https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 21 Apr 2026 02:59:23 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393739 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 15:04:56 +0000 pui 1393739@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsSCB: This is what I thought. The first article says there was no protocol that would have prevented the firefighters from acting. My first thought also was that it may have been a liability thing, but that doesn't seem to be the case. </p> <p>I still am wracking my brain for why they didn't help. I would really like to know what they were thinking. If anyone has an article showing more of their point of view, please share! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393715 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 14:39:49 +0000 indi 1393715@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: Same. I would personally feel compelled to act, but I'm just a civilian. As an attorney reading the article, though, my first thought as to why they would have hesitated went straight to confusion about their role and liabilities at play. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393319 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 10:03:56 +0000 mrbee 1393319@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Maysprout: I hope it doesn't seem like I am advocating for ignoring people in peril. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393292 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 09:46:28 +0000 Maysprout 1393292@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsSCB: Thanks, I was starting to feel crazy for thinking it was odd to think of liability issues in the face of someone dying. My friend and I were hit by a car a couple blocks down from a fire station. They were there so quick, there was no way it had gone through some sort of relay. I was fine but my friend looked bad (she ended up recovering fine) and I was thankful they came so quick, I can't imagine them just standing and watching.</p> <p>@mrbee: In the remote possibility that they sued and won - I could deal with that better than knowing my husband could have helped and instead stood and watched someone die as people asked him for help. I'm not sure our marriage could recover completely from knowing that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393024 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 01:41:49 +0000 MrsSCB 1393024@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: I've been pretty upset by this story, tbh, because of personal experience. A guy in front of me at a subway stop collapsed and was pretty clearly having a heart attack. I didn't know CPR at the time (definitely do now) but I just immediately dropped my suitcase and started racing up the stairs yelling for help. Other people also stopped what they were doing to help. Having seen that and how frantic people were, I just can't imagine standing around doing nothing, knowing someone was having a heart attack. I guess it may not be as terrifying for firefighters who have seen things like it before, but I'd hope that medical professionals wouldn't get so jaded by emergencies that they no longer feel the urgency. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393020 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 01:35:34 +0000 mrbee 1393020@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsSCB: Just trying to see the other side to it. I'd hope I'd do the right thing too!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393017 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 01:32:22 +0000 MrsSCB 1393017@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: well first of all, this may all be a moot point because according to this article there are no regulations in place that would have officially prevented the firefighters from acting <a href="http://m.washingtonpost.com/opinions/dc-firefighters-showed-callous-disregard-for-a-mans-life/2014/01/30/ee083e1c-894f-11e3-a5bd-844629433ba3_story.html" rel="nofollow">http://m.washingtonpost.com/opinions/dc-firefighters-showed-callous-disregard-for-a-mans-life/2014/01/30/ee083e1c-894f-11e3-a5bd-844629433ba3_story.html</a> </p> <p>Second, DC does have a Good Samaritan law which I believe would protect someone trying to help anyway. Frankly, I think that's something a firefighter should know. But really, when facing a stranger having a heart attack, which I have, my thoughts do not even begin to turn to liability and lawsuits, but to "what do I need to do to help this person?" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393013 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 01:28:00 +0000 googly-eyes 1393013@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsSCB: Ah, ok, I didn't hear/see that. But I only read a couple articles so I haven't been following all that closely I guess. Did the daughter know it was a heart attack? Can you know that without even a paramedic? Sorry, I don't know much of anything about heart attacks. I still can see reasons for it but I think others have worded it better than I can... I know that makes me sound callous. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393009 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 01:24:28 +0000 mrbee 1393009@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsSCB: it's tough though... what if your spouse did that, and then the person died and their family sued and won, and you lost your home and owed money for the next decade? That'd be a tough pill to swallow! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393008 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 01:24:23 +0000 MrsSCB 1393008@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@googly-eyes: they knew he was having a heart attack. There's always the possibility of death in that situation. I just can't imagine a scenario of knowing someone is having a heart attack, knowing how to help them, and doing nothing because of "protocol." </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393007 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 01:22:14 +0000 googly-eyes 1393007@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsSCB: Do we know if they thought he was dying at the time? Obviously it was a possibility, and it happened, but seeing lots of people freak out on a daily basis, it's also possible they thought he would be ok waiting? And I wonder what details the probationary person told their superiors and just what they all were thinking? So many questions come to mind, I wonder if we will hear more or hear from them. