https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 21 Apr 2026 11:51:04 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2331084 Fri, 23 Oct 2015 00:47:01 +0000 Crystal 2331084@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Nutella: thank you. ❤️</p> <p>@AprilFool: milestones like that are really hard </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2331082 Fri, 23 Oct 2015 00:42:09 +0000 Nutella 2331082@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: I didn't know it was triplets :crying: hope you're going ok as can be :heart: </p> <p>@AprilFool: sending good wishes for with dealing with due date. I'm wondering how I'll feel about passing the due date in March I'm not pregnant by then either. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2331076 Fri, 23 Oct 2015 00:29:32 +0000 AprilFool 2331076@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a blighted ovum in May. I thought I had dealt with it but as we get closer to my due date it is clear I have not. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2331070 Fri, 23 Oct 2015 00:18:06 +0000 Crystal 2331070@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoJoGirl: I'm still grieving too. </p> <p>@MaryM: lots of love, friend. </p> <p>I lost my first baby at 6 weeks 2 years ago and my second at 12 weeks in August. This last pregnancy we started with triplets, and lost them all one by one after hearing a heartbeat. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2331043 Thu, 22 Oct 2015 23:14:30 +0000 LovelyPlum 2331043@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: I'm so sorry, I missed this. Sending you healing and love. :heart:</p> <p>I've had two. I lit my candle last week in honor of all of the lost babies I've come to know through this beautiful site. Healing and light to you all. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2322765 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 21:57:11 +0000 Tidybee 2322765@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: to everyone who has experienced the sadness and heartache.<br /> I had a blighted ovum diagnosed at 8 weeks and a little one whose heart stopped beating at the 10w ultrasound. I'll never forget seeing the tiny arm and legs on the screen, or seeing the flat line when they went to measure the heartbeat. When I go back to that moment, my chest still gets tight. But I also look at my darling 3 month old and know that my losses lead her to me and for that I'm grateful. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2322737 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 21:13:57 +0000 MCD919 2322737@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had 2 losses before DS. One at 9.5 weeks and one 2 months later at 5 weeks. I was completely devastated the first time, and it took me a long time to heal. Early in my pregnancy with DS and now that I'm pregnant again I feel that anxiety every day :bummed: Love to all of you amazing Mommas out there :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2322726 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 21:01:42 +0000 pastemoo 2322726@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>yes. i wonder when people ask "is this your first" i always used to freak out. it still freaks me out to be honest.@MaryM: thank you for that post. lovely. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2322716 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 20:56:14 +0000 Keybee 2322716@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, two, one at 10 weeks one chemical the day after I got a positive test.<br /> :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2322311 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 16:57:15 +0000 Torchwood 2322311@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>2 miscarriages at 9.5 and 5 weeks, and a late loss at 33. Finally got my rainbow baby though, and she really does make it worth it. I still grieve my lost babies, but I'm so grateful for the one who made it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2322308 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 16:51:20 +0000 Nutella 2322308@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a missed miscarriage in July (no hb at 8w scan) and I'm still hurting. It was a club I never wanted to join. Hugs to all those with losses in their lives :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2322252 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 16:19:15 +0000 PawPrints 2322252@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had one. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2322228 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 16:06:43 +0000 FaithFertility 2322228@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ash: Love those quotes, have you shared on the IF inspiration thread?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2322226 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 16:05:34 +0000 FaithFertility 2322226@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>2 chemicals back to back with our first IUIs before our DD<br /> They stung we were so hopeful!</p> <p>Prayers to all :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2322223 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 16:03:28 +0000 jaguar 2322223@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Our only two pregnancies in the past 2 years have both ended in back to back miscarriages. A little boy, lost at 11 weeks &amp; our unknown bub, lost at 6 weeks.</p> <p>I'm grateful we experienced a boring and healthy pregnancy with my daughter (who's 2.5 now) - because I am absolutely petrified that any pregnancy we MIGHT be blessed with in the future if our IVF transfers work, will also end in a loss.</p> <p>I hope we all can get // already have, our rainbow babies soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2321825 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 13:40:04 +0000 MaryM 2321825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This facebook post really spoke to me earlier this week. </p> <p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.georget.smyth/posts/10156094107120722?fref=nf" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.georget.smyth/posts/10156094107120722?fref=nf</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2321820 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 13:38:19 +0000 Ash 2321820@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2321807 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 13:33:26 +0000 runnerd 2321807@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ash: that first quote gets me right in the heart! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2321805 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 13:32:57 +0000 runnerd 2321805@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Two miscarriages, both at 8 weeks. All the stories online are making me emotional today. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2321798 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 13:28:26 +0000 Ash 2321798@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p> [attach=2798/15/nw9xze.600x600.FB_IMG_1444923749039.jpg] [attach=2798/15/nw9xzf.600x600.FB_IMG_1443622972270.jpg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2321796 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 13:28:08 +0000 Ash 2321796@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: I'm so sorry! </p> <p>I had one at 7 weeks before ds. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2321597 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 12:29:01 +0000 MenagerieMama 2321597@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. Miscarriage at 7 weeks over 2 years ago. And now have a happy 12 mo LO! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2321583 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 12:25:08 +0000 MOMTOLITTLEB 2321583@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a chemical pregnancy three years ago. I was heartbroken. I have a beautiful healthy boy now. It is so sad how many people go through this kind of loss. Now, I am glad it was early but at that time it was still very painful. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage/page/2#post-2321571 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 12:21:41 +0000 MaryM 2321571@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Silva: I've been reading Empty Cradle, Broken Heart and got to a chapter on control last night. It completely sounded like me with our last miscarriage...how I couldn't deal with not being able to control things so I repressed my grief for so long. Realizing that, I think I've tried to allow myself to be more emotional and take more time this time. </p> <p>Last time, I took maybe two days off work. I couldn't handle sitting at home with my thoughts. But most of my coworkers also weren't aware I was pregnant in the first place so I didn't have to deal with returning to a bunch of sideways pity looks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage#post-2321568 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 12:19:26 +0000 Dr. Pepper 2321568@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've had three.Two in 2012 at 8 weeks, and 5.5 weeks. One this August at 8 weeks. I am lucky to have a beautiful perfect son that is 2 years old. I'm trying to focus on him right now, but I am definitely taking today to remember my loses. We are also trying again and I'm hoping to get a positive test any day now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage#post-2321565 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 12:17:13 +0000 Silva 2321565@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: yeah, i'm aware of how focused I am on trying to control it/move on. I expect that my first period will be difficult, and if I don't get pregnant right away I will probably have a really difficult time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage#post-2321533 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 12:05:25 +0000 abbydabbydoodlebug 2321533@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a miscarriage in July. Saw the heartbeat, but it was on the slow side, had an ultrasound the next week and no heartbeat :crying: </p> <p>Now I'm just finishing my second miscarriage/possible ectopic this week. </p> <p>My heart breaks for all of us who have experienced loss. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage#post-2321486 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 11:46:42 +0000 sera_87 2321486@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>One at 8 wks this past January. </p> <p>I seriously cannot deal with stories of late term loss it freaks me the f*ck out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage#post-2321484 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 11:46:11 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2321484@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had one early loss last year. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/have-you-had-a-miscarriage#post-2321479 Thu, 15 Oct 2015 11:44:21 +0000 winniebee 2321479@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Alba4: I hope this is your take home baby! </p>