https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 26 Apr 2026 07:50:00 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1540973 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 19:32:04 +0000 jetsettermomma 1540973@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ree723: Omg! What did you do? Did LO have to go to the dentist to get it fixed?? Our daycare called me this morning to tell me that my 18m DS fell and chipped his tooth. I was flying out for work and I felt so helpless! On my way back now and hoping he's ok! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1536136 Tue, 01 Apr 2014 09:28:32 +0000 annie624 1536136@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh yeah. Shots, occasionally when she's screaming in the backseat (probably more anxiety-related though!), and I have felt myself tear up when watching someone else (DH or MIL) try to console her. Ughhh.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535785 Tue, 01 Apr 2014 04:22:53 +0000 anonysquire 1535785@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>She rarely cries so I don't have time to cry along with her cries. But every other second of the day I cry. When she smiles I cry, when she sleeps I cry, when I see her cute little bum I cry. I just cry about everything. I love every piece of her and it makes me cry. Haha still pp hormones over here too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535784 Tue, 01 Apr 2014 04:13:21 +0000 Ree723 1535784@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh yes, most definitely. I've cried so many times when LO has cried! The worst was just a few weeks ago when my 20 month old fell on the tile floors and chipped her front tooth. I didn't realise she'd chipped her tooth at first and eventually got her calmed down....and then I saw the tooth. I ugly cry sobbed, it was terrible.</p> <p>The good news is that the things that made me cry first time around (injections, car rides etc) don't bother me with DD2. I think it's a been there, done that sort of mentality and I know it will be forgotten as soon as it's over, so it doesn't upset me as much! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535470 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 20:07:00 +0000 Applesandbananas 1535470@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. All the shots, he's had blood drawn, he was NPO for a surgery, when he's been crying in the car seat, and the first time he bit me while nursing and I screamed and scared him and he burst into tears :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535451 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 20:02:16 +0000 photojane 1535451@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just her first shots. I'm super emotional, so I'm glad she doesn't cry much! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535441 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 19:58:59 +0000 Smurfette 1535441@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Tonight I was crying with her, damn molars </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535431 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 19:54:04 +0000 californiadreams 1535431@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>it has happened a few times when i have to leave him and go to work in the morning and the last thing i see is his face twisted in pain and hurt and reaching out for me and i walk away. our nanny is usually good at distracting him before i go, but there a have been a few brutal days and i cry when i get into my car and drive off. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535424 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 19:51:46 +0000 Bookish 1535424@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Only all the time. Today she was inconsolable either from teething or allergies, and was crying her little eyes out, and gahhh I couldn't handle it. Big ole tears from me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535321 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 19:02:04 +0000 mrs.shinerbock 1535321@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The first round of shots made me cry. The second time I spent the whole car ride there telling her that she was going to get shots and it would hurt, but she would be ok. I don't think it helped her very much, because she still screamed a lot, but it helped me keep it together. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535133 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 16:44:32 +0000 singingbee 1535133@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! I bumped her head on a door frame and I just cried and cried. I would think about it hours later and start crying again. She hated the car when she was about 8 weeks old. I would cry every time she lost it. Most recently I cried when she had croup and fever and just looked so pitiful. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535125 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 16:36:40 +0000 artsyfartsy 1535125@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Yoyo: That breaks my heart!! Poor baby! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535036 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 15:48:50 +0000 LuLu Mom 1535036@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A few times due to her medical treatments. Getting blood drawn and having an x-ray done...it was heartbreaking. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1535025 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 15:39:04 +0000 yoursilverlining 1535025@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Yoyo: oh, mama. That makes me want to cry just reading it!! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534989 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 15:19:31 +0000 avivoca 1534989@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. I cried when they brought out the rectal thermometer at the doctor, because in my mind, that really and truly meant that my baby was sick. She was already crying because they were drawing blood, but seeing that thermometer sent me over the edge. