https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 25 May 2026 13:46:27 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1966699 Mon, 01 Dec 2014 22:27:33 +0000 travelgirl1 1966699@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: You are NOT a bad mum, you have been monitoring her and calling the doctor and you did follow your instincts, and now she's going to get better soon. Big, big hugs :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1966435 Mon, 01 Dec 2014 18:29:58 +0000 SleepyMonkey 1966435@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>thanks everybody for all your support :heart: i spent the morning sobbing at work in a bathroom stall. this is a very hard lesson learned, but i won't doubt my instincts again in the future and i'll be more aggressive about my LO's health going forward. </p> <p>she is much better already. she still has a fever (i called the dr about this already...) but she is acting like her happy self again. i also called the dr's office and filed a complaint against the nurse on call and told them i'm leaving the practice...they are one of the biggest practices in the city, so i doubt they give a shit. But as long as they know that this nurse is giving out idiotic advice, hopefully they will take steps against having another child to suffer needlessly because of her. </p> <p>thanks again guys. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1965935 Mon, 01 Dec 2014 14:25:05 +0000 mrsjyw 1965935@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry!! You are a great mom! That nurse was NOT doing her job/due diligence!!! Hope she gets well soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1965934 Mon, 01 Dec 2014 14:24:41 +0000 BananaPancakes 1965934@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: Girl, I just went through the same thing 2 weeks ago and felt like a total shit mother because he ended up with a double ear inflection. All the kids in his class got a nasty nasty virus that was giving them 103+ fevers, but most were only lasting few days. I didn't take him in for 6 days, per the on call nurse, and I felt like such an ass because he was obviously felt terrible. It's hard not to beat yourself up about it, but he was so much better after 24 hrs on the antibiotic. Hope she feels better soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1965812 Mon, 01 Dec 2014 13:36:04 +0000 Mrs Green Grass 1965812@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: Hugs. You didn't ignore your instinct, which is why you took her in today! I'm glad she is on track to get better. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1965791 Mon, 01 Dec 2014 13:28:33 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 1965791@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so glad you figured out what it was. PLease, please don't beat yourself up about this. It's not your fault. The docs office did not do their due diligence! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1965765 Mon, 01 Dec 2014 13:19:16 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 1965765@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: Please don't beat yourself up! It happens to every mom at one time or another. Same thing happened to my infant a couple months ago. Just give her lots of extra cuddles and she'll be SO much better once she gets those antibiotics in her system for 24 hours. Hugs :heart: </p> <p>ETA: I would say something to the doctor about the nurse on call dismissing the signs you talked about. She needs to have a review. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1965760 Mon, 01 Dec 2014 13:18:05 +0000 Beehive 1965760@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: I'm so glad you know what it is now! Don't blame yourself, you did your job by calling, it's 100% their fault not yours!! I hope she feels better very soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1965730 Mon, 01 Dec 2014 13:08:46 +0000 hilsy85 1965730@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: I'm so sorry! But so glad you figured out the cause. I hope she feels better soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1965729 Mon, 01 Dec 2014 13:08:03 +0000 .twist. 1965729@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: Don't feel bad. You were taking her to the doctors and they were giving you SHITTY information. You're not a bad mom at all and your little girl is going to be better asap! </p> <p>I would definitely bitch out the one office and go find yourself a new doctor. Unacceptable on their part! BIG HUGS. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1965715 Mon, 01 Dec 2014 13:03:23 +0000 SleepyMonkey 1965715@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Turned out to be a UTI. I'm livid at the on call nurse for telling us to wait until today to bring her in. I told her that my daughter was unable to get up from the couch and walk around and that she kept getting sicker and sicker, and the nurse on call dismissed it. I don't understand why. </p> <p>I feeling like the worst mom in the world right now for ignoring my instinct and the obvious signs that something wasn't right. I could have saved her 2 days of suffering if I hadn't trusted the nurse on call. Goddammit. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964948 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 23:53:28 +0000 StbHisMrs 1964948@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For what it's worth, my lo had a fever of 104 for 2 days last week, Tylenol would only bring it down to 102, we switched to Motrin and it worked much better. Her dr said she'd like to see her if the higher fever lasted for over 48 hours.</p> <p>I hope your lo just has a virus, and feels much better soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964925 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 23:12:32 +0000 Beehive 1964925@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: :sad: I hope she feels better soon! Poor thing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964911 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 22:51:57 +0000 matador84 1964911@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Could be flu! DS is getting over it. Surprised they didn't do a flu test. Hope it gets better. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964890 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 22:38:28 +0000 littleblessings 1964890@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: my sister had pneumonia last year. That consisted of an uncontrollable fever, other cold like symptoms and vomiting. My mom had taken her to the ER the day before she was diagnosed. I made my mom take her back in when the thermometer only said high and no longer gave a number. It was scary! