https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 11 May 2026 16:30:00 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/good-copbad-cop#post-810614 Sun, 26 May 2013 22:57:05 +0000 Weagle 810614@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're on the same side. Like @runsyellowlites: if DH is home he will handle discipline (not much now as she's only 12 months) And I'm on his side. When he's gone I'm the cop. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/good-copbad-cop#post-809873 Sun, 26 May 2013 09:34:15 +0000 runsyellowlites 809873@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We both play the same sided cop! My mom was always the "bad cop" and it really wore on their marriage.... I pretty much refused this scenario from the beginning &amp; was clear with DH that he was the leader &amp; we were united in the discipline department. If DH is home then he implements the disciplinary punishment, if he's not then for the most part I do... occasionally I'm unable to in that moment since it's just me with both kids but I will handle it in some manner. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/good-copbad-cop#post-809857 Sun, 26 May 2013 09:20:10 +0000 Andrea 809857@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am bad cop. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/good-copbad-cop#post-809856 Sun, 26 May 2013 09:19:50 +0000 autumnlove 809856@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hmmmm, we are both good cops right now. I think I need to start being the bad cop. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/good-copbad-cop#post-809835 Sun, 26 May 2013 09:01:35 +0000 Ra 809835@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When it comes to discipline/giving in, are you the good cop or the bad cop? </p>