https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 07 May 2026 23:47:51 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-413536 Sun, 25 Nov 2012 16:22:54 +0000 Mrs. Blue 413536@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've been dumped once, but the relationship was not going well, so I basically told him to step up and call it done. It still made me really sad for a few weeks. Other than that, unfortunately, I've been the dumper more times than I care to count. I was a bit of a commitment-phobe, so I did some damage along the way. :-/ I feel really bad about some of them now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412512 Sat, 24 Nov 2012 12:14:16 +0000 mango.sprays 412512@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>None. I ended 2 "serious" relationships before DH. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412407 Sat, 24 Nov 2012 10:14:00 +0000 Ash 412407@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Zero. Just like @Mrs. High Heels, I've done the breaking up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412406 Sat, 24 Nov 2012 10:11:41 +0000 Mrs. Champagne 412406@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Never.... had one boyfriend for about a week before I started dating DH when we were 15.</p> <p>I had a dream last night though that DH and I were divorcing! It was HORRIBLE! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412315 Sat, 24 Nov 2012 05:41:44 +0000 Cherrybee 412315@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Twice. I've dumped more guys, though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412303 Sat, 24 Nov 2012 03:34:23 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 412303@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Never, but I've been the dumper twice. Seems to be a theme on this thread, haha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412274 Sat, 24 Nov 2012 02:25:37 +0000 Arden 412274@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Zero. So thankful for the fairytale of marrying my first love... I was spared so much pain that I watched my friends go through. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412238 Sat, 24 Nov 2012 01:08:30 +0000 DigAPony 412238@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Three times, I think? One was my very first boyfriend, so at the time I was heartbroken, even though looking back it was not even a real relationship! The second time was terrible and a huge heartbreak. The third time I was thankful that he finally ended it, because it was a terrible relationship (we were engaged and lived together) and I did not have the emotional or psychological strength to end it even though it was very toxic and needed to stop. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412156 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 22:44:54 +0000 MrsSCB 412156@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband was my basically my first boyfriend, haha. Although we did go on a break after we'd been dating for two years, but it was more of a mutual decision to work out some issues we both had. We were "broken up" for about a month, and neither of us dated anyone else, so it was kind of a lame break up, lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412149 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 22:38:03 +0000 alayaya 412149@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rainbow Sprinkles: same! I've never been dumped, but I've been the dumper twice. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412147 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 22:33:42 +0000 littlek 412147@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've been dumped twice, both were a relief. I hated breaking up with guys. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412114 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 22:03:08 +0000 .twist. 412114@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was dumped once and it was my first real boyfriend and totally broke my heart. </p> <p>Otherwise, I've been the dumper. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412111 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 21:59:09 +0000 MrsCastro 412111@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Once by DH, about a year and a half of dating. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412097 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 21:46:19 +0000 DillonLion 412097@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: that's because there couldn't be anything less romantic about it :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412095 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 21:45:01 +0000 heffalump 412095@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Once. I didn't care about the guy too much .... but I did care that he chose to dump me by asking my friend to tell me through IM. Classy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412093 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 21:42:35 +0000 Springtime 412093@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@highwire: haha!</p> <p>I've been dumped twice! They weren't serious relationships! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412079 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 21:08:00 +0000 mrbee 412079@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@highwire: Haha, what a romantic way to put it! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412059 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 20:48:44 +0000 DillonLion 412059@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Once. And then we continued to ...uh...bang for another year after that. Ugh waste of time!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412005 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 19:59:42 +0000 yoursilverlining 412005@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Only once that's important to me. It was my first real serious relationship (we lived together, had a dog, were a family), I totally loved him, and he dumped me after he cheated. I didn't date seriously for years after because it hurt me so much; actually my husband was my first serious relationship after that, though I went out on plenty of dates. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-412000 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 19:56:30 +0000 SugarplumsMom 412000@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Once. He wanted to date all the new, young girls in his life because they were his "friends". According to him, it wasn't dates, it was just dinner, a movie, bowling, going to the beach after. He left me. But I filed for divorce. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-411979 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 19:43:34 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 411979@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Never.<br /> But I have been the dumper twice. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-411964 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 19:35:13 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 411964@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've never been dumped. My first bf and I decided together that we were better off as friends, and I broke up with my second bf. Then I met my husband. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-411937 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 19:15:27 +0000 MamaMoose 411937@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Once. And I was a freshman in high school so I got over it pretty quickly. I did the dumping of the guy I dated later in high school, an then hubs and I got together when I was 19 and that was the end of my dating life. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-411932 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 19:13:20 +0000 banana 411932@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Twice! One was a short term relationship (less than 6 months?) and the other was around a year. The first one I didn't care about cause it was mutual. The 2nd one broke my heart. :( But of course now in hindsight, he was a total jerk to me and I just fell for the "bad boy" type at the time. Ugh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-411926 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 19:04:04 +0000 Mrs.M57 411926@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Only once, but it was really tough on me and affected me for a while. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-411920 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 19:00:58 +0000 knittylady 411920@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Once. I had a really hard time for what felt like a long time but was really maybe 6 months? I became clinically depressed so it didn't fly by... It was one of those terrible movie like breakups. Ugh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-many-times-have-you-been-broken-up-with#post-411917 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 18:59:23 +0000 autumnlove 411917@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have been dumped twice...I didn't care too much about one but the other affected me for years. </p>