https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 08 Apr 2026 04:53:40 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60956 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 20:34:23 +0000 mrs. wagon 60956@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@AmeliaBedelia: take your time and follow your heart, and you can't go wrong :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60954 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 20:32:44 +0000 AmeliaBedelia 60954@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@tina: That's exactly how I like to look at things! I am having a hard time thinking that way about this one issue (since I have known fertility complications) but at the same time, I don't feel like we're ready and we have plenty of time to figure all that out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60952 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 20:30:57 +0000 mrs. wagon 60952@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@AmeliaBedelia: we've made a lot of careful, smart decisions and a lot of crazy, stupid ones, and we don't regret any of them in the end because it's all led to where we are now! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60950 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 20:28:22 +0000 AmeliaBedelia 60950@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@tina: Dear future self..... Lol. Hopefully we won't regret it! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60862 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 17:47:40 +0000 mrs. wagon 60862@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got married super young (24) and waited 4 years before having RJ. I'm so glad we did because we had a great time for 4 years and we never feel like we missed out on anything by having a baby too soon! Especially building a strong foundation for our marriage. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60780 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 16:24:10 +0000 HabesBabe 60780@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We'll be married for a little over 3 years by the time the baby's born, but will have been together for over 13 years!</p> <p>We wanted to wait until we got to enjoy time as a married couple before we started having kids, so this is perfect timing for us. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60733 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 15:45:01 +0000 j0s1e267 60733@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@yoursilverlining, it's so true! We would take off on trips whenever, try out lotsa restaurants, shop till we drop etc<br /> Many probably thought we had problems TTC but the fact is we never tried! It was DH who broached the subject and I was like 'Why????'! Eventually, I figured that I'll never be 100% ready so let's try and see what happens! We celebrated our 10th anniversary last year and now I have three LOs! How things change! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60707 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 15:19:29 +0000 yoursilverlining 60707@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@j0s1e267: My parents were married for 10 years before having children and they always say the exact same thing you said, "we were having too much fun!" :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60677 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 14:59:46 +0000 j0s1e267 60677@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>8 years !! We were having too much fun :). We got married after 10 months of dating and spent the next 8 years traveling and enjoying couple time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60676 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 14:58:26 +0000 lemondrop 60676@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Cam arrived 1 year and 10 months after we got married. We did try for quite a while too, we had originally planned for him to arrive right around our first anniversary (and is a product of our delayed first anniversary trip). We've been together almost 10 years, so we got married because we were ready to start a family. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60658 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 14:28:56 +0000 KT326 60658@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were 2 months shy of our 1st anniversary when we saw the fertility specialist for the first time (I've known since I was a teen that I would not be able to conceive on my own). My due date is 4 months before our 3rd anniversary. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60644 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 14:14:04 +0000 joyjoy 60644@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were married 4 years before we got pregnant. Baby is set to arrive one week before our 5th anniversary! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby/page/2#post-60614 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 13:58:54 +0000 sulli301 60614@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got pregnant about a month after our wedding!! We didn't waste any time ;) DD was born on our 10 month anniversary &amp; turned 8 months on our 1.5 anniversary last month. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60600 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 13:53:05 +0000 Rock n Roll 60600@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got married a month before our daughter turned two and started trying for our second the month we got married. It worked right away and now our second is due in June. We were dating for three years before I got pregnant with our daughter. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60557 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 13:26:03 +0000 littleveesmommy 60557@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got pregnant 7 months after we got married and baby girl should be arriving any day now - today is her due date. We had planned on waiting a year after we got married so pretty close to our plans. I went off BC a year before the wedding and we were NTNC after the wedding. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60496 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 12:42:26 +0000 googly-eyes 60496@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Voted 2-4 years but that's how long before the baby actually arrives. It was about a year and a half between getting married and finding out I was pregnant! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60492 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 12:41:29 +0000 mrscheesefries 60492@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We've been married for 1.5 years and we'll be starting TTC in about a year. It will ideally be 3-4 years married when baby cheesetot arrives. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60477 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 12:28:34 +0000 leelee 60477@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We will be married 2 years by the time LO arrives :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60476 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 12:28:33 +0000 Pipers Mommy 60476@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@808love: Us too! 6 months.</p> <p>DH also has a daughter from a previous relationship. She is 18. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60470 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 12:24:45 +0000 jennylynn 60470@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got married in May and prenant in July. She's due about a month before our 1st anniversary. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60402 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 11:48:21 +0000 duckduckkristen 60402@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got married in May and pregnant in August. Baby is due a few weeks before our first anniversary! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60353 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 11:23:53 +0000 cyndistar3 60353@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We already had one when we got married then decided we wanted another a couple weeks after the wedding. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60350 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 11:21:10 +0000 Mrsbells 60350@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Got married in June and found out I was pregnant in August! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60345 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 11:18:06 +0000 DpeachLu 60345@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were married for two and something years but by the time she gets here it will be 3 years :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60307 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 10:46:35 +0000 mynoahbear 60307@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Married two years before our first baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60304 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 10:43:19 +0000 PennyLainne 60304@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We dated for 2 years and in that 2 years we bought a house, got our careers on track, and decided that we didn't want to wait to start trying. We pulled the goalie and then a month later the crazy man proposed. Now we are due in Sept and the wedding is in January. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60295 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 10:37:52 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 60295@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I put two to four years. We are coming up on our 2nd anniversary. We started TTC right after our first. We haven't gotten pregnant yet, and even though we are facing fertility treatments I'm hopeful that we'll conceive and have a baby in the next two years. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60292 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 10:34:23 +0000 LuLu Mom 60292@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are starting to try a couple months before our first wedding anniversary, so hopefully it will be about 2 years once the baby is born. Still trying to get that positive though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60291 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 10:34:09 +0000 Mrs. Bee 60291@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>started trying at our 2nd anniversary, but finally got pregnant with charlie right after our 4 year anniversary. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-between-marriage-and-baby#post-60290 Thu, 26 Jan 2012 10:32:48 +0000 cascademom 60290@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We started trying a little bit before our second anniversary. I got pregnant after 4 months of trying. Baby will arrive about 2 months before our third anniversary. </p>