https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 19 Jun 2026 17:52:17 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-for-you-to-forgive-yourself#post-79669 Wed, 22 Feb 2012 08:55:07 +0000 tequiero21 79669@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i'm not sure, but i fell for a scam back in jhs and i still haven't forgiven myself for it... SO.... might take at least 30 years. maybe. more like, a lifetime. haha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-for-you-to-forgive-yourself#post-79590 Tue, 21 Feb 2012 23:34:15 +0000 brownie 79590@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It isn't quite the same, but my Milk Soy Intolerant infant had cheese on a pizza the other day (the joint messed up and he had some before figuring it out.) I have barely forgiven myself for taking 3 months to solve the problem. </p> <p>We have to accept that things happen and just love our babies as much as possible. My hubs is on travel this week too so I feel for you.</p> <p>You are a great mommy!!! keep up the good work. I would worry if I wasn't a little guilty. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-for-you-to-forgive-yourself#post-79586 Tue, 21 Feb 2012 23:21:16 +0000 Cchoi4 79586@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>*HUG* If it makes you feel any better, my LO fell in his crib a few eeks ago and cut the inside of his bottom lip. I heard it (since we only have a video monitor) but thought he was okay. When I went to go get him from his nap, his crib sheet had blood stains! I felt terrible but LO was in a good mood and it didn't seem to bother him. Your LO was happy...thats great! no harm done :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-for-you-to-forgive-yourself#post-79483 Tue, 21 Feb 2012 21:08:46 +0000 chopsuey 79483@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks ladies.. &lt;3<br /> When I called and spoke to the nurse at my pediatrician's, I said..<br /> "I feel like such a terrible mother."<br /> Nurse: "Yeah..."<br /> :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-for-you-to-forgive-yourself#post-79471 Tue, 21 Feb 2012 20:59:57 +0000 mrstilly 79471@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DS fell twice in less than 24 hours while he was home alone with me one weekend. DH was at his parents working. DS got a red mark on his eyebrow and a skinned nose! I felt sooooooo awful, especially after the second time. He was not quite 9 months old yet and while he didn't fall far, I just felt like the worst mother. I'm mostly over it now, about 2 months later. It does happen all the time, to every kid, and they will be just fine. *hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-for-you-to-forgive-yourself#post-79417 Tue, 21 Feb 2012 20:09:31 +0000 Andrea 79417@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I used to feel bad when she was smaller but I don't feel too bad anymore. It happens a lot the older they get! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-for-you-to-forgive-yourself#post-79389 Tue, 21 Feb 2012 19:09:31 +0000 anbanan15 79389@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sometimes these things just happen and there is nothing you can do about it. It's part of the parenting course. That said DS fell when he was about 4 months old and 6 months lasted I'm still kicking myself in a** about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-for-you-to-forgive-yourself#post-79388 Tue, 21 Feb 2012 19:03:58 +0000 heffalump 79388@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You don't have control of these things -thats how babies learn! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-for-you-to-forgive-yourself#post-79387 Tue, 21 Feb 2012 18:57:24 +0000 chopsuey 79387@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rubies: &lt;3 thanks chingoo. I seriously needed a hug! DH is gone til thurs so digital hugs are the next best thing! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-for-you-to-forgive-yourself#post-79376 Tue, 21 Feb 2012 18:48:52 +0000 Rubies 79376@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You need to forgive yourself right now! It happens all the time - *HUGS* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-for-you-to-forgive-yourself#post-79371 Tue, 21 Feb 2012 18:45:15 +0000 chopsuey 79371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When your LO gets hurt on your watch?<br /> :(<br /> LO did a face plant at around 3:30pm and her top teeth cut into the inside of her upper lip. *sigh* Seeing her bloody mouth seriously shaved a couple of months off of my life.</p> <p>:( She went to bed happy and laughing, but I still feel so terrible for letting it happen. </p>