https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 02 May 2026 09:46:56 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2522885 Tue, 12 Apr 2016 18:45:38 +0000 snowjewelz 2522885@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@catomd00: hahaha happy birthday! *unfriend*</p> <p>I also need to start unfollowing a lot of random mom groups I joined! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2522834 Tue, 12 Apr 2016 17:47:32 +0000 catomd00 2522834@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@snowjewelz: haha so liberating isn't it?! I use people's birthday as an opportunity to give them the gift of not being fb friends anymore, since it's easy enough when it pops up on the sidebar lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521627 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 14:57:34 +0000 Ajsmommy 2521627@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@regberadaisy: he doesn't know. It's a made up name. It's someone who had access to his pictures... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521622 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 14:55:24 +0000 Torchwood 2521622@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, because even if you had privacy settings that stopped it, they can take a screenshot and crop it to just the picture. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521604 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 14:46:10 +0000 regberadaisy 2521604@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ajsmommy: someone, as in one of HIS friends?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521583 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 14:31:57 +0000 Ajsmommy 2521583@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm about to declutter my friends list too! Yesterday one of my friends found out someone had taken his pictures and made a.profile with a different name but used ALL of my friends pictures...many of which included his 2 yr old dd!!!!!! The profile pic was of him and his dd!!! So creepy. He reported it to fb and to the police. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521555 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 14:17:54 +0000 Adira 2521555@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoyfulKiwi: Restricted friends can only see things that are Public or things they are tagged in. If you share a photo with your "Friends", someone who is your friend but on your Restricted list won't be able to see it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521546 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 14:09:59 +0000 regberadaisy 2521546@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoyfulKiwi: oooh good question and I agree! I'm going to say no because most times when I see a friend LIKE something it's usually a) something public or b) a mutual friend and I can see whatever they like. I've never had a scenario where a friend liked something, I went to click on it and couldn't see it after the click. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521531 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 13:59:46 +0000 JoyfulKiwi 2521531@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So I have a question. If you put someone on "restriction", like a MIL, but a mutual friend who's not on restriction, like her dsighted/my SIL, likes the picture, will it show up to MIL because it's telling her that SIL liked it? I see photos of randos constantly because one of my friends "liked" that person's picture. It weirds me out and I wish Facebook would create better/easier privacy options. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521419 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 13:03:23 +0000 snowjewelz 2521419@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@psw27: Do it!! It feels really good! Part of me keeps thinking oh now I can't be nosy! But I think it will help cut down the time I browse on FB too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521412 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 12:58:15 +0000 catlady 2521412@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What is up with ILs who want to share everything? My SIL and MIL do this as well. MIL is in the habit of sharing every photo of LO that I post, and SIL takes photos of my LO whenever she sees us and posts them herself (we had a talk with her because she was posting photos that we had texted her so she specifically asked if she could at least post photos that she took herself and since we said yes, she now does it every single time we see her). The worst is when SIL will share an old photo that she took of my LO (like with TimeHopper) and then MIL will re-share it. Argh!</p> <p>Honestly I would love to get off facebook all together but it's the only way that I'm in contact with some of my family members so I feel like I should stay on there. I already barely post anything anymore. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521376 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 12:06:34 +0000 avivoca 2521376@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just added people to a restricted list. Like my SIL, who announced H's name well before she was born (we keep names off of FB until birth) and likes to share my pictures with her stupid friends. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521370 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 12:02:47 +0000 psw27 2521370@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Argh. My FIL is the worst about this. I won't even get into my "pregnancy announcement' that he created and made for me.... by the way, I never did a pregnancy announcement on FB.... I think you did the right thing by restricting her! </p> <p>@snowjewelz: I need to do this. You have inspired me. I have so many people that I say "who is this?" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521356 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 11:53:21 +0000 Mrs. Champagne 2521356@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm pretty sure you can make a picture "visible to friend, except...." And add people you don't want to see them. I did this for my sister for a few pics when she was annoying me w comments! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521352 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 11:48:39 +0000 MrsB2012 2521352@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm the same as you, my privacy is locked down really tight and I keep my friends list really tight.