https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 15 May 2026 04:01:35 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-495438 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 20:04:19 +0000 lomom 495438@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah. I leave before DH in the morning and this morning I was scrambling to get out the door (story of my life) and went in to wake him up. He wanted me to set his alarm for him and cover him up. </p> <p>I screamed at him that I didn't have time to find his effing phone and set his alarm and that I was not covering him up, that he could reach over and grab the damn blanket himself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494803 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 17:39:28 +0000 prettylizy 494803@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Been there, done that. Thank god DH didn't leave me during my pregnancy crazies! lol! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494801 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 17:37:51 +0000 Revel 494801@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: Oh man, I think my FI has learned this lesson too - hungry pregnant lady means food needs to happen immediately. I think I have cried over this.</p> <p>I think the irrationality comes with the territory. We recently bought a house and I've been having regular breakdowns about selecting appliances.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494768 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 17:17:59 +0000 marionberry 494768@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It starts in the beginning. Today I was at work and texted my husband (he works in the same building) that I was here and asked was he. No answer. 15 mins later I call his office. Straight to VM. 15 mins after that I call his cell. Straight to VM. 15 mins after that he walks by my office and says "oh, you're finally here". I was SO mad. Pretty much yelled at him for not taking his cell phone off vibrate and kept saying, what if this had been an emergency, I wouldn't be able to reach you! Looking back I just needed a chill pill. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494644 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:32:47 +0000 Foodnerd81 494644@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty early on, DH was making me breakfast because I couldn't stomach cooking myself, but first he cleaned up the kitchen, got all the ingredients lined up... in short, he took so long. I knew in my head that he was being nice, but I kept trying to just hurry him up since I was getting more nauseous by the minute. Finally I went into the bedroom and SOBBED-- like full body racking sobs, because breakfast was taking too long. Yeah... he said he learned from that experience that when I am hungry, he needs to run like his hair is on fire to get me food. </p> <p>@Smurfette: DH has made similar jokes about his immaturity being practice and I'll have to take care of two kids. NOT funny. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494604 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:22:44 +0000 JoJoGirl 494604@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's like I feel like I've been totally normal since I haven't been crying or yelling at him or anything, but that totally threw me for a loop! Guess I'm not immune to pregnancy crazy ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494600 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:21:36 +0000 Smurfette 494600@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Trailmix: I get mad when DH calls to say he is going to be working late and to eat without him so I don't have to wait. Like I can't eat by myself or something these days. These hormones are crazy. He probably is wishing he was traveling, instead of being on a project at home, these days. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494579 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:17:30 +0000 Bao 494579@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've had a moment or two like this. Looking back...wow, just wow. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494571 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:14:50 +0000 Bookish 494571@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hahahah yeahhhh. I've been having freakouts about how when the baby comes he won't do anything. And then he says<br /> "do I help out now? Don't I help cook dinner and clean the house? Why would I do otherwise when baby comes?" aaaand then i feel like an asshole. :p </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494570 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:14:26 +0000 JoJoGirl 494570@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Smurfette: @Trailmix: hahaha. These both made me laugh :) Glad I'm not the only one! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494569 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:14:11 +0000 ladyfingers 494569@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This sounds... so familiar. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494568 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:12:52 +0000 Trailmix 494568@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was furious at DH last night because it took him too long to cook ME dinner and I was STARVING. I literally was yelling at him to hurry up and make the pizza cook faster.<br /> So...yeah. I think that irrationality pretty much comes with the territory :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494566 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:12:39 +0000 Smurfette 494566@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh yeah. I had a breakdown one night cause DH didn't clean up after himself. Saying I can't do it all myself and take care of a baby. He tried to make a joke about well just look at this way you already have practice and it will just be like having 2 kids. So not funny. </p> <p>I think that it was something stupid, like him leaving his spoon from stirring the creamer into his coffee on the counter and I have to clean the counter cause it left a mark. Annoying, but worth yelling at him, not so much. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/getting-irrationally-upset-about-dumb-things#post-494547 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:03:33 +0000 JoJoGirl 494547@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Seems silly to ask this question on a board full of pregnant, trying to get pregnant, or recently-pregnant women, but... I am so not used to being this irrational!</p> <p>Last night dinner took me FOREVER to cook because I tried to double one of my recipes (less cooking later = score). By the time DH got home, I was ALL PISSED OFF at him that I was going to be expected to cook dinner AND take care of the baby myself and how was I supposed to do that and I hope he didn't expect me to handle everything when the baby comes BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT? I JUST CAN'T.</p> <p>LOL, looking back on it, poor guy.</p> <p>So he's all "um, how about if I deal with the baby while you cook dinner?". Me: "Yeah that sounds.. rational. And normal. Thanks, dear."</p> <p>WTF? Anyone find themselves spinning into crazytown? Is this the 2nd tri anxiety I keep hearing about? </p>