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964885 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 22:34:44 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 1964885@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: don't beat yourself. Illnesses evolve over time. So what might have been a cold on Wednesday may have morphed into something more. Hugs and update us tomorrow! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964884 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 22:34:18 +0000 mrs. wagon 1964884@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: :( fingers crossed it's just an ear infection or roseola!! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964882 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 22:32:08 +0000 SleepyMonkey 1964882@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks for the responses. I am so mad at myself for not trusting my gut. I knew 6 days of fever and her being so uncharacteristically lethargic and sickly was a red flag...im so upset right now. If it turns out to be very serious, the doctors office is going to get a serious bitching out from me tomorrow. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964858 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 22:11:00 +0000 mrs. wagon 1964858@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>With my first, he had roseola... fever broke on day 4 or 5 and a rash broke out all over his trunk. But only for a few hours... we were lucky we saw it. We had him tested twice for a UTI during the week. With my second, she ended up with an antibiotic-resistant e.coli in her bladder..!! She took a super strong antibiotic to clear it and they wanted to test her kidneys to make sure they weren't damaged, but we ended up not testing her. It was scary though! And she had horrible diarrhea the entire week she took the antibiotic. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964843 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 22:00:33 +0000 MamaBehr 1964843@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My daughter just went through this and she had a UTI. And then, this past week the fever came back and I took her in. The urine test came back negative but a blood test showed elevated white blood cell counts and we got antibiotics. Two days later I got a phone call that it is a UTI, her longer culture showed a UTI.<br /> Hope your LO feels better. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964816 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 21:43:19 +0000 hellobeeboston 1964816@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: this just happened to a friend, misdiagnosed as a virus. Turned out to be a kidney infection! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964777 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 21:02:03 +0000 ShootingStar 1964777@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>D had this about a month ago. At first they said it was just some generic virus. Then we went back a few days later and it turned out to be roseola. He also got an ear infection as a result of the virus, which only showed up at our second visit. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964776 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 20:59:29 +0000 travellingbee 1964776@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>They can test for RSV and the flu. We just had it done. But I'd definitely be concerned about a bacterial infection at this point... Our LO currently has some nasty bronchial infection that he is on antibiotics for and I was alarmed that he had over a 102 fever for more than 48 hours. It wasn't responding well to the advil either. I think we've finally gotten over the hump though and he hasn't spiked a fever since around noon. I hope everything goes well at the doctor and they can give you some answers. Hope your LO feels better very very soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964733 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 19:52:24 +0000 ladybee 1964733@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: I hope you find answers or relief soon! M is only 1 and has RSV, bronchiolitis a few times and pneumonia. Our pedi always prefers to see him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964729 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 19:50:48 +0000 Mrs. Tiger 1964729@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My 3yo just had this! Not over 104, but between 101-104 for 5 days. They couldn't find anything (same like yours, just regular cold symptoms) and did a urine test which came out fine. The doc gave us antibiotics in case it was bacterial but he didn't really think it was. I also discovered that he responded better to ibuprofen than acetaminophen. He started feeling better the day after we took him in, of course. I hope she turns around soon :/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964728 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 19:50:44 +0000 SleepyMonkey 1964728@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ladybee: okay. thank you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964724 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 19:49:20 +0000 ladybee 1964724@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SleepyMonkey: he had had a cold for ten days so they think it was viral and moved into his chest. He had a nasty cough, was lethargic, and the fever. Plus when he gets sick he gets retractions at the ribs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964719 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 19:44:16 +0000 SleepyMonkey 1964719@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Corduroy: @ladybee: I thought maybe it was pneumonia because she has had a cough for awhile (2 weeks?) But she doesn't seem to have labored breathing. She has blue/grey lips for an hour this morning so i was getting ready to bring her to the ER but they pinked up and have been pink since. What other symptoms did your LOs have? Sorry you guys had to go thru it. </p> <p>@Mrs. Jacks: thanks. I will push for more testing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964710 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 19:24:37 +0000 ladybee 1964710@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's so scary. Our LO only had a fever that high once and we were seen after 24 hours. He had pneumonia and antibiotics got rid of it. Our LO had repeat respiratory issues so fever and a cough was super concerning. </p> <p>I hope she feels better! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/high-fever-for-a-week#post-1964706 Sun, 30 Nov 2014 19:21:00 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 1964706@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>At five days, we start to worry about Kawasaki and at 7-10 days we start working up for fever of unknown origin. I'd go in tomorrow for more answers/tests. </p>