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534987 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 15:18:29 +0000 Mrs. Yoyo 1534987@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Last summer, when I took DS to the park ... he was barely 2, and there were some much older boys who started taunting him, taking his truck away, acting like they wanted to play with him and then running away, etc. He started bawling and so I did I as I carried him to the car. I still wish I'd known who the parents were, but there was a huge soccer game going on and I had no idea who they belonged to. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534975 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 15:14:06 +0000 Worrywart 1534975@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@yoursilverlining - the exact same thing happened with my DD the other day. We were crying together :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534919 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:56:12 +0000 Smurfette 1534919@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep! Like @Mrs. Pen: in the beginning, she hated the car seat, so I would cry along with her. Shots kill me too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534899 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:48:29 +0000 Foodnerd81 1534899@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The absolute worst was 3 days after she was born, they had to do a heel prick to get blood to check on her jaundice. It was our first time at this pediatrician, I had some doubts about it, and the lady (in my eyes) was doing such a bad job of getting the blood out. C was hysterically crying, I was full on sobbing, her diaper was on wrong and she peed all over me... we came out from behind the curtain with C already calming down and me with tears just streaming down my face, covered in pee... it took me 3 hours to pull it together enough to email my friend who happens to be a pediatrician to ask if the blood draw was normal (it was). </p> <p>But I still cry when she is really upset, like the other day, I wasn't looking and she scooted off the rug, rolled over, and hit her head hard on the wood floor. Her tears dried quicker than mine. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534893 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:46:42 +0000 googly-eyes 1534893@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, when she has been sick and I desperately want to make her feel better but I can't, or I'm not exactly sure what's wrong. Not A LOT of crying but teary. Illness is the one thing that still makes me feel incompetent in a way because realistically there's not much you can do besides wait. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534860 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:36:48 +0000 2PeasinaPod 1534860@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Every. Single. Shot.</p> <p>It's horrible. He always looks at me like I knew this was coming and didn't protect him from the pain. Makes me cry every time. </p> <p>Today, he had to get his ears checked at the doctor to confirm his double ear infection is still raging away, and he screamed bloody murder. To me, that's not as bad b/c he's not looking into my eyes while I'm holding him.</p> <p>The absolute worst was holding him down for a throat culture. Horrid. I cried so much...</p> <p>@MrsF: YES...the silent "cry". Worst ever. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534851 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:34:43 +0000 rachiecakes 1534851@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>yes :( I hate seeing him cry </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534850 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:34:32 +0000 MoonMoon 1534850@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, especially I'm the early days! When he'd cry in his carseat, I'd often join him...so sad and stressful. Darn hormones! ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534848 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:33:55 +0000 artsyfartsy 1534848@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@yoursilverlining: aww!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534841 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:32:33 +0000 MrsF 1534841@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Definitely! Especially if I accidentally hurt her or couldn't protect her from an injury. The worst is the moment where she's about to start wailing but no sound is coming out yet. That moment makes me cry :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534830 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:29:54 +0000 cmomma17 1534830@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Umm, lot's of times! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534826 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:28:37 +0000 MrsStar 1534826@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, after she got her vaccinations, I felt like the worst mother ever when she was crying. I felt guilty for days! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534802 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:24:07 +0000 yoursilverlining 1534802@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Only once - a few weeks ago LO pulled my hair really hard and laughed and I really firmly told her "you just hurt mommy". Her big puppy-dog eyes welled up with tears and she started crying and hugged me. It made me feel like such an asshole, and I started crying too. :sad: :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534792 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:21:40 +0000 Mrs. Pen 1534792@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>awww!! that's so sad!!</p> <p>I spent the first 6 months of LO's life crying everytime he screamed in the backseat in the car- it was heartbreaking - I could barely stand it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-seeing-your-lo-cry-ever-made-you-cry#post-1534771 Mon, 31 Mar 2014 14:14:54 +0000 artsyfartsy 1534771@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not in the desperate "why is he/she crying" sleep deprived way...even though that's happened too.</p> <p>I was BFing T earlier today and I accidentally scratched his cheek and he just looked at me like "Mom why did you do that? I trusted you!" His face just broke like I had betrayed his trust. I couldn't help but cry. Lol! I felt like a mean mommy and the hurt look on his face just broke my heart, even though it was an accident and it didn't even leave a mark.</p> <p>Has this ever happened to you? I'm still a hormonal PP mess too. Haha! </p>