https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 14 May 2026 00:11:53 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/feeling-sad-and-guilty#post-1287389 Tue, 17 Dec 2013 18:14:07 +0000 birdofafeather 1287389@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>hugs. sorry you're feeling down. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/feeling-sad-and-guilty#post-1287375 Tue, 17 Dec 2013 18:05:02 +0000 Ash 1287375@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I second what @Kate6214: said... whether you already have a child or not, you lost a baby and feeling sadness and hurt is normal and okay. *hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/feeling-sad-and-guilty#post-1287373 Tue, 17 Dec 2013 18:04:05 +0000 Crystal 1287373@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: Hugs. I hope you get a sticky baby soon. </p> <p>Something about the winter makes the loss of a baby that much harder, I think. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/feeling-sad-and-guilty#post-1287372 Tue, 17 Dec 2013 18:03:02 +0000 Kate6214 1287372@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think the holidays make it hard. Christmas was when we were going to announce the gender. </p> <p>I don't think it should matter that you have another child. You still lost one. And it's ok that the loss hurts. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/feeling-sad-and-guilty#post-1287369 Tue, 17 Dec 2013 18:00:42 +0000 swedishfish 1287369@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: Hugs. Hopefully your next sticky baby will come soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/feeling-sad-and-guilty#post-1287345 Tue, 17 Dec 2013 17:46:02 +0000 mrs. tictactoe 1287345@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So, it's been 4 months since our loss and I'm having a really sad day today. I'm sad that we lost the pregnancy and I'm sad that I'm still not pregnant (on 3rd round of clomid). Then, I feel guilty for being sad because we have an amazing child who I love more than anything and I should just be happy with him.</p> <p>Does anyone else feel this way? I'm sure I'm not alone, but feeling like it today, for some reason. </p>