https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 15 May 2026 01:44:15 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1453080 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 08:14:13 +0000 MrsTiz 1453080@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@DillonLion: DH has started sleeping in the guest room too, our house heats and cools so oddly that the living room is freezing, the guest room and nursery are fine but the master bedroom gets sweltering hot, even with the fan on. So he started sleeping in the guest room, and then he got sick so he stayed over there, and then it became habit.. soo I feel ya!</p> <p>With that said, we still go to bed at the same time every night. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1453074 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 08:06:38 +0000 LulaBee 1453074@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, but I'm usually making him come to bed with me, which is much earlier than he wants to. But he reads in bed and I try to fall asleep... usually DD wakes and wants to be nursed before I actually fall asleep. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1453070 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 08:04:26 +0000 swedishfish 1453070@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No because he works until 11 PM and I need to be in bed by 9:30 most nights. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1453054 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 07:49:19 +0000 Mamaof2 1453054@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>very rarely do we go to bed at the same time - he doesn't need much sleep so he usually stays up doing work or watching TV - I need lots of sleep so I am in bed by 9 or 930 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1453052 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 07:48:28 +0000 JoJoGirl 1453052@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. Doesn't work for us. We are on extremely opposite schedules (I get home w/LO at 5pm and get up at 5:30am, he sometimes doesn't get home until 8pm) so I almost always go to bed first. On the weekends we go to bed at the same time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1453037 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 07:23:50 +0000 rachiecakes 1453037@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty much impossible, he works late nights and I'm out to work a full day early in the morning. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1453035 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 07:20:52 +0000 Ash 1453035@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Always! Unless dh works nights. But if we're both home we go to bed at the same time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1453028 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 07:13:12 +0000 bushelandapeck 1453028@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I usually go in and read for a bit and he comes in shortly after so we can go to sleep together. Occasionally he will stay up to watch something on t.v (like the Bruins last night) and I am asleep before he comes in. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1452989 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 05:20:33 +0000 daniellemybelle 1452989@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Most of the time. We are big snugglers so even if one of us is already in bed (usually DH) the other will roll over to snuggle. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1452988 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 04:58:41 +0000 illumina 1452988@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Usually yes, though maybe once a week or fortnight he will stay up later to work and then he'll sleep on the sofa so he doesn't disturb me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1452931 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 01:13:49 +0000 Glitter 1452931@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We always go to bed together, but lately this pregnancy insomnia has me falling asleep long after he's out :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1452913 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 00:25:44 +0000 Running Elley 1452913@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, almost all the time. Sometimes he'll stay up reading or on the iPad but we're both in bed at the same time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1452911 Thu, 27 Feb 2014 00:22:12 +0000 coopsmama 1452911@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, I actually can't think of a night since we've been married were we haven't gone to bed at the same time. I love it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1452876 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 23:43:03 +0000 Ginabean3 1452876@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! I stay up way later! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so/page/2#post-1452862 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 23:30:23 +0000 Purpledaisy 1452862@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hardly ever. I usually stay up later. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452853 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 23:23:50 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 1452853@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We used to! But he turns in early on the weeknights (I'm talking 8pm) &amp; so after dinner clean-up, showering, pumping &amp; a few minutes of quiet usually keep me up past then....I really miss the days when we went to bed together. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452843 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 23:18:04 +0000 misstatas 1452843@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH stays up waaay later than I do. When I am off the next day I try to stay up later and beg him to come to bed slightly earlier with me, but normally I go to bed and he tucks me in then goes about his evening. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452826 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 23:06:43 +0000 Mrs. Pen 1452826@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Most of the time we go to bed at the same time. three nights a week he doesn't get home until 10:45pm, so if I work the next morning or have class, then I might go to bed before he gets home. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452825 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 23:06:42 +0000 Boheme 1452825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We can't because he is still at work. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452821 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 23:03:54 +0000 MoonMoon 1452821@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes and no! Most nights, we take the baby to bed together (he sleeps in our bed.) My husband changes him, puts on his sleep clothes, and gives him his vitamin while I get ready for bed. Then we read to him or cuddle. Then I nurse him to sleep while DH goes and unwinds for a while. By the time he comes to bed, we're often asleep. This routine works for us for now, but it obviously won't last forever. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452818 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 22:59:55 +0000 fancyfunction 1452818@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We do on the weekends but during the week he goes to bed before me. I like to stay up another hour or so unwinding and doing some writing work. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452799 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 22:39:57 +0000 CottonCandy 1452799@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, it's not really something we make a big deal about. We each just go to bed when we feel like it. If it happens to be at the same time, great...if not, no big deal. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452790 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 22:37:30 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 1452790@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>YES. It is a big priority for us. I think I can count on 2 hands how many times I've gone to bed before/after him in our almost 4yrs of marriage.<br /> *that doesn't count when he's out of town for work! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452751 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 22:19:32 +0000 Ree723 1452751@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I try, but he's been on ridiculous work hours lately so he's been having to get up at 1:45 am to get to work for 3:00. Because of that, he goes to bed around 6:30/7:00 pm. I just can't go to bed that early, aside from the fact that our toddler isn't even in bed at that time!</p> <p>I miss going to bed at the same time as DH, especially our bedtime chats. :-( Fortunately, he's transitioning back to normal hours with a 4:45 am wake up so we'll start going to bed together again. I really do find we're more connected when we have that wind down time together! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452736 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 22:12:42 +0000 Greentea 1452736@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Can't go to bed without him :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452729 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 22:10:35 +0000 lovehoneybee 1452729@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>95% of the time, unless one of us is sick or had too many drinks and went down early. We like to cuddle and talk about the best parts of our day, which I think helps me sleep better because I fall asleep thinking about happy things instead of stressed about something. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452727 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 22:10:21 +0000 xInfinity 1452727@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We usually go into bed at about the same time but I go to sleep earlier while he watches a couple episodes on Netflix. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452722 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 22:08:29 +0000 mrs.shinerbock 1452722@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I need way more sleep than DH, so I usually go to bed earlier than him. About half the time, he will come with and watch tv on his iPad for awhile. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452714 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 22:03:22 +0000 Mamasig 1452714@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No because of his work schedule. Just sometimes if he is off. But I wish we did. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/going-to-bed-and-your-so#post-1452702 Wed, 26 Feb 2014 21:59:21 +0000 Pancakes 1452702@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BabyJMama: We're in a similar situation. I can't wait until we are both done with school (in a few more years, blah!). </p>