https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 01 Jun 2026 21:11:38 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-850335 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 07:23:26 +0000 Foodnerd81 850335@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm still pregnant and it's already changed drastically. First I just felt awful, then once I felt betterdh started to feel weird about the baby being in there. So we do a lot of snuggling for now. No idea how it will be when Lo arrives but well manage. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-850326 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 07:20:51 +0000 oliviaoblivia 850326@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Post baby we are back to pre preg dtd. I was just not in the mood while pregnant. Now things are normal, usually a night occasionally the morning with an afternoon delight every so often. It's so nice being back in the sack so to speak. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-850295 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 07:05:41 +0000 Adira 850295@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>At the moment, yes! We're lucky if we DTD once a week now. It's so much harder to find the time - we used to do it late at night when we'd go to bed, but now I'm desperate for what little sleep I can get, so that's out! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-850293 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 07:03:33 +0000 sorrycharlie 850293@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ha,.evening and once a week if we are lucky! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-850118 Wed, 12 Jun 2013 01:12:42 +0000 Smurfette 850118@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep! We were morning sex people. Not anymore. And when she takes a nap we can't cause she won't nap long when we put her down. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-850036 Tue, 11 Jun 2013 22:46:58 +0000 doodlepoodle 850036@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Psh. We didn't DTd for like 2 months...maybe that's why we were fighting! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-850029 Tue, 11 Jun 2013 22:43:56 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 850029@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not really. Maybe at first? But LO has a bedtime and wake up that is consistent. DH and I get 12h a night to ourselves ;)<br /> Nap times DH is at work, but on weekends, we might take advantage of nap times. Weekends are really busy these days too though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-850019 Tue, 11 Jun 2013 22:38:46 +0000 mrsjyw 850019@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First few mths yes. Now it's our usual nighttime with an occasional day time early evening after ds goes down! Thank the sleep gods for our lil sleeper! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-849924 Tue, 11 Jun 2013 22:03:25 +0000 lovehoneybee 849924@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Almost always at night. We're tired but we try to make an effort. When DH is home during his naps (on the weekends) we often nap too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-849916 Tue, 11 Jun 2013 22:00:11 +0000 luckypenny 849916@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For awhile, yes. Now? No. </p> <p>My pregnancy was sooooo miserable and uncomfortable that we literally didn't BD after I was 4 months along (Poor DH!) But now, 1 year out, we are back to normal and better than ever :) We watch a tv show together at night and do it then. I'd love to in the morning but DH wakes up wayyyy to early for work </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-849912 Tue, 11 Jun 2013 21:58:33 +0000 Mrs. Pen 849912@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A little... it was much harder for the first year... and initially we waited 4-5 months pp to even DTD again!!! I was too scared! But we were so sleep deprived that until he started STTN we didn't do it often.</p> <p>But since he's been a year old, it's much better. before bed is our favorite (and usually only) time we do it. We used to like mornings too but that doesn't happen anymore so that's really the only change. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-849904 Tue, 11 Jun 2013 21:54:09 +0000 MsLipGloss 849904@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>YES. But mostly it was because for the first 8 months LO never STTN (until about 10 days ago---right after she turned 9 months--woot woot!), and for months 4-8, I went to bed with her (so that she would sleep longer, and because of her surgery - I just couldn't leave her alone). Now that she is sleeping, and she is in her own crib, we are starting to get back to normal (a few times a week). But I am still so stinkin' tired and I feel soooo unsexy. I try to give it up with enthusiasm for DH's sake, but it's not always easy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-849894 Tue, 11 Jun 2013 21:50:17 +0000 HLK208 849894@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Kind of. We mostly never DTD when he works (12 hour shifts) but he works 4 days on and 4 days off...so the 4 days off, it's every day during naps. Hopefully once DD sleeps through the night, our night time schedule will go back to normal.</p> <p>...that's half of the year that we get busy, how sad lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/has-your-dtd-schedule-drastically-changed-since-lo-arrived#post-849883 Tue, 11 Jun 2013 21:47:48 +0000 PrincessBaby 849883@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We used to be early morning or late night peeps...Since we had LO, we take advantage of nap times, bc mornings are too busy or we're catching up on sleep, and nighttime is just - Recovery Time.</p> <p>We are lucky bc DH works offshore, so when he's home, he doesn't work, and I just recently was able to SAH so we're both home all day....I don't know if we'd ever be able to have "fun" if we worked 8-5s, and it makes me wonder how everyone else's DTD schedule has changed in lieu of LO/Life/Work/etc?</p> <p>I guess everyone finds a way! But did your "normal" DTD schedule change? </p>