https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 23 May 2026 10:11:59 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-17460 Thu, 17 Nov 2011 17:36:07 +0000 cyneswith 17460@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I normally have lady-like burps. Farting... slightly embarrassing, but whatever. And our cats have a habit of opening the bathroom door whenever we go in, but we both TRY to avoid using the bathroom in front of each other (we have 2 bathrooms, so it's easy to do.) He even keeps his towel on after a shower.</p> <p>Weirdly, he has NO qualms about my period. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-17457 Thu, 17 Nov 2011 17:26:12 +0000 heffalump 17457@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can't even have him anywhere near the bathroom if I'm going. Not just him, anyone. But I do tell him stay away, I'm going to the bathroom. And being able to tell someone I'm pooing is huge for me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-17449 Thu, 17 Nov 2011 17:17:56 +0000 ALittleP 17449@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Everything but no. 2. However, we only do any in cases of emergency! We still try and maintain a sense of mystery ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-17058 Wed, 16 Nov 2011 22:37:34 +0000 junebugmama 17058@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My whole world changed once I got pregnant. DH had only heard me burp in our 3 years together until this. I am farting up a storm. If I laugh I fart, if I sneeze I fart, if I switch sitting position on the couch I fart. It's terrible! However, he still has never seen me do anything on the toilet. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-17053 Wed, 16 Nov 2011 22:32:59 +0000 EAC18 17053@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Basically all of the above, but he's very private about #2ing in front of me. I really can't see surviving any other way - I would explode if I had to hold it in! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-11542 Tue, 08 Nov 2011 11:37:54 +0000 sugarcube 11542@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was comfortable with everything except for #2 - both ways. But after I had to "flush out" my system for a colonoscopy, I was in so much pain that I didn't care that he was in the bathroom comforting me as I sat on the toilet. So now I don't care if he sees me #2, hes seen the worst of it already! But I still don't want to see HIS #2 ... gross! :P Though I'm sure he wouldn't mind me there </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-10286 Sun, 06 Nov 2011 03:46:42 +0000 SweetMamaM 10286@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I used to be "no dice" on all fronts but then I farted so loud in my sleep I woke myself (and FI) up and he couldn't stop laughing... damn lactose intolerance. We will talk about almost anything but as a preference, I prefer my time on the loo alone. Heaven knows that I'll get precious quiet time on the toilet once we have little ones LOL </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-10243 Sat, 05 Nov 2011 22:12:56 +0000 LazyLightning 10243@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>All of the above... though I'm not much of a burper-I 'can't'... (is that odd?). And we can talk about ANYthing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-10196 Sat, 05 Nov 2011 19:11:20 +0000 swgal 10196@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, can and have done all of the above! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-10193 Sat, 05 Nov 2011 19:09:21 +0000 MsMini 10193@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Burps, and farts are fair game in our house, #1 is only occasionally done with the other in the room, and #2 is always, totally private. We rarely even speak of the act being performed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-10141 Sat, 05 Nov 2011 16:45:30 +0000 yourekindapretty 10141@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i can do everything. i guess it can be kind of gross and unattractive.... but whatevvvvvvvvvvvvvvvs. i live by the philosophy that "EVERYBODY POOPS". take it or leave it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9799 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 21:32:06 +0000 eeh 9799@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>#1 only. And that's not really even in front of him. Occasionally with the door open or if one of the dogs comes in and pushes the door open. He burps and farts around me but he's pretty good about respecting my wishes for him to go in the other room. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9740 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 18:57:22 +0000 anewme 9740@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Husband and I have no personal boundaries...we are<br /> Too comfortable around each other. Haha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9730 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 18:14:24 +0000 reggie 9730@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>haha, I do all of the above infront of my SO too! but only him and no one else lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9725 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 18:03:21 +0000 tessabella76 9725@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Burps: Fair game for both of us. I burp more often and louder than my husband. What can I say, I have 3 older brothers!<br /> Farts: We both try not to in front of each other but sometimes they slip out.<br /> #1-We only have 1 bathroom in our house so if I have to go bad enough while he's in the shower I will-with the shower curtain closed of course.<br /> #2-Closed door policy for both of us. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9723 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 17:42:49 +0000 Rubies 9723@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Burps: I can do this proudly in front of the hubs. Sometimes he's impressed at how well I can do this!