https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 16 Apr 2026 01:07:16 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2084014 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 20:03:09 +0000 FaithFertility 2084014@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jaguar: IF is a BIT*H :) I am so sorry you are feeling down, but let yourself feel that way, it is not easy!<br /> You are a strong women and have over come so much so far........keep going and I pray you get an end to this road soon with a blessing!!!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2083986 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 19:38:52 +0000 jaguar 2083986@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>&lt;3 Thanks all. I really hope things take a turn towards something positive, because I'm feeling pretty beaten right now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2083375 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 12:20:30 +0000 MrsScallop 2083375@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry you are having a rough day. I have found that there are days where I just have to let myself be sad and cry it out. I tend to bottle things up, but once I let it go I feel so much better and can focus on the good things in my life again. Take care &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2083342 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 12:07:22 +0000 2PeasinaPod 2083342@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just wanted to let you know that I still think of you on a daily basis, and it's ok to be sad. :heart: :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2083334 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 12:01:20 +0000 BSB 2083334@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jaguar: Lots and lots of hugs for you! :heart: I'm so so sorry you have to deal with this. IF sucks!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2083133 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 10:08:55 +0000 Worrywart 2083133@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending hugs! I've been following your story and I'm in a similar boat as you. Been TTC#2 for over a year now and been with RE for 5 months and nothing is working. We are now taking a break from fertility, as I can't handle the emotional pain right now. I have my moments too but then I squeeze my little girl and realize how lucky I am to have her. Thinking of you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2083099 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 09:49:39 +0000 LulaBee 2083099@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just feel the sad. It's a part of the process (or so my therapist says...) life is not fair, and it's hard and you've dealt with so much. Hang in there. :heart: </p> <p>Also, I've found that watching Parks &amp; Rec helps my sadness when I need an escape. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2083086 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 09:45:38 +0000 spaniellove 2083086@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jaguar: I'm so sorry you're stuck in this repeating circle of sadness...I hope sooner rather than later you finally get your break. The IF coach I worked with suggested putting together a little shrine of sorts, didn't have to be religious in any way. Just a spot in my home where I could surround myself with things that had meaning and energy, maybe a special picture. That inspired me to visit Peru, and we brought back a piece of salt from a hike (probably a huge no no!) which we keep next to the candle from our wedding, a piece of marble we got in Santorini, a vase we got in Oaxaca, and a pretty container a friend gave me in college. Just things that remind me that life has adventures ahead we don't know about. </p> <p>Take good care of yourself. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2083052 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 09:22:56 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 2083052@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I went out with girlfriends to mark those tough milestones. My husband didn't really understand the importance, but girlfriends did. </p> <p>I'm so sorry for what you are going through. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082969 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 08:39:29 +0000 TheSwissWifeStyle 2082969@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs to you. I know it sucks. Let yourself feel all your feelings. The last thing I did to give myself strength was get a huge tattoo! But yeah, that's not for everyone. Other things I did was go to the salon, get a new hair-do, etc. </p> <p>Take care of yourself :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082926 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 07:58:02 +0000 Hoots 2082926@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry. Hugs to you. :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082923 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 07:56:33 +0000 ValentineMommy 2082923@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So many hugs and tons of love, Jags. I'm so sorry you are going through this &lt;3 &lt;3 &lt;3 &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082913 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 07:45:39 +0000 Miss Sarah 2082913@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Many hugs to you my dear! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082849 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 04:09:33 +0000 jaguar 2082849@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks guys. After a pretty mopey day, my little one is in bed, and I'm letting myself have a bath, some cheesy television &amp; maybe even a pedicure. &lt;3</p> <p>Hopefully tomorrow can go back to business as usual. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082847 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 03:53:17 +0000 Pumuckl 2082847@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Another silent "finger crosser" here! Maybe get a babysittter and get some alone time with hubs? Lots of hugs coming your way :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082766 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 23:32:47 +0000 littlejoy 2082766@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Love &amp; light to you. I can tell by your post and the outpouring of love from others that you are amazing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082764 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 23:30:37 +0000 Sapphiresun 2082764@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't really know what to do to help the situation, but just wanted to send hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082761 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 23:25:39 +0000 ALV91711 2082761@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending lots of love your way :heart:</p> <p>You are always in my thoughts and I hope things go your way soon. I'm rooting for you. </p> <p>Others have given some great advice. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082757 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 23:20:06 +0000 Crystal 2082757@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Definitely let yourself be sad, and like Mary said, I make small goals of things I can do. </p> <p>Lots of hugs, friend. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082615 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 21:10:13 +0000 Tidybee 2082615@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Let yourself be sad. It sucks. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082597 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 20:59:00 +0000 kentuckygirl 2082597@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry. I think of you often. IF sucks and I usually wallow in self-pity for a while. But then I do try to find ways to pull myself up out of my sadness. Sometimes focusing on my blessings helps. Other times I pamper myself with a massage or manicure. I plan a get-a-way, even if it is far in the future, so that I have something to look forward to. Occasionally a glass of wine. Sometimes just going to bed and trying to remember that tomorrow is a new day with new possibilities. Hugs and best wishes! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082521 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 20:09:20 +0000 oliviaoblivia 2082521@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you are having a rough day. You have had such bad luck this year and deserve so much better than the cards you've been dealt. I too am a silent follower/supporter. There are women around the world routing for you. You are such a lovely mother to Georgia, I pray that your rainbow baby comes soon. Love and hugs from Toronto. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082459 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 19:28:19 +0000 knittylady 2082459@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. Maybe go for a run and then pamper yourself in coziness? Or just let yourself be sad. That can be healing too. Again, so sorry for how things have been going on the road to number 2. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082434 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 19:10:09 +0000 travellingbee 2082434@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry, Hun! We're gonna get those rainbow #2s- it's going to happen! I was having a pity party yesterday. I just want to be done TTC forever. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082428 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 19:07:37 +0000 simplyfelicity 2082428@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry, jag. You are such a beautiful person and I can't wait to hear wonderful news from you. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082424 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 19:05:01 +0000 blackbird 2082424@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. Be sad and acknowledge it. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082423 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 19:04:52 +0000 Mrs. Oatmeal 2082423@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm thinking of you today, lady. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082407 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 18:59:51 +0000 travelgirl1 2082407@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jaguar: Thinking of you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082400 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 18:55:35 +0000 GreenThumb 2082400@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jaguar: I'm right there with you friend… every day is tough here too right now. But I wish it wasn't that way for either of us! Lots of hugs!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/having-a-sad-day-today#post-2082396 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 18:49:01 +0000 winter_wonder 2082396@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jaguar: sorry you're having a rough day :bummed: I'm thinking of you :heart: </p> <p>I find writing about my feelings sometimes helps. I also try to consciously write about things I am grateful for and appreciate. It's hard though because infertility is so terrible :sad: </p>