https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 26 Apr 2026 18:44:17 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-780726 Tue, 14 May 2013 12:54:02 +0000 mlm2934 780726@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks for all our words. Most the comments made me tear up to read - when I'm not on here as much, I start to feel like I'm crazy and when I try to talk to others they reassure me but don't really know I just need permission to feel this way and it be ok, not a solution. I love that y'all just sucks and it's ok to be stuck in that feeling sometimes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-779772 Tue, 14 May 2013 07:43:53 +0000 Cherrybee 779772@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: Just sending you lots of positive vibes and big e-hugs. It's so frustrating when you just want to move on but your body seems determined to keep you frozen in time forever. You will come out the other side of this and get that BFP, I just know you will! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-779716 Tue, 14 May 2013 07:13:06 +0000 TheSwissWifeStyle 779716@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry you're having a frustrating time :( It's really annoying not to know what's going on! I hope you get some answers soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-779676 Tue, 14 May 2013 06:27:41 +0000 heffalump 779676@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh no.... Hope it stops soon! I actually had to have 2 d&amp;cs because the first wasn't successful. But for me it was a lot of heavy heavy bleeding and clots. Like I couldn't get off the toilet because I'd fill a pad in under a minute. </p> <p>Good luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-779639 Tue, 14 May 2013 05:03:04 +0000 T.H.O.U. 779639@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thinking of you. Maybe try to get one last appointment or at least an appointment in the new city set up? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-779194 Mon, 13 May 2013 20:06:40 +0000 LovelyPlum 779194@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending you huge hugs and prayers thay you get to try again soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-779079 Mon, 13 May 2013 19:25:58 +0000 daniellemybelle 779079@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I really hate this for you! :( No words of advice, but a virtual hug! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-779022 Mon, 13 May 2013 18:46:05 +0000 pui 779022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you are going through this. I know the feeling. I hope your body starts cooperating soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778901 Mon, 13 May 2013 17:42:43 +0000 Smurfette 778901@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am sorry! Totally allowed to have those days. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778890 Mon, 13 May 2013 17:32:05 +0000 Charm54 778890@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>*hugs*...That would be so frustrating. You are a trooper!! I hope your cycles sync up fast... I can't wait to celebrate your BFP with you :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778853 Mon, 13 May 2013 17:01:39 +0000 mlm2934 778853@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Espion: so true! I feel totally betrayed by my body! I thought id be all back to normal 6 weeks later and get a quick BFP. Guess life cant always be all quick and simple like that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778852 Mon, 13 May 2013 17:00:57 +0000 shopaholic 778852@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you're having a bad day! I've been there and it's no fun. Your are totally allowed to have pity party days for yourself! {hugs} </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778851 Mon, 13 May 2013 17:00:07 +0000 mlm2934 778851@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sugar.Biscuit: that's a good idea! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778848 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:59:19 +0000 justdarling 778848@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry that you are going through this!! Big Hugs to you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778845 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:58:46 +0000 Espion 778845@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I know how you feel. I felt so betrayed by my body. For what it's worth, I m/c'd without the aid of any drugs or surgery. It took nearly 6 months after to get the BFP. I felt like my cycles (which are usually incredibly regular) were out of whack, which is why I think it took so long. I never had my hCG drawn, but as others suggested, it could be reassuring to know that your body is trying to re-acclimate itself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778844 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:57:35 +0000 BSB 778844@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: Aww, I'm sorry. I hope you stop spotting soon so you can start TTC again. Hugs!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778841 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:55:38 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 778841@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: I would call your Dr. and tell them you are moving in 10 days and want one last check up. Maybe even request a referral for your new area, if they are able to do so. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778834 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:53:45 +0000 Sprite 778834@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry! Hopefully your body starts cooperating soon :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778830 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:53:09 +0000 spaniellove 778830@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: They should at least do a beta to be safe and make sure there's no tissue left that could be producing HCG...and if they don't think it's at 0 yet, they could do 2 a week apart to see if it's going down. The other possibility might be your cervix? Is it painful? I'm so sorry you're going through this! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778829 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:52:52 +0000 mlm2934 778829@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runsyellowlites: lol!!!! No no no... it's my body thats the prob not your post :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778827 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:52:01 +0000 runsyellowlites 778827@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ack I'm so sorry! I feel like a jerk now with my post. :( I hope the spotting stops soon and you can start trying again! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778821 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:48:24 +0000 Ash 778821@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>*hugs* I'm so sorry!! As if going through a m/c isn't enough... they are draining in every way, shape and form. I'm always here for ya! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778819 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:47:57 +0000 marionberry 778819@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry! Can't imagine what you're going through. I'd be pissed too. I hope you stop spotting soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778818 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:47:42 +0000 mlm2934 778818@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@spaniellove: no they didn't. I don't show up positive on the wondfo's anymore tho. When I called a few weeks ago, they said to give it another 3 weeks before they'd have me come in. Now we are moving in 10 days to new city so I don't know what to do. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778814 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:47:00 +0000 Mrs. Train 778814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. It's so frustrating when our bodies don't cooperate. Big hugs, and I hope the spotting stops soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778810 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:46:06 +0000 spaniellove 778810@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sorry, I know this is a stupid and obvious question but - did you get your beta levels tested down to zero? Just making sure there's nothing left in there that would cause you to still be spotting. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-bad-day#post-778807 Mon, 13 May 2013 16:44:19 +0000 mlm2934 778807@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel so defeated today. Here we are over 8 weeks post miscarriage and I'm still spotting. All in the world I want is to try again! I finally stopped spotting for a week, then as soon as we DTD this weekend I am spotting again. :(</p> <p>I don't know what to do with myself. Whenever I see posts on here about timing of when to try I feel frustrated with my body cause I am mentally wanting to try but my body won't cooperate. It feels like I'm losing precious months of TTC. </p> <p>/pity party over. </p>