https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 18 Apr 2026 21:11:11 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-124120 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 09:09:12 +0000 LuLu Mom 124120@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It depends on the situation, but I tend to just need a couple hours to myself to cool off and regroup and I can move on. If I'm in a bad mood and it's not going away, sleeping on it is the only thing that helps! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-124090 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 09:01:13 +0000 Minnie_Girl 124090@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm slow to anger, slow to forgive. It's rare that I'll get reaaally upset about something, but when it happens it can take me days to get over it. </p> <p>But, once I'm over something, I probably won't remember it within a week. My brain is good about erasing that kind of stuff. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-124079 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 08:57:38 +0000 Arden 124079@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It really depends. Usually I need an hour or two. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-124027 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 08:35:48 +0000 Rubies 124027@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hubs can only stay mad for, like, 5 seconds before he cracks a joke. It can take me days before I'm totally myself again. It's not so much that I'm holding a grudge or anything, whatever the issue, it just stays in my head and I keep thinking about it. I think I drive my husband crazy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-124024 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 08:34:11 +0000 Modern Daisy 124024@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband is like you Mr. Bee, he doesn't get upset easily but when he does I might as well forget the rest of the day and possibly even the next day being normal again. I called him out on this recently though and he's been working on it.. but I think it's something that is pretty hard to change. I used to take a while to get over it, but now I can move on pretty quickly once apologies are said. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-124008 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 08:26:24 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 124008@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I get over things quickly. As soon as we are done talking about it I'm over it. My husband takes longer than I do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123999 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 08:24:31 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 123999@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Depends what the arguement is about. Honestly... i can hold a grudge for a long time (not with my husband) because I'm not one that fights with anyone. My family labeled me the peacemaker, I avoid too much conflict.</p> <p>But I've slowly learned to let things go and somethings aren't worth even fighting about. Ah... the joys of marriage. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123983 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 08:20:32 +0000 Mrs. Jump Rope 123983@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It depends what the issue is. Sometimes can can get over it immediately and move on. Other times, we both stew and it takes a few days.</p> <p>We are both very stubborn! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123979 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 08:19:55 +0000 chopsuey 123979@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I get over things lightening fast!<br /> DH used to stay mad, but since I get over things so quickly, he started getting over things fast too. Woohoo! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123975 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 08:18:52 +0000 mrsjyw 123975@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If it's something petty, I'm over it very quickly. If it's something serious, usually a day. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123949 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 08:13:34 +0000 heffalump 123949@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Depends what it is. Usually we can talk it out and be done with it pretty quickly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123825 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 05:34:30 +0000 Andrea 123825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I get over things really quickly. I don't like to dwell on things. </p> <p>DH is also pretty good but he can stew longer than me I think. But I don't know, we rarely argue so I can't even really answer the question! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123781 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 03:21:25 +0000 mediagirl 123781@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It will take me a couple of hours or so. If it's really bad, I'll stew on it all night. I know it's not healthy but sometimes it's just hard to get over things! Thankfully we don't argue that often anymore. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123773 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 02:48:10 +0000 tequiero21 123773@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can get over it pretty quick, especially if he apologizes. Hubby takes awhile, but hell get over it if I apologize.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123751 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 02:16:02 +0000 His Barista 123751@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it depends on what I am upset about. Usually awhile though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123747 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 02:11:08 +0000 BSB 123747@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It takes me a while to get over things, too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123745 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 01:53:13 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 123745@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It takes me a while.<br /> I usually am really sullen for a couple hours to a day after a big fight with my DH. He wants to kiss/hug/makeup immediately, but I am kind of sore for a while. I wish I could snap back as easily as him! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-get-over-being-upset#post-123744 Mon, 16 Apr 2012 01:36:17 +0000 mrbee 123744@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Some people get upset quickly but then move on quickly too. That must be nice!</p> <p>I don't get upset too easily but when I do, it takes me quite some time to move on. I'm sure that makes me less fun to be married to! It's a hard thing to change though.</p> <p>How long does it take you to get over being upset with your SO? What about your SO... how long does it take them to get over it when they're upset with you? </p>