https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 23 Apr 2026 10:56:31 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2071339 Mon, 16 Feb 2015 07:58:45 +0000 mrsjyw 2071339@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've never fallen out of love with DH, but definitely fallen deeper throughout our relationship! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2071335 Mon, 16 Feb 2015 07:54:40 +0000 Mrs.KMM 2071335@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hard to really fall in love all over again when I've never fallen out of love with DH. Sure - there are ups and downs but nothing anywhere close to falling out of love. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070709 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 14:22:48 +0000 nana87 2070709@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't know if it's really falling in love all over again, but I've definitely gone through periods of taking dh and our very comfortable, easy-going relationship for granted, and then snapping back to appreciate it more than before. Like, I spent a summer abroad about a year and a half ago while I was conducting dissertation research, and it caught me off guard how terribly I missed being with him every day. It was sort of a jolt to our relationship, at least for me! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070698 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 14:06:06 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2070698@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I always heard that a key to a lasting mmarriage is never falling out of love at the same time. But, I like this idea of falling in love all over again. I hope that happens soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070671 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 13:13:37 +0000 msplatypus 2070671@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think dealing with PPD and seeing how strong and amazing my partner is has made me fall in love with him all over again. We've been together for 9 years, we were very young to and it's wonderful that we were able to grow together. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070664 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 13:05:31 +0000 Torchwood 2070664@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would say it's more falling deeper in love, but yes, I think I do that. He's just so damn amazing. :) I can't wait to see him as a daddy! I definitely already appreciate and love him more than I did when we got married (almost 6 years ago), and everything feels like it's just always getting better, even in bed. I kinda worried that after over 10 years together, things might get boring, or we'd run out of things to talk about, or something, but he's my favorite person in the whole world, all the time. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070659 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 13:00:11 +0000 snowjewelz 2070659@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When we became parents I def loved him in a new light seeing him be a daddy and a supportive husband to me! Seeing him so tender with our DD brings tears to my eyes! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070644 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 12:34:02 +0000 youboots 2070644@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mamimami: I would consider it more a deepening and maturing of a already happy love. We have grown up a lot in our marriage. We started dating at 19 &amp; 20, engaged at 21 &amp; 22 and married the next year. Now we are 30 &amp; 32, are in the second home we bought together, M has done really well in his career that he started after we got married, we have traveled, have two dogs that we have had so much fun with that are 10 &amp; 6 and within a few weeks will be first time parents. We have truly built a life, I hope that we are able to grow as much in our relationship in the next 10 years. But I look back at our relationship when we got married and I am so much more in love now. But it was not a certain thing, just doing life together makes me love him more. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070589 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 11:24:48 +0000 yoursilverlining 2070589@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>After LO was born, I definitely loved DH in a new and different way. Of course everyone thinks their marriage will last and works towards that, but knowing that with a child we were really now bound together for life was a different feeling for me. Kind of hard to describe, but I would say that that was a newer kind of love feeling. I think love-feelings do ebb and flow over the years. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070573 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 11:12:20 +0000 blackbird 2070573@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think over the past 10 years, we've had in and out phases while maintaining a constant basis of loving each other. I wouldn't call it being out of love so much as having stages of complacency maybe? Offset by stages where you're more enamored? I'm not really a romantic but every relationship has some ups and downs. I think the longer you're with someone, the more you'll see this. Don't couples of 40+ years always say this? Someone of under 5 years may not yet have hit that</p> <p>Every now and then, I'm just caught off guard by something DH does and it just does something for me (in a good way) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070553 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 10:38:19 +0000 mamimami 2070553@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mae: Haha, I appreciate your honesty! It's OK not to be dramatic ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070546 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 10:34:23 +0000 Mae 2070546@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>....no? lol. I mean I don't think I'm prone to thinking of our relationship in such dramatic terms. We have ups and downs like anyone. I think the there has been an overall trend towards our relationship getting better and my loving him more and more. But I don't think its like I fall out of love and back into love. I think its just that sometimes we annoy each other for a while then we get over it and remember there is no one we'd rather be annoyed by :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070523 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 10:11:15 +0000 JerricaBenton 2070523@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think I have. First was when we got our puppy - dh was kind of a wild child and I was amazed at how devoted he was to caring for the little guy. I always thought he'd be a great father but seeing him with the dog made me see how great. Then again when we had LO and it was like the puppy times ten! He is so patient and loving and wants to help all the time - definitely made me fall in love again :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070511 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 10:01:35 +0000 Mrs. Lion 2070511@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I honestly think I have...watching him with our LO as a new daddy, and then again watching the way he stepped up and took over all of my responsibilities with the house and LO while I have been on bed rest through my third trimester. I don't know if I would say I "fell" in love again, but I can pinpoint moments where my appreciation and respect of him definitely deepened. &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/fallen-in-love-with-your-spouse-more-than-once#post-2070506 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 09:58:02 +0000 mamimami 2070506@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Happy Valentines + 1! You've probably heard people say that in a successful and lasting marriage, we have to fall in love again and again with our spouses.</p> <p>Have you fallen in love more than once with your spouse? Why? Was it something purposeful or did it just happen? i.e. Did you TRY to make it happen? </p>