https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 22 Apr 2026 08:37:23 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/forced-to-see-the-silver-lining-after-bfn-or-mc#post-1410625 Sun, 09 Feb 2014 19:56:03 +0000 katieleigh_82 1410625@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p><a href="http://www.someecards.com/usercards/viewcard/MjAxMy04OTU5NjE3MDQ0NGNhODAw">&lt;img src="http://static.someecards.com/someecards/usercards/MjAxMy02OGY2MDhjYjc1YThiYWZm.png" alt="someecards.com - I'm having fruit salad for dinner. Well, it's mostly grapes actually. Ok, all grapes. Fermented grapes. I'm having wine for dinner." /&gt;</a> </p> <p>For all the wine girls, I hope this link works!! :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/forced-to-see-the-silver-lining-after-bfn-or-mc#post-1410619 Sun, 09 Feb 2014 19:51:19 +0000 deactivated_account 1410619@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine is definitely "one more month of leisurely living!" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/forced-to-see-the-silver-lining-after-bfn-or-mc#post-1410611 Sun, 09 Feb 2014 19:45:38 +0000 PurplePumps 1410611@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wine... lots of wine. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/forced-to-see-the-silver-lining-after-bfn-or-mc#post-1410606 Sun, 09 Feb 2014 19:41:30 +0000 FaithFertility 1410606@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wine!!!!!!! I truly have a HUGE glass and cry!!!!! But it helps to have that moment! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/forced-to-see-the-silver-lining-after-bfn-or-mc#post-1410593 Sun, 09 Feb 2014 19:34:49 +0000 Crystal 1410593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mum: I'm so sorry for your loss!</p> <p>For me, it was going to amusement parks and getting on roller coasters. Also enjoying frozen yogurt- yum! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/forced-to-see-the-silver-lining-after-bfn-or-mc#post-1410569 Sun, 09 Feb 2014 19:14:37 +0000 katieleigh_82 1410569@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mum: so sorry for your loss :crying:<br /> I'm gonna go with my silver lining being a nice glass of wine!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/forced-to-see-the-silver-lining-after-bfn-or-mc#post-1409028 Sat, 08 Feb 2014 11:04:19 +0000 LindsayInNY 1409028@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine was definitely the "more to drink now"! Lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/forced-to-see-the-silver-lining-after-bfn-or-mc#post-1408993 Sat, 08 Feb 2014 10:41:51 +0000 Mum 1408993@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you , @lovelyplum. I will cherish my sleep for now! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/forced-to-see-the-silver-lining-after-bfn-or-mc#post-1408979 Sat, 08 Feb 2014 10:30:58 +0000 LovelyPlum 1408979@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry for your loss :(</p> <p>My silver lining was going running! Though now, on the other side, I would add SLEEP!! Pregnancy insomnia is no joke-so enjoy some sleep! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/forced-to-see-the-silver-lining-after-bfn-or-mc#post-1408939 Sat, 08 Feb 2014 10:06:29 +0000 Mum 1408939@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When you are feeling bad after a BFN or, like myself recently, after an early MC, there are few things that can make you feel better.</p> <p>After some time of forced acceptance, here are some of the things that I tell myself (in a sometimes a feigned positive tone): </p> <p>:shocked: "Yay, now I can...</p> <p>-drink some wine!"<br /> -go out for sushi!"<br /> -not pee on a stick for a few days!"<br /> -drink NON-DECAF coffee!"<br /> -eat a deli sandwich!"<br /> -stop analyzing every twinge of pain!"<br /> -drink a beer!"</p> <p>What is YOUR silver lining? </p>