Hellobee Boards Topic: Have you ever been afraid of commitment? https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 03 May 2026 13:00:24 +0000 yoursilverlining on "Have you ever been afraid of commitment?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-afraid-of-commitment#post-436383 Thu, 06 Dec 2012 22:07:55 +0000 yoursilverlining 436383@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>YES. Needless to say, I was/am a commit-aphoeb. It took me over a year of dating to tell my husband that I loved him, and I wouldnt get serious with anyone for several years after the demise of the relationship with "THE ex". </p> tororojo on "Have you ever been afraid of commitment?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-afraid-of-commitment#post-436357 Thu, 06 Dec 2012 22:02:22 +0000 tororojo 436357@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was pretty scared of commitment up until my mid-twenties or so--the thought of being with someone long-term made me feel really stifled and panicky! But when DH and I got together, it just clicked and I was never scared or anything. </p> DigAPony on "Have you ever been afraid of commitment?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-afraid-of-commitment#post-435462 Thu, 06 Dec 2012 18:24:55 +0000 DigAPony 435462@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Same as Mrs. Pen for me. I always got too into it too soon, which only made my inevitable heartache that much worse! Even in high school I would imagine getting married right away. Ugh. </p> Mrs. Pen on "Have you ever been afraid of commitment?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-afraid-of-commitment#post-435458 Thu, 06 Dec 2012 18:19:25 +0000 Mrs. Pen 435458@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>haha I had the opposite problem! I fell "in love" so quickly. But then I stayed committed for a long time. I started crushing on this one guy when I was 12 and didn't stop liking him until I started dating his cousin when I was 18. </p> Mrs. Blue on "Have you ever been afraid of commitment?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-afraid-of-commitment#post-435456 Thu, 06 Dec 2012 18:17:29 +0000 Mrs. Blue 435456@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Um . . . yes. My friends called me the three-date wander because I always bailed before it could get remotely serious. </p> <p>Then around 25, I finally dated someone for a year. After that, my next long-term relationship was DH to whom I was very happy to commit! </p> autumnlove on "Have you ever been afraid of commitment?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-afraid-of-commitment#post-434181 Thu, 06 Dec 2012 17:30:00 +0000 autumnlove 434181@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was very afraid of commitment before I started dating DH! I never wanted to get TOO serious and I would change the subject if a SO brought it up...I was probably just dating the wrong guys. </p>