https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 09 May 2026 14:53:12 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-820925 Fri, 31 May 2013 05:44:52 +0000 Mrs. Polish 820925@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry. Of all the IF feelings, that has to be one of the worst. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-818065 Thu, 30 May 2013 12:29:49 +0000 littleredhairedgrl 818065@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i totally understand how you are feeling. my dh and i have been trying for 6 months now and with pcos diagnosis, inability to ovulate on my own, and low morphology for dh i feel like all we do is go to dr appointments.. my best friend listened to me update her on all that is going on with us ttc for almost an hour and her reply was that she was pg.</p> <p>they weren't trying and she had gone off bcp a month prior. i was a mess.. and today she sent me a text with her sonogram picture. </p> <p>i am so happy for her, but cannot stop crying. i feel like all of the sudden everywhere i look everyone is pg.</p> <p>i know i have not been trying for nearly as long as some people here, but it is still very hard. </p> <p>hoping we're all successful here soon :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808374 Fri, 24 May 2013 22:19:39 +0000 Honeydew 808374@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Totally understand. I would have waterworks for days. Hang in there. It took us 23 months ttc. We we're waiting to start the ivf process and just waiting for AF to show and low and behold we got a bfp.</p> <p>It is truly hard, especially when most people don't understand the emotion you have. Best wishes for you and hang in there it will happen for you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808176 Fri, 24 May 2013 19:36:41 +0000 mrswin 808176@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsTal: We've all been there! I know that it suck but I am proud of you.... my pity party usually last much longer than 20 minutes. Hang in there :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808149 Fri, 24 May 2013 19:16:29 +0000 tequiero21 808149@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hope u get your bfp soon! It took us like 4 years so I definitely know what you're going thru. Hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808138 Fri, 24 May 2013 19:06:35 +0000 kentuckygirl 808138@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh, I am so sorry. I have an idea what that feels like and it is so hard. Know that we are here anytime you want to vent. I hope that you have BFP news to send to her very soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808094 Fri, 24 May 2013 18:27:55 +0000 MrsKoala 808094@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsTal: Ugh, I'm so sorry. That is really tough. Big internet hugs to you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808092 Fri, 24 May 2013 18:26:15 +0000 sslm 808092@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry, that's really hard :( I would have cried too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808090 Fri, 24 May 2013 18:25:22 +0000 MsLipGloss 808090@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would have cried too! Anyone who doesn't understand how you feel can just suck it. ((Hugs)) and {{{stickybabydust}}}. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808088 Fri, 24 May 2013 18:21:04 +0000 raintreebee 808088@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsTal: It's not fair. I wish we could all just take a retreat together and cry it out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808044 Fri, 24 May 2013 17:32:37 +0000 Caly 808044@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry you're having such a hard time! *hug* You've definitely come to the right place to vent. Sometimes you need a good pity party &amp; it's definitely justified. Your feelings are totally normal and you're not alone. Took DH &amp; I over 4.5yrs to get pg and I definitely threw a lot of pity parties for myself. Hang in there! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808033 Fri, 24 May 2013 17:24:39 +0000 shopaholic 808033@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>{HUGS} I know I didn't have to try too long but had our own issues, but I still get jealous of people who got preggers on their first try (or not even). You totally have the OK to have a pity-party for a night! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808019 Fri, 24 May 2013 17:17:43 +0000 lilteacherbee 808019@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I understand. It took us 13 months with a miscarriage thrown in there. So, so hard. Big hugs!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808016 Fri, 24 May 2013 17:16:16 +0000 dagret 808016@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am sorry you're going through this. It took us almost 2 years to get pregnant. Once for a friends birthday I was out with 3 other girls, all of whom got pregnant accidentally. It's really frustrating. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808015 Fri, 24 May 2013 17:16:00 +0000 Shutterbug 808015@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry, I know how hard it is. Just know that you're not alone - not at all, and the HB IF community is here to commiserate with you! Hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808008 Fri, 24 May 2013 17:13:04 +0000 sweetooth 808008@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can totally relate. It took us 20 months to get pregnant, and during the 8 months after we hit the year mark, every time someone told me they got pregnant, I was instant waterworks. It's so frustrating that anyone has to go through this - when for some people it's just "we had sex once and got pregnant!". </p> <p>Hugs to you - work through the feelings. And know that you're not alone. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-808000 Fri, 24 May 2013 17:07:51 +0000 MrsLilybugg 808000@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>These feelings are perfectly normal. I had an epic meltdown when my DH texted me DURING A CLASS at school that our friends (the wife and I both got off BC at same time ) were having a baby . ttc is a rollercoaster. Hugs. I hope you get your BFP soon! (I got mine three months after her at the one -yr mark). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-807979 Fri, 24 May 2013 16:51:23 +0000 singingbee 807979@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs. It's hard. I hope you get your bfp soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-807978 Fri, 24 May 2013 16:50:31 +0000 justdarling 807978@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry! I totally understand how you feel. It is perfectly ok to feel like this. I think all of us that have gone through any sort of IF journey has felt like this at some point or another. </p> <p>My brother and his wife just announced that they are pregnant and they weren't even trying. She actually didn't realize that she was pregnant for 3 months and smoke and drank during the entire 3 months. I threw myself a HUGE pity party when they announced. Here I am doing everything that I can to get pregnant and for some reason can't. We have been TTC for 18 months! Life just isn't fair. And it's not like I am not happy for them, but it's just hard. I totally get what you are going through. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-807975 Fri, 24 May 2013 16:47:36 +0000 oliviaoblivia 807975@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs! Those are some complex emotions, no one will begrudge you your frustration and disappointment. I hated hearing pregnancy announcements before I had mine and felt like such a jerk for crying when someone else got something I wanted. It passed for me and hopefully will soon for you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-807974 Fri, 24 May 2013 16:47:11 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 807974@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow....I'm so sorry! I know I am not strong enough to handle that. I would have cried for more than 20 mins! I am so sorry you have to go through this and I pray that you will be able to bring a beautiful baby into this world very soon.<br /> Wishing you sticky baby dust!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/had-a-rough-night-last-night#post-807962 Fri, 24 May 2013 16:40:25 +0000 MrsTal 807962@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Last night I got a text from an old friend. We use to be close but now not so much, we were both in a mutual friends wedding a few weeks back and she told us that she and her DH were going to be TTC. We chatted a bit and I mentioned we were having issues and that was that. Well she got pregnant on the first try and decided to text to tell me that she "might" be. I asked if she tested and she said yes, twice. I said well those dont lie you are, congrats. I ended up crying for 20 minutes. It's not that I'm not happy for her, I'm glad she will never experience this hell, but seriously that makes 6 babies I know of that were conceived the first time trying. Wth is wrong with me that I can't make it happen in 12 months? I'm just so frustrated and mad at my body.</p> <p>End vent. </p>