https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:03:45 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446541 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 15:31:47 +0000 Golden 2446541@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Haha. Every birthday for my SIL and BIL. Gah! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446518 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 15:16:03 +0000 Mrs D 2446518@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have but in more of a "they were trying to not exclude me" type of way. DH has two friends who wives I do not particularly care for (and they feel the same about me). One of them had a girls night and was inviting all the other ones that I do get along with - I appreciated that although we dont get along she tried not to exclude me.</p> <p>Clearly not the case here...I'd either not go and politely decline(probably the right thing to do - or what my mother would tell me to do) or be snarky and go, eat, drink, me merry snoop and not buy a thing... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446455 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 14:37:18 +0000 BandDmommy 2446455@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ajsmommy: Yes, and she has done it a few times. I try to play it off but it's awkward. I have no idea what I did to annoy her either. Oh well... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446448 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 14:32:44 +0000 Ajsmommy 2446448@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BandDmommy: that's crazyyyyyy!!! LOL.. you even used her name??? and she was looking at you.. wow! You should def not go to that party! And if I ever ran into her again I'd ask her why she would even invite me!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446435 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 14:22:54 +0000 BandDmommy 2446435@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ajsmommy: I said "hello, how are you doing x" she looked at me gave me dirty look and turned her back to me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446363 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 13:50:48 +0000 Ajsmommy 2446363@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This has not happened to me and I certainly would not go. I'm just wondering though about when you say "she blatantly ignores me even when I talk to her". when and how does this occur?? </p> <p>I'm actually asking b/c I had a neighbor accuse me of doing this and it is something I would never do. I wouldn't blatantly ignore someone. So I am wondering if in her mind it happened but maybe it was like I was walking into my house with toddler and groceries and she said something and I didn't hear her?? So it appeared I was ignoring her and she thought it was blatant or intentional but really wasn't??? </p> <p>IDK.. just wondering your circumstances...</p> <p>ETA: since then I've made cookies for all of our neighbors but excluded her... :shocked: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446321 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 13:22:26 +0000 BandDmommy 2446321@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: hahahahaha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446254 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 12:29:49 +0000 hellobeeboston 2446254@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>yeah she clearly just wants you to buy whatever she's selling.</p> <p>that's annoying. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446198 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 11:51:59 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2446198@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No this hasn't happened to me, but I would pop in. I love looking at home decor! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446161 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 11:26:20 +0000 erinbaderin 2446161@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I got invited to the baby shower of a girl who was friends with a lot of mutual friends in university, including my husband and my current best friend, but who actively mean-girled me in school. I totally didn't want to go but my husband and our friends all made a weekend out of it (it was in another town a few hours away) so I ended up having to, as it would have been weird to have gone for the weekend but not gone to the shower. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446053 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 10:14:13 +0000 BandDmommy 2446053@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@josina: it's actually the day before a large dinner party we are hosting so there is no way I can go. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446043 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 10:09:02 +0000 josina 2446043@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Maybe you should go just to eat/drink whatever she provides, but not actually buy anything. ;)<br /> I also hate those type of parties for that reason.</p> <p>I was just invited to a baby shower for the wife of a friend... who is generally just rude and can barely be bothered to say hi, not sure if she doesn't like me or that's just how she is. Still in the air if I'll go, but will get a gift regardless because we are good friends with her husband. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446026 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 09:56:24 +0000 BandDmommy 2446026@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: the interesting thing is she only has 8 - 10 people invited.. I guess she doesn't know a lot of people.. Why else include me? That and she wants my money :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446023 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 09:54:49 +0000 BandDmommy 2446023@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: I hate these type of "parties" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446022 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 09:54:10 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2446022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: Yup and this is a huge reason I have issues with these type of "parties" and "direct sales". People who I haven't spoken to in forever not even reaching out, but just an out of the box invite because they want money. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446020 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 09:53:01 +0000 BandDmommy 2446020@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@T.H.O.U.: no intention of going </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446014 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 09:50:38 +0000 mediagirl 2446014@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>She invited you as one more person who may spend money on whateverthecrap she is selling. If she has a bunch of people coming, she doesn't care that she is inviting people she doesn't care for. She just wants bodies. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446013 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 09:50:25 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2446013@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, almost a slap in the face. I would obviously not go. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2446011 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 09:49:29 +0000 snowjewelz 2446011@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's just... Pointless! Like you'll go?! </p> <p>Not this extreme, but I've def been invited to showers/weddings where I didn't think I'd be... Not because there's beef but that I don't know the person that well, at all. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-ever-been-invited-to-a-party-by-someone-who-doesnt-care-for-you#post-2445986 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 09:33:54 +0000 BandDmommy 2445986@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was thrown for a loop the other day when I got invited to a party the other day (direct sales party) for a neighbor who clearly does not like me. Not sure what I did, personally don't care, but she blatantly ignores me even when I talk to her. Just curious, have you ever been invited to a party by someone who doesn't care for you? My guess is she only invited me for my money. </p>