https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 13 Apr 2026 11:10:12 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1247188 Wed, 27 Nov 2013 11:48:25 +0000 pui 1247188@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sarac: Well I don't orgasm by sex alone. I still very much enjoy sex, but I don't orgasm every time we do it and this was the same before we started TTC. I need more time/extra stimulation to orgasm. I am still very happy with our sex life. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1246078 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 23:56:19 +0000 loveisstrange 1246078@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Haha, I remember having one, but was too damn drunk to even be aware of when it was in relation to his. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1246008 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 22:57:17 +0000 sarac 1246008@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh, I assumed the question just meant 'did you have an orgasm', not how it happened. Believe me, I get penetration not being all you need. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1246002 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 22:54:27 +0000 ScarletBegonia 1246002@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sarac: As @princessandthebee said, just because the orgasm didn't occur within minutes of his doesn't mean the sex was unsatisfying! I have real difficulty getting there through penetration alone, and the best times are when my husband takes care of me first and then we take of him. Through many years and many partners I've realised that is by far what works best for me, and luckily it is what works best for us! Don't be bummed out for all of us that answered no! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1245982 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 22:39:08 +0000 Mae 1245982@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jmarionsmith: best answer ever. </p> <p>For me, yes. After. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1245966 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 22:25:47 +0000 Mrs. Cookie 1245966@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ScarletBegonia: Same!</p> <p>@sarac: Just because I don't orgasm doesn't mean our sex is sad or not fun in the least! Women's bodies are all so different. I orgasm mostly clitorally not vaginally. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1245665 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 19:57:23 +0000 sarac 1245665@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Woah, the poll results are bumming me out. We've spent years trying to conceive our daughter and a future child, and I was utterly set on not turning our sex life into some sad, transactional thing. Sex that I did not enjoy fully would not be an option for me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1245423 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 17:29:39 +0000 Cole 1245423@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LittleLashesToes: I have been curious about this too, thanks for asking! On The Great Sperm Race they say one of the advantages of female orgasm is that it raises the pH of the woman's cervical mucus which makes for a more hospitable environment for the sperm. So if the pH thing is true it is a benefit no matter when it happens, I would think the contractions part would help mostly if it was at the same time or after his... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1245385 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 17:15:23 +0000 LuLu Mom 1245385@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have no idea...how do you ladies remember this stuff!? haha I'm not sure which time we even conceived LO, we were in the Bahamas.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1245201 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 16:21:12 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 1245201@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rainbow Sprinkles: well, aren't you a lucky lady!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1245197 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 16:20:23 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 1245197@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jmarionsmith: haha!! Made me laugh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1244982 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 15:27:15 +0000 photojane 1244982@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, and we got pregnant the first try. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1244972 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 15:24:50 +0000 Vegmama 1244972@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep. Before his ... </p> <p>Scientifically, I've heard the spasms in the vagina &amp; cervix area after an orgasm can help facilitate the sperm into the uterus. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243923 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 11:18:04 +0000 Shutterbug 1243923@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jmarionsmith: hahahahaha so perfect. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243656 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 09:41:21 +0000 HLK208 1243656@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jmarionsmith: bahahahaha</p> <p>I did all three times we conceived (it's rare that it doesn't happen...unless I'm pregnant). It was also before everytime. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243645 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 09:36:23 +0000 Alivoo01 1243645@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jmarionsmith: hahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!</p> <p>I know I did, but can't recall if it was with or before his. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243528 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 09:13:22 +0000 Kimberlybee 1243528@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jmarionsmith: LOL!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243499 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 09:02:46 +0000 winniebee 1243499@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jmarionsmith: hahahhaha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243439 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 08:35:41 +0000 Mrsjets 1243439@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This one yes, with DS no. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243436 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 08:33:44 +0000 littlek 1243436@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jmarionsmith: LOL.. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243433 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 08:31:14 +0000 Adira 1243433@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jmarionsmith: LOL!!!! &lt;3</p> <p>I did. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243419 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 08:18:05 +0000 Happygal 1243419@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jmarionsmith: coffee out the nose. This made me laugh! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243410 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 08:13:08 +0000 jmarionsmith 1243410@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i had an iui, so that would have been awkward... ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243403 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 08:08:20 +0000 Happygal 1243403@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>There have been no "gold standard" studies that show this is true, but I see the logic behind it. If you orgasm normally during intercourse, then it's a fun thing to aim for. But if that's going to put extra pressure on things, then don't stress about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243348 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 07:03:26 +0000 Ra 1243348@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. I don't orgasm from sex. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243298 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 03:49:21 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 1243298@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, both times. I'm lucky and have never DTD with DH without orgasming. Usually at the same time as him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243286 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 02:48:55 +0000 ScarletBegonia 1243286@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>nope! I hardly ever orgasm when we are having sex - he usually takes care of me first...so i know its not a requirement! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243284 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 02:38:36 +0000 Penny Lane 1243284@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>first time no, second time yes, after his. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243271 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 02:16:04 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 1243271@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@lovehoneybee: good to know! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/female-orgasm-and-conception#post-1243268 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 02:06:19 +0000 lovehoneybee 1243268@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I didn't. Neither of us had been feeling well, and it was more of a "get it done" that time (and I know it was that time because it was the only time we managed during that fertile window). </p>