https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 23 Apr 2026 20:33:49 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/family-planning-timing-wwyd#post-1957218 Sun, 23 Nov 2014 21:53:44 +0000 sarac 1957218@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, and honestly, that doesn't get easier. The longer we went on, the further away from diapers and nursing and up all night I got - the less I wanted to. I was actually ready to just call it one and done, but my husband really wanted more. I wish I could have managed it when my daughter was younger - life might be a little less fun now, but we'd be closer to the time when both kids were old enough to be easier. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/family-planning-timing-wwyd#post-1957193 Sun, 23 Nov 2014 21:34:41 +0000 littlejoy 1957193@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel you! It's such a hard call. For us, we're letting finances be our excuse for waiting. We were financially prepared for #1, and that made things easier. Since we don't have quite the cushion in the bank now, we're letting that drive our timeline. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/family-planning-timing-wwyd#post-1956941 Sun, 23 Nov 2014 17:43:55 +0000 cait 1956941@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, I'm currently pregnant but we'd previously decided to wait to TTC for #2 for a more couple years!! The baby fever won out 4 months ago and we ditched the BC. :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/family-planning-timing-wwyd#post-1956921 Sun, 23 Nov 2014 17:07:37 +0000 Applesandbananas 1956921@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah. We are pretty undecided about 1 or 2 and the main reason is because we are in a good groove and just can't rock the boat. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/family-planning-timing-wwyd#post-1956842 Sun, 23 Nov 2014 15:24:50 +0000 beloved 1956842@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hi ladies ! I've been a long time lurker and fairly quiet since joining but thought I would post today and get your opinion on timing</p> <p>We have one child now and have a loose plan to TTC in about a year. This makes the most sense for us for a few reasons. LO #1 will be in school every day at that point and it just seems more manageable. LO 1 would also be much more independent a year from now </p> <p>With that said- I can't quit thinking about it NOW. I LOVED and miss being pregnant. Each month I toy with the idea of losing the birth control and just going for it ! </p> <p>My main hesitation is that we seem to be in such a sweet spot right now. I worry about rocking the boat ! Anyone else in the same scenario or have been ? </p>