<br /> My mil was sharing every.single picture I posted. Pictures of just me, of my kids, everything. So I put her on a restricted list so she can no longer see my private pictures. It's worked well for me and I haven't had any further issues :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521331 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 11:35:38 +0000 regberadaisy 2521331@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@snowjewelz: hahah YOU GO GIRL! I regularly do that. :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521328 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 11:33:37 +0000 snowjewelz 2521328@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You just inspired me to unfriend 200+ people :shocked: </p> <p>So many people I just don't actually talk to IRL. I was pretty ruthless! I feel like I can unfriend more but there are people that I kinda want to follow and don't think they're creepy or would do annoying/bad things... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521131 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 09:01:36 +0000 cascademom 2521131@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would take the restricted friends list approach. I believe that you can also set the audience for your picture albums too. You can restrict her that way. My MIL used to do this all of the time until I did this. Even for my Shutterfly share site, I have to where the pictures can't be downloaded. My MIL was horrible about this. I found out about it when she sent my DH a USB memory stick of pictures. I found all of these pictures I never sent her on there. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521118 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 08:54:41 +0000 sorrycharlie 2521118@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We text messaged C's first ultrasound photo (10.5 weeks) to my husband's brother. Later that day, his girlfriend uploaded it to Instagram and Facebook. I was SO mad! He had no idea she even did it - when my husband confronted him (BIL) he was embarrassed and made it delete it. She thought we were over reacting. DF, dude.</p> <p>But yeah. If she has access to your page she can just screenshot and crop if she's that whacked and desperate haha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521106 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 08:46:15 +0000 regberadaisy 2521106@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@catomd00: @Smurfette: @skipra: So, I did a little digging and put her on a restricted friends list. Basically, we will still be FB friends but the only things she will see are public items. It's not as extreme as defriending her.....but I also don't care if she's a little offended that she's now restricted. Since we aren't even technically family anymore! A little dicier when it's grandparents or sibling in laws though. :/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521060 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 08:02:35 +0000 MoonMoon 2521060@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's just so horrible. Why do people think posting other people's pictures is a good idea? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521040 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 07:24:33 +0000 Smurfette 2521040@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>my SIL does this all the time. It really pisses me off. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521036 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 07:19:26 +0000 Alba4 2521036@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That action merits a defriending in my book!!! I defriended a colleague because she shared my birth announcement of my son ( she also is friends with many current and former students in FB). I was livid. Not cool. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521033 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 07:14:19 +0000 skipra 2521033@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh and I wouldn't recommend it if you want to maintain a relationship with her but if you really want the photos down you can report them to FB as unauthorized pictures of minors. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521031 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 07:11:40 +0000 regberadaisy 2521031@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@looch: 😂😂😂 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521030 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 07:11:25 +0000 skipra 2521030@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. I have vented several times over SIL doing the same thing. We asked nicely for her not to do it and she completely blew up. She is blocked on FB now because she started posting pics of me and my kids (on the rare occasions she saw us) and blocking me from seeing them. Best you can do is explain the privacy thing and ask her to stop and remove the pics. A lot of people just don't care about it so be prepared just to block her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521025 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 07:08:54 +0000 looch 2521025@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What if you posted the photos with those icons on them, you now, like a pair of cartoon sunglasses over their eyes? It might be a lighthearted way to show that you don't want all that out there. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521021 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 06:59:22 +0000 catomd00 2521021@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No you can't prevent people from saving unfortunately. That's really weird and obnoxious she would do that! If you could prevent it, people could always screenshot anyways. I'd just block her from seeing our pictures. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/facebook-picture-privacy#post-2521020 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 06:56:56 +0000 regberadaisy 2521020@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I will preface by saying my account is private and I am pretty ruthless about accepting friend requests and deleting people I haven't had social media or IRL interactions in a while.</p> <p>That being said. I'm friends on FB with the ex wife of DH's uncle. Yesterday was my MIL's birthdays and I posted some pictures of the celebration. She took one of my pictures (with MIl and my 2 girls) and posted it on her FB. I'm assuming she saved the picture to her phone and then posted it because it wasn't a share. Which she's done before. Ugh. This annoys me because I don't know what kind of privacy she has or the people she's friends with. Obviously there's nothing I can do about what has already happened.</p> <p>Going forth, is there anyway to set my FB so people can't save my photos?<br /> I will probably just put her on a separate friend list that doesn't see my posts any more! 😁 </p>