pachamama 2833850@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>And I always tested in the afternoon for whatever reason. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833848 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 13:47:40 +0000 pachamama 2833848@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Stardust17: my heart hurts thinking of how bad I want this for you! that one with your ring is too shady but the 7-13 4am one I can definitely see it! Can you please go buy a frer?!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833846 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 13:35:55 +0000 Stardust17 2833846@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pachamama: on both??? Girl, I’m so torn over this, you know my story. But today this has been exceptionally hard b/c my husband actually saw the first test’s results and was so excited...not to mention, I’m just 3 weeks shy from the date of my miscarriage’s due date. So 11 DPO isn’t too late in the game?? I’ve read that by now, 80% have BFP. My heart just hurts. I want this so bad but each month it gets harder </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833844 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 13:31:51 +0000 pachamama 2833844@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I see something! 11dpo for me was also really really faint. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833797 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 11:49:32 +0000 Stardust17 2833797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So I grabbed a dollar store test and here are my pics...I’m going to test again in the am with cheapie and if I see anything I’ll do a FRER....but my test at noon, I don’t see anything. AF is due anytime really but I haven’t been regular. </p> [attach=8833/18/pbtdek.450x600.E30C42F0-CAF6-434E-B3B9-392777E361B2.jpeg] [attach=8833/18/pbtdel.450x600.DE930E2E-D14D-4485-B8DD-E5D5C32DBC5B.jpeg] [attach=8833/18/pbtden.450x600.EDC343E8-BC4C-4371-A3B3-C2C9A91DD1F5.jpeg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833796 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 11:48:47 +0000 Stardust17 2833796@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So I grabbed a dollar store test and here are my pics...I’m going to test again in the am with cheapie and if I see anything I’ll do a FRER....but my test at noon, I don’t see anything. AF is due anytime really but I haven’t been regular. </p> [attach=8833/18/pbtddc.450x600.E30C42F0-CAF6-434E-B3B9-392777E361B2.jpeg] [attach=8833/18/pbtddd.450x600.DE930E2E-D14D-4485-B8DD-E5D5C32DBC5B.jpeg] [attach=8833/18/pbtdde.450x600.EDC343E8-BC4C-4371-A3B3-C2C9A91DD1F5.jpeg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/evap-or-bfp#post-2833793 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 11:40:01 +0000 psw27 2833793@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I see it! :heart: </p>