https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 07 May 2026 06:30:39 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113900 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 14:17:32 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 113900@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My first breakup was in person. It was easy because we had drifted apart and were really just friends at that point. The second one was over the phone. However that relationship was hard to end because he wouldn't let go. It was a scary and stressful part of my life. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113897 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 14:14:48 +0000 MegWag 113897@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My grad school boyfriend broke up with me via IM because I was "hot, but uninteresting". It totally blew my mind because I always thought my interestingness and awesome personality made up for my lack of hotness...<br /> It took me a while to figure out that the real reason he broke up with me was because I'm smarter than he is ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113853 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 13:17:40 +0000 LuLu Mom 113853@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Never text, but in HS and college I had relationships end over the phone. But all my "adult" relationships have been ended in person and in a more mature way. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113834 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 12:59:52 +0000 littlebug 113834@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had one break up with me by phone. Another one broke up with me by text. After not returning my calls for 2 days. Anytime I ever ended a relationship, I did it f2f. The one and only time I did it it by phone, the guy sent me a card a week later with a quote from Hannibal Lecter in it. GROSS. I learned my lesson. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113777 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 11:24:13 +0000 cyndistar3 113777@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yea, the only other relationship I was ever in ended over the phone. It was a ldr and even though I went down to california and was able to go see him, he was busy everytime I told him I was coming over so I just went ahead and broke up with him over the phone...he cried. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113768 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 11:10:47 +0000 Mrs. Pen 113768@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My first boyfriend broke up with me in a text and I was soooo freakin mad.<br /> My last boyfriend before DH was my most serious relationship. We were long distance and having some problems, so we called a break for a week. During that week I realized I needed to leave him, but I wanted to be decent enough to wait til wE could see each other in person. So I tried asking for an extended break, but he knew what was going on so he said I could just do it over the phone. It was hard, I didn't like it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113541 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 07:44:01 +0000 Nskillet 113541@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Does AIM count? LOL of so yes! Oh, and by phone too now that I think about it bwahahaha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113462 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 04:10:50 +0000 mediagirl 113462@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No! I didn't have texting until a few years ago. Does an argument over the phone that turned into a break-up count? :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113253 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:53:18 +0000 Rubies 113253@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I broke up with a boyfriend on the phone during my lunch break. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My coworkers called me a cold-hearted biatch for the rest of the day. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113247 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:50:42 +0000 mrsjyw 113247@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, the official breakup happened via a phone call (cuz he forced it out) with my ex before DH. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113229 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:38:49 +0000 lilteacherbee 113229@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Umm I honestly can't remember- I think it was more like it was obvious that it was over- it kinda went without saying. We only dated a couple months when now-DH and I were broken up. I really liked this guy, but I was totally not over DH. I ended up crying in the other guy's car over DH. Yeah. Awkward.</p> <p>He's such a nice person though and I've apologized for getting involved with him when my heart was still clearly in another place. I felt so bad :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113225 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:37:32 +0000 chopsuey 113225@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: DUR! Mommy brain! Totally makes sense now. HAHA. yeah. I let them feel like they were doing the breaking up.. :D </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113221 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:36:16 +0000 mrbee 113221@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: Sorry, just meant that you had broken up with the person in your mind... and yet they were breaking up with you and so you were the breakee in their minds.</p> <p>Nevermind this may be a sign that I'm making no sense and need to get to sleep! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113216 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:34:38 +0000 chopsuey 113216@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: eh? relationships weren't overlapping if that's what you're asking..?<br /> first one ended in 2002ish. The second.. 2008 or 09? it's all a blur! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113209 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:32:02 +0000 mrbee 113209@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: So you were both the breaker and the breakee at the same time sorta... woah, that's kinda meta. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113206 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:31:03 +0000 chopsuey 113206@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: it was mutual! both relationships were over in my mind. was just waiting for them to initiate the talk. HAHA. terrible i know. :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113203 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:30:06 +0000 heffalump 113203@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My 7 1/2 year relationship ended over the phone. It was long distance and I wasn't going to wait for a visit to end it.</p> <p>I was dumped online through im .....through a mutual friend. He didn't even have the nerve to do it himself! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113202 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:30:05 +0000 mrbee 113202@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: Were you the breaker or the breakee? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-broken-up-with-someone-over-the-phone-or-text#post-113193 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:27:56 +0000 chopsuey 113193@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes and Yes! :D<br /> Both of my past "relationships" were ended over the phone. </p>