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1393004 Sun, 02 Feb 2014 01:16:33 +0000 MrsSCB 1393004@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I figured it was for liability reasons, or the possibility of being fired for not following protocol. But I'd like to think that if I was faced with someone DYING vs. losing my job, or even getting sued, I'd choose to still save them. Come on. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1392960 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 23:29:15 +0000 Boheme 1392960@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We live in a very litigious society. I'm not at all surprised by this. I know lots of nurses, police officers, and firemen who would be hesitant to act for fear of liability. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1392863 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 21:36:19 +0000 indi 1392863@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: I agree. It's extremely unfortunate, but sometimes that's the situation people put themselves into if they try to help.</p> <p>@Maysprout: I don't think it's a good reason, but it's a confusion that does exist. :-( I can imagine that the firefighters on duty may have even been more concerned about what they "were" when they responded. If they're working, they're likely not regular citizens but FFs. And if they're FFs but not covered b/c there was no dispatch yet, they may have been stuck. I hope we'll learn more as it sorts out, but it could potentially be that they were pretty much in limbo waiting for a call to allow them to go assist and that's why they were urging people to call in. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1392665 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 19:28:45 +0000 Maysprout 1392665@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: DC has good Samaritan laws.<br /> Most fire stations have protocols for walk ins and I'm sure they would in a big city. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1392367 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 14:59:57 +0000 mrbee 1392367@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Maysprout: sadly that's why Good Samaritan laws are needed... because without clear liability protection, you could be risking your house and assets by helping someone. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1392324 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 14:33:58 +0000 Maysprout 1392324@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@googly-eyes: @hellocupcake: @indi: Is being unsure of liability issues a good reason to not respond as either citizens or as members of the fire department to a potential emergency? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1392263 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 13:52:21 +0000 hellocupcake 1392263@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>+1 @indi: :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1392262 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 13:50:35 +0000 googly-eyes 1392262@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@indi: I was thinking something along those lines too... I guess it is just hard for me to accept that they are all just so cold hearted...especially because dh knows a couple cops who went through situations where it seems the media didn't tell the whole story. Anyhow if they DID just refuse for no good reason that is disgusting. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1392252 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 13:46:36 +0000 Boogs 1392252@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That shouldn't have happened, how sad. I hope there's a follow-up article after they find out why things happened the way they did. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1392237 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 13:36:10 +0000 indi 1392237@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My only guess would be the liability aspect of it. If they feel they can't respond w/o dispatch to a situation which may/may not be an emergency, they may have felt unsure of if they'd be responding as citizens or emergency responders and what legal protections they would be afforded . The ambulance mix up just makes the situation worse :-( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1392121 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 12:08:17 +0000 googly-eyes 1392121@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Either they are just a**holes or they had a reason but are getting thrown under the bus by their department. Just seems really off. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1392021 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 10:56:46 +0000 MrsSCB 1392021@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I could not believe this story! I'm from DC and I expect better from my hometown. And the firefighters are suspended WITH pay? Isn't that also called "a vacation"? Ugh </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1391938 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 10:05:35 +0000 Synchronicity 1391938@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I really don't understand. My aunt works for a fire department here - these guys are always the first on the scene. They literally dive head first into anything because it is their job. There is just no way that they wouldn't all come pouring out to help this man. I don't get it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1391931 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 10:00:05 +0000 pui 1391931@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My only question is "why?" Why didn't they help? I'd like to know what the firefighters were thinking. Like it says in the article, firefighters run in to burning buildings to save people... so why wouldn't they help a man who collapsed across the street? It also says that apparently no protocols would have prevented them from offering aid... so I'm completely baffled. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/firefighters-request-911-dispatch-before-helping-dying-man#post-1391920 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 09:52:37 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1391920@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p><a href="http://www.cnn.com/2014/01/31/us/firefighters-dying-man/index.html?hpt=hp_c2" rel="nofollow">http://www.cnn.com/2014/01/31/us/firefighters-dying-man/index.html?hpt=hp_c2</a></p> <p>Unbelievable! An elderly man had a heart attack across the street from a fire station and the firefighters refused to help. Concerned citizens were told they needed to call 911 for the firefighters to be dispatched. </p> <p>Are we just becoming collectively dumb and callous? </p>