<br /> Toots: I NEVER farted in front of the hubs until I was pregnant and couldn't help myself. Now that baby is here, I try not to fart but it squeaks out. He thinks it's hilarious. However, he doesn't fart in front of me unless it's by accident. HAHA.<br /> #1: He sometimes pees with the door open and I don't mind, I just think it's so lazy of him to not shut the door! I wouldn't want to pee in front of him, though.<br /> #2: ABSOLUTELY NOT! However, I used to be VERY lactose-intolerant and once after eating ice cream, I almost went #3 (diarhea) in his car and cried and begged him to speed home before I shat myself. This has happend many times because I tend to have a weak stomach. While I've never actually went in front of him, I've, many times, nearly shat myself in his presence. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9602 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 13:50:23 +0000 HabesBabe 9602@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Toots-- both ways, and plentiful<br /> Burps-- he more than me, only because I don't burp often<br /> #1-- he doesn't feel comfortable peeing in front of me or hearing/seeing me pee. I wouldn't care either way<br /> #2-- noooooo. I've been in the bathroom after he goes and there's no way I would want to be present for that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9587 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 13:36:47 +0000 L2sweetpea 9587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can do all of the above in front of him...he gets uncomfortable if it's #2 so I keep that to myself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9563 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 12:56:30 +0000 PastaAndPotato 9563@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i burp in front of my DH - often - but i'm not really a "farter" and i like bathroom breaks to be private - on the flip side, his only hold out is doing #2 in front of me (which i am INCREDIBLY grateful for haha), anything else is fair game </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9560 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 12:52:51 +0000 cyndistar3 9560@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes to all of the above. The poor guy has seen me at my absolute worse. I am not shy anymore. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9533 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 12:33:19 +0000 mamabolt 9533@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We don't do #2 in front of each other but everything else is fair game. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9526 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 12:27:42 +0000 yin 9526@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can do #1, burp, and fart in front of my husband, but I have a difficult time doing #2 in front of him. I don't mind him seeing what's in the toilet (weird, I know), but I can't have him in the room while I'm going #2. My husband is the same, except he can have me in the room for a minute or two before he kicks me out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9418 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 08:25:30 +0000 mrsjyw 9418@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Obviously like posters above, DH is comfortable doing all of the above in front of me. I would be too, if circumstances called for it, but there are 3 bathrooms in our house and I prefer my bathroom time (esp #2) to be alone. Although, DH has made a habit out of coming to knock on the door and asking "what are you doooooing in there!" even though he knows already... </p> <p>I'm not usually gas-y and hardly a burper... but I have farted a hand full of times in front of him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9395 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 07:47:02 +0000 Adira 9395@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Tequiero21 - hahahaha, that's too funny! I'm glad you're using the pregnant excuse to do those things in front of him! Maybe he'll eventually just get used to it. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9390 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 07:32:25 +0000 tequiero21 9390@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>well my husband is very comfy doing all those in front of me, but he's a chauvinist and thinks women shouldn't burp and fart. right now, i'm pregnant, so i'm like i don't care what you think! haha. i need this gas out! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9386 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 07:26:42 +0000 Adira 9386@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're pretty comfortable with each other, but I still don't like farting or doing #2 in front of him, although I <i>have</i> before and he doesn't seem to care, haha. He's never done #2 in front me though, which I appreciate, haha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9377 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 05:37:57 +0000 mediagirl 9377@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are comfortable enough around each other to do everything except #2. #1 sometimes happens with the door open with the other person in the next room. I think we're a close couple with appropriate boundaries. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9338 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 02:12:11 +0000 MH.Abroad 9338@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've never used the bathroom in front of him, nor he in front of me. But we've only been married a few months. If one of us was really sick, or needed toilet paper, I don't think it'd be an issue to walk in. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9337 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 01:44:05 +0000 SAHM0811 9337@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm with you... we do all of the above in front of each other. no shame in this house! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-comfortable-are-you-around-your-so#post-9333 Fri, 04 Nov 2011 01:06:10 +0000 Mrs. Bee 9333@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i never burp or fart in front of anyone.... #1 is no problem though... </p>