https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 30 Apr 2026 08:10:02 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-861183 Sun, 16 Jun 2013 09:04:17 +0000 cascademom 861183@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@tysonja: if it was like last year, the age range was from infant to 5 years old. I wrote the email. We'll see what happens. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-861007 Sun, 16 Jun 2013 00:45:16 +0000 tysonja 861007@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Is it possible they were only inviting kids around the birthday boy's age? I know at that age they start to just have 'friend' parties:) we weren't invited to our nephew's party because it was pretty much just his little friends and their parents:) I think if that's the case, it's totally normal:) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-860622 Sat, 15 Jun 2013 19:00:44 +0000 runsyellowlites 860622@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd still send a gift if I was already planning on going/had one. Hopefully it was just an oversight! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-860605 Sat, 15 Jun 2013 18:40:38 +0000 regberadaisy 860605@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's strange that you were invited pre-kids but not post?</p> <p>I would prob email for her address too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-860597 Sat, 15 Jun 2013 18:30:58 +0000 kjpugs 860597@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's really strange- I'd ask her about the address, so if she did forget she can apologize. I forgot to invite someone to my shower and a mutual friend told me "she knows she's not invited." So basically friend made it WORSE by discussing it with her, when really it was an oversight on my part! I sent her an email inviting her and apologizing but she sent a curt "thanks but I can't make it." I still feel bad. So maybe this mom will feel bad? If not, good for you for sending a gift!!! That's very sweet and thoughtful that you had one picked out anyway. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-860582 Sat, 15 Jun 2013 18:08:18 +0000 cascademom 860582@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@shopaholic: no, not really. We've all been busy. We attended a mutual friend's 1st birthday party where the husband asked to be invited to LO's first birthday party. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-860567 Sat, 15 Jun 2013 17:54:14 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 860567@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ooh that must have stung. Good for you for still wanting to send him his gift. I really hope it was just a careless oversight. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-860560 Sat, 15 Jun 2013 17:48:11 +0000 loveisstrange 860560@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Id be that bitch that asks her if her address changed so you can send a gift. If she genuinely forgot you, she'll apologize. If she didnt.... then she'll feel nice and guilty.</p> <p>Its totally possible that maybe she thought you would be too busy or wouldnt want to come with a baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-860558 Sat, 15 Jun 2013 17:47:43 +0000 shopaholic 860558@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@cascademom: Have you guys drifted apart? If not, I'd probably send the gift and let them feel guilty too. Passive-aggressive much? ;/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-860557 Sat, 15 Jun 2013 17:47:31 +0000 mrsmate 860557@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hmm, was last year a 1st bday? We went all out for DD's 1st bday (it was more like a party for us) but just had pizza with the grandparents for the 2nd. Or is there a big age difference bw your friend's son and your LO? For DD's 3rd, we are going to invite her friends and only include our friends' kids if there's room. Sorry you're hurt, I bet there's a good reason or it was simply an oversight. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-860554 Sat, 15 Jun 2013 17:45:43 +0000 cascademom 860554@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@shopaholic: the kid turned 4 years old today. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-860552 Sat, 15 Jun 2013 17:44:12 +0000 shopaholic 860552@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>IDK what I'd do. But I'd be hurt too. But perhaps it was just an oversight? I know I couldn't remember to invite all the people I would normally think of for K's 100 day party (either mommy-brain or just didn't think some people would enjoy it)? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-a-baby-and-not-invited-to-the-party#post-860527 Sat, 15 Jun 2013 17:29:01 +0000 cascademom 860527@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Last year, we attended a longtime friend's son's birthday party. This year, I see pics from mutual friends who attended it today. We weren't invited?!? I'm hurt and confused by this. I have a gift I planned to give too. Part of me wants to message the mom and ask if their address has changed yet to send the present and make her feel guilty. Ugh, we have a kid and we're still not invited!? </p>