https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 19 Apr 2026 04:45:30 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133284 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 10:44:47 +0000 Elderberrygin 1133284@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were Team Green and had a boys name picked out for years before we even thought about starting a family. Picking a girls name was way harder. I had a slightly crazy set of criteria; not in the top one hundred, historically significant meaning preferably dating back to the medieval period or earlier (I'm a scholar of medieval history). DH deemed everything I picked "too nana" ie. old-fashioned We finally agreed on a shortlist of three and decided in the delivery room, about two hours before she arrived. The name wasn't my front runner, but DH loved it, and in the end it suits her personality way more than my pick. We knew we were one and done so there was a lot of pressure to get it right. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133219 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 09:29:53 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 1133219@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm a naming fanatic too. The first time we went into the hospital with three names. As soon as we saw that little bean, we knew which name was hers! The second time it was more of a logic puzzle that locked us into the right name. It was a little harder that time because we knew it was our last time naming and there are so many good names out there... But the logic didn't lie :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133194 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 09:02:06 +0000 Dandelion 1133194@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH and I had S's name picked out even before we were married. We also picked a boy's name when I was pregnant, but we were set on S, and thrilled that she was a girl. We're a little bummed out that the name is gone, but now we're loving the boy name we had picked out with her. Now we can't think of one girl name we can settle on. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133182 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 08:49:46 +0000 avivoca 1133182@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband picked it out long before we thought about TTC. He likes scientific names as first names, and this one is very pretty. If we were having a boy, his name would be James Michael, after his father and grandfathers (also what I would have been named had I been a boy). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133171 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 08:29:41 +0000 PurpleUnicorn 1133171@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The name we picked was the only one we agreed on. I don't think it would have been my first choice otherwise. But once he was born, I fell in love with both DS and his name! And I'm so happy we went with it </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133154 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 08:10:26 +0000 MapleMoose 1133154@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH and I were both at work, texting each other potential names for our baby girl. We both texted each other this name at the same time so there wasn't any question that we found the name. :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133142 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 08:00:16 +0000 Mrs. Jump Rope 1133142@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think you'll know it when it pops in your head!</p> <p>I loved the nickname Maddy, and we initially picked Madeline as our girl name! A few weeks before my anatomy scan DH suggested Chloe and I melted. It was perfect! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133140 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 07:56:41 +0000 artsyfartsy 1133140@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had our girl name picked out before we were even married. Before found out we were having a boy, it was a struggle to find a boy name we both liked. When we found one...we never really settled on it for a while...it just didn't click. Then when I found out it was a boy, I revisited the name and worked hard on coming up with his middle name. Once we got his middle name in place it just clicked! I'm in love with his name now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133126 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 07:41:21 +0000 Foodnerd81 1133126@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We agreed on a girls name early on, very easily. Boys name we still didn't have anything we loved going to the hospital (team green). After she was born we still took a few minutes to get to know her before deciding for absolute sure. </p> <p>If she'd been a boy it would have been way harder! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133117 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 07:31:11 +0000 rachiecakes 1133117@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a boys name from the second I got my BFP! We could never agree on a girls name. Good thing we didn't have to ;)</p> <p>I'm convinced if we had another we would have another boy because I have another boy name that I've fallen in love with. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133101 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 07:00:58 +0000 swedishfish 1133101@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were team green but had decided on a boy's name. We went into the delivery room with three possible girl's names. That's how I knew we were having a girl all along :wink: R's name truly fit her so much that I couldn't imagine her with the other two names. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133099 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 06:58:20 +0000 SugarplumsMom 1133099@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@lamariniere: that's so beautiful! I had a dream too, even before DH and I got together that I'd have a little girl. Since then, I knew that if we had a girl, I'd give her the name Linnea. But then I found out there's already one in the family and we didn't want a namesake. I still think its a beautiful name ... just one I can't have. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133095 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 06:53:06 +0000 Ra 1133095@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had a hard time finding a name we agreed on. B's name was the only name DH loved that I could get on board with. I was never completely sold it on though.</p> <p>As soon as I saw him I knew it was supposed to be his name. It's crazy how well it fits him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133090 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 06:46:32 +0000 SugarplumsMom 1133090@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was the same way! I went through a phase where so many names seemed sooo pretty to me. My list was huge! But after the anatomy scan, I'd narrowed it down to only a few. To weed names out, I ran it through an Asian auspicious name calculator (to match DH's last name) which probably isn't authentic or accurate, but whatevs :happy: </p> <p>By then, only 1 name made it and DH announced that he wanted to start calling her by her name. So I picked the one that was "lucky". There were other reasons, such as the meaning and feel of the name. I wanted her to have a strong name and I felt it was "stronger" than the other name I liked. I've never looked back since. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133009 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 01:16:34 +0000 Grace 1133009@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a few names but DH loved one the best, which was a miracle, so I wasn't about to try to add different names. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133008 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 01:11:46 +0000 sunny 1133008@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH got fixated on 1 name... I waffled for months between that one and another one. It was only until we met her that we finalized our choice! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133004 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 01:03:08 +0000 lemondrop 1133004@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We did a 4D ultrasound around 31 weeks, and he just looked like one of our names. We still went to the hospital with a short list of names just in case, but it still fit him well. We'll probably do the same thing with #2. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1133002 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 00:59:44 +0000 illumina 1133002@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got to the end with a name in mind but after meeting her decided we'd have to revisit it. That ended up being her middle name and we came up with a variation of one of our older choices for her first. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1132994 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 00:45:44 +0000 lamariniere 1132994@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a dream maybe 5-6 years before I met DH that I had a baby boy and gave him a name. I loved that name and that is what we ended up naming DS. </p> <p>However, now with DD on the way, we cannot decide. I have a feeling we'll go to he hospital with a short list. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1132983 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 00:15:42 +0000 shopaholic 1132983@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH and I finally agreed on a name we both liked (no easy feat!) and he didn't give me a choice - email blasted it to everyone as soon as we found out it was a girl. :/ I don't regret it, but he never gave me the option to flip flop after that! Next time, I won't agree to anything that early! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1132980 Fri, 04 Oct 2013 23:54:39 +0000 Arden 1132980@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We didn't, until we met her. We went into labor with four names, although we had a front-runner. As soon as we met her we knew that first name was the front-runner for a reason - because it fit her perfectly. </p> <p>I plan to go into the next baby's birth with a short list as well. I can't imagine naming a baby without meeting them! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1132974 Fri, 04 Oct 2013 23:18:21 +0000 HLK208 1132974@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think you'll know when you see her! I cannot wait to meet baby #2!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-do-you-get-your-heart-set-on-a-name#post-1132969 Fri, 04 Oct 2013 23:10:21 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 1132969@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am a bit of a naming fanatic and I have dozens and dozens of girls names that I love. I have a hard time picking a name and not changing my mind a week or so later.</p> <p>I encounter so many people who name their child a name they picked before they even got pregnant, or a name they picked as soon as they found out the sex. I, however, can't commit!!</p> <p>DH and I have been wavering back and forth for weeks. We had a favorite, then got cold feet. Finally he just told me that I should pick whatever name I love most.</p> <p>I am having a crazy hard time. When DD was born we just KNEW what her name would be as soon as we saw her (we came prepared with a list of three names). Maybe that will happen again?</p> <p>How did you pick a name? How did you know it was the one?</p> <p>ETA: I have become obsessed with making sure the name sounds a certain way with DD's name. Maybe I'm thinking too hard? </p>