https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 17 May 2026 04:50:51 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-has-your-marriage-changed#post-336228 Thu, 11 Oct 2012 17:57:38 +0000 mrsjyw 336228@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Coco Bee: SO SWEEEEET! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-has-your-marriage-changed#post-336223 Thu, 11 Oct 2012 17:55:52 +0000 Mrs. Pen 336223@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think that the two weeks after DS was born was the closest we've ever been!! I had never been so admiring of DH and was just in awe of him. He said it was the same for me - it was amazing watching me give birth and become a mother.</p> <p>Now it is different as we deal with the day-to-days of parenting together. We definitely clash in our parenting styles sometimes; but mostly we try to find humor in how the other person does things.</p> <p>I do believe that making a little family has made us even stronger and we definitely rely on and trust each other more. It's a deeper level of intimacy and trust that I wouldn't have known had we no had a baby.</p> <p>There is a lot more respect mutually - he really respects me being a SAHM even though I don't always enjoy it, and I really respect him working hard to make this possible.</p> <p>It's also more fun. We don't get to do as many "couple" things, but it's shifted into family things and I totally don't mind. It's magical watching Cobi reach new milestones and I love sharing that with DH. Even though DS isn't old enough for those fun family trips- we make those memories at home just through simple play. </p> <p>I feel SO blessed because I know it's not always a positive change in many relationships. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-has-your-marriage-changed#post-336210 Thu, 11 Oct 2012 17:51:09 +0000 mrsjyw 336210@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>post babies?<br /> after a # of years?</p> <p>has it changed? how so?</p> <p>being pregnant has brought us to an infinitely closer/intimate level; more than i could've ever imagined; i can't even imagine how it will be once LO is actually here! while i know there are bad moments/days; i'm so excited for another level of deepenening in our relationship as a couple/parents. </p>