https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 05 Apr 2026 02:55:49 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-320066 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 20:47:10 +0000 blackbird 320066@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Whoa you look totally normal for 5 months yikes! What a rude guy </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-319431 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 14:33:10 +0000 Mrs. Blue 319431@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ladyfingers: I think you look fantastic and exactly like you should at this point in your pregnancy! Some people just should be allowed to speak to pregnant women . . . or to anyone for that matter. :) I guess I better get prepared for people to ask me if I'm having quads! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-319420 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 14:26:08 +0000 ladyfingers 319420@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@coacheswife123: LOL that is awesome. "No, I think you're projecting."</p> <p>@alongfarview: Very true! He's also 70. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-319387 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 14:07:52 +0000 MediaNaranja 319387@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You look great! People are clueless.</p> <p>@jholler25: Agreed on the twin mamas! I hardly notice any difference! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-319380 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 14:05:09 +0000 CATWOMAN 319380@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>you look fabulous! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-319331 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 13:39:25 +0000 KT326 319331@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ugh people just need to keep their mouths shut. I had a coworker ask me that too. And it was a woman with kids! She should have known better than that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-319330 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 13:39:06 +0000 alongfarview 319330@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel like people don't have much of an understanding of what a pregnant belly actually looks like at different stages of pregnancy (I know I didn't until I started looking at bump photos and am now experiencing it myself!). </p> <p>That being said, there's no excuse for this guy it sounds like. I think you look beautiful and right on track :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-319319 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 13:35:51 +0000 DigAPony 319319@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You look perfect. That guy's an idiot. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-319261 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 13:19:30 +0000 pl0508 319261@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No! people are so rude- i've started getting the "whoa you are big" from some folks. I hate it! One lady said "you are getting a pudge" and I wanted to say "no, I am growing a baby. YOU are getting a pudge" .</p> <p>:) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-319236 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 13:12:23 +0000 pinkcupcake 319236@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>RUDE! You look exactly how you should! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-319118 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 12:38:58 +0000 HLK208 319118@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No way!!! I always got asked that with both of my pregnancies...so rude! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-319039 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 12:11:42 +0000 autumnlove 319039@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>People can be rude! My FIL always made comments like that throughout my pregnancy. :-( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318989 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 11:48:26 +0000 ladyfingers 318989@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, then he told me that every time he saw the wife of a mutual acquaintance of ours -- who just had a little boy a few weeks ago -- that she still had a month to go and he'd be like wow, it looks like it's going to pop out at any minute! So he obv has a history of putting his foot in his mouth. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318927 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 11:21:57 +0000 PrincessBaby 318927@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You look exactly like you should- what is he talking about???</p> <p>And fwiw, the twin mamas I've seen around here don't even look that different from the singleton mommas! That has really stood out to me when I look at their bump pics and they don't look very much bigger than I did at a similar stage! So I don't even know that I buy that twin moms are supposed to be HUGE, and so it makes me think that comments like his are that much more ignorant! </p> <p>But regardless, you look perfect for 5 months! Your bump is adorable, and not looking large at all!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318910 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 11:13:46 +0000 Phillybaby2013 318910@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Heck no lady! We're about the same size altho I haven't had any strangers comment on my bump yet. I believe it's partly bc i was chubby to begin with and people with sense know it's better not to say something unless ur really sure.... Sorry that man was so rude and obviously has no sense. ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318767 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 10:32:46 +0000 Emilie 318767@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Some people just don't have a clue as to what's rude and what's not =P But, I will say though that until I had close friends that got pregnant, I really had no idea how much a belly really grew! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318761 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 10:30:44 +0000 littlebug 318761@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Seriously, people suck. I just had someone tell me the baby is ready to pop out. I'm 25 weeks. I was like, "Uh, no, he's not. He's got another 3 months in there!" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318755 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 10:28:39 +0000 ladyfingers 318755@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oahujeni: Well I did eat a lot. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318623 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 09:32:59 +0000 immabeetoo 318623@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I get it to - no, you look amazing, and he's silly. Next time, give him (or anyone else) a Tina Fey eye roll: <a href="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljbbmpPOsM1qgiv3co1_500.gif" rel="nofollow">http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljbbmpPOsM1qgiv3co1_500.gif</a> :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318610 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 09:26:54 +0000 Arden 318610@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When I get that, I'm going to reply -<br /> "No, actually it's quadruplets and I've had a very hard time putting on weight and that comment is so hurtful because I'm doing my best to eat enough, ok?!?!"<br /> And watch their eyes widen in shock.... heh </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318598 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 09:22:35 +0000 oahujeni 318598@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You should've socked him for sure and NO you are NOT that big! You looked great on Saturday, so unless you've grown a ton in less than two days............. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318596 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 09:22:04 +0000 prettylizy 318596@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That person needs to STFU! Your bump is adorable, don't let him get to you. People are ridiculous! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318594 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 09:21:28 +0000 hellobeeboston 318594@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>WHAT?? That's crazy - people are dumb. I think you look great!! I think your bump is lookin' pretty perfect....</p> <p>ignore that old man </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318592 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 09:20:46 +0000 Foodnerd81 318592@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's like people want to say something and don't know what to say... so they say the stupidest thing possible. You look great! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318587 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 09:19:38 +0000 SugarplumsMom 318587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Absolutely not! You look gorgeous and just perfect for how far along you are! That man has no idea what he's talking about!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318574 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 09:17:13 +0000 mrsjyw 318574@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ladyfingers: WTH! NO you are NOT big and HOW RUDE OF THAT MAN. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/got-my-first-are-you-pregnant-with-twins-comment#post-318573 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 09:16:30 +0000 ladyfingers 318573@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This older guy I know asked me when I was due, and when I told him February and that I'm 5 months along, his eyes bugged out and he said, "wow, are you having twins?"</p> <p>I wanted to sock him in the face. Seriously, am I really that big?? </p> [attach=231/12/mb7wzi.300x291.21.jpg]