https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 13 Nov 2026 21:31:52 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287722 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 17:35:35 +0000 JessicaMcB 287722@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I also miscarried my first pregnancy and when we got pregnant with Emma I was bleeding almost right from the get-go. As soon as it stopped I had sex with DH once and it was blood city again and continued to be until 14 weeks. Sex also caused bleeding in the second trimester for me. Not worth it IMHO.</p> <p>As a mama who went through a miscarriage it's too much for me to see blood at any stage so we've barely had sex at all my entire pregnancy (doesn't help I've been on bedrest since June). We figure at 36 weeks (only one and half more weeks!) we might get back to it to try to nudge little girl in the direction of the "door". </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287710 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 17:10:28 +0000 heartonastring 287710@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm not afraid of it causing a m/c, but between the fatigue, nausea and general protectiveness of that area of my body I just have not been interested at all. I think we've done it twice since I got my BFP at the end of July. I feel kind of terrible, but DH has been getting other, er, satisfaction in that area....just not actual intercourse. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287659 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 15:09:43 +0000 singingbee 287659@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We didn't really do that much during first trimester, but then we hit second and it totally picked up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287655 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 15:07:43 +0000 sslm 287655@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@blackbird: that's what I'm scared of, that I'll spot and then completely panic and end up in emerg for no reason! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287654 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 15:06:42 +0000 sslm 287654@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Blue: that's the other issue, I feel like shit!!! But it's been 6 weeks so I'm starting to feel like a pretty terrible wife :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287619 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 14:05:34 +0000 Crisark 287619@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My DH was nervous at first too but then he was ok after the first time. But after my spotting a couple weeks ago I got scared and we haven't since then. That and I've started throwing up with my lovely m/s so the "mood" is hard to come by.<br /> I say if you are at all feeling in the mood go for it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287597 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 13:12:41 +0000 blackbird 287597@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Um, we haven't since I found out I was pregnant 2 months ago. I was on vaginal rest up until recently, though. It just doesn't sound appealing right now. It definitely can't hurt the fetus but know you could spot a little after. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287578 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 12:46:42 +0000 Smurfette 287578@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Go for it!!! We haven't slowed down any and I haven't had any spotting or anything from it. I am going to enjoy it while I can. I have a feeling once I get huge I am not going to want too!</p> <p>ps. It feels a lot better to me! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287576 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 12:46:11 +0000 ladybee 287576@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: If it makes you feel better, we didn't have sex AT ALL after O'ing and we still lost the pregnancy. I say go for it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287561 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 12:31:06 +0000 Mrs. Blue 287561@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm not so worried about it hurting the baby, but I've been so tired and sick that I just haven't been in the mood. Poor DH! I try to be amenable to once a week,. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287555 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 12:24:12 +0000 mamabird 287555@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Go for it! Pregnant sex is awesome sex :) Plus, it won't hurt your baby! Congrats btw, happy and healthy pregnancy to you &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287490 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 10:53:29 +0000 mrsjyw 287490@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Go for it! I felt that way too but after the first time I relaxed! I def get ur worries tho. Maybe dbl chk w ur doc/mw? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/first-trimester-sex#post-287487 Sat, 08 Sep 2012 10:50:41 +0000 sslm 287487@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel bad for my poor DH. I am scared to have sex. After my mc in March, I am just terrified to do pretty much anything at this point. I hope it's only going to last for the first trimester!!!!</p> <p>Anyone else feel like this? Should I just go for it? </p>