https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 09 Apr 2026 06:13:00 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1392921 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 22:38:56 +0000 HolisticMama 1392921@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babycanuck: Agreed. :) I had an IPA tonight. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1392794 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 20:55:39 +0000 babycanuck 1392794@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HolisticMama: Yep. I had a nice big glass of wine today because I refuse to stop enjoying things now until I get that BFP. I did that for too long with no results. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1392793 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 20:54:40 +0000 HolisticMama 1392793@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babycanuck: I think limbo is far worse then the 2WW or AF. I'm totally stuck. I have to act like I'm pregnant for the most part, yet I get glaring white BFNs every morning.</p> <p>And I've been getting headaches every night and don't want to take meds. -_- I've also been waking up every night for two hours and also don't want to medicate for that either. :: sigh :: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1392618 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 18:46:45 +0000 babycanuck 1392618@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm totally in limbo right now and I hate it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1392600 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 18:34:21 +0000 BSB 1392600@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Limbo land sucks. At some point, I just give up and wish for AF to come. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1392066 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 11:27:59 +0000 snowjewelz 1392066@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am currently in limbo all the time, period because it's my first cycle charting and I feel like I am no better off than last month when I wasn't! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1391913 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 09:49:36 +0000 FaithFertility 1391913@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HolisticMama: see that is one thing I can not do......hahah I hate the feeling of my cervix being touched!! :silly: </p> <p>Amen to that, I thank God daily for the beautiful life I have! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1391897 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 09:39:17 +0000 HolisticMama 1391897@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FaithFertility: No worries. TMI doesn't exist here. ;)<br /> I consult my cervix multiple times a day. I'm pretty sure it's a normal part of the TTC process. LOL. In fact- I think I might start a thread about it. LOL. </p> <p>Something that brought me great comfort when I first started this journey was the thought, "Have I ever failed you before?" And it's true. I have a beautiful life. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1391884 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 09:33:30 +0000 FaithFertility 1391884@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HolisticMama: Love it!!!! It truly does, just went to bathroom sorry tmi and NO spotting as of today!!!!!!!! God is good!!!!<br /> You sound alto like me!!!!!! Praying it works out for us both! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1391880 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 09:31:30 +0000 HolisticMama 1391880@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Day 4 in Limbo Land.<br /> On Monday- I was starting to give up hope, because I felt like AF was arriving. Lots of cramping. </p> <p>And then it went away...As I mentioned, for many days, I used the affirmation that I was pregnant. As AF arrived- I stopped using it, because it seemed silly, but now I'm feeling a bit more hope. </p> <p>There still aren't any signs of AF. Even if it turns out I am not pregnant, I will probably be closer to having answers on Monday, which is a good feeling. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1391877 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 09:29:25 +0000 HolisticMama 1391877@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FaithFertility: I LOOOOVVVEEEEE ITTTT! I also claimed that I was pregnant last cycle and it felt awesome!<br /> I've also read so so many symptom stories of people who spot for days before a BFP. Attaching an embryo is pretty strenuous stuff, I suppose. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1391860 Sat, 01 Feb 2014 09:20:57 +0000 FaithFertility 1391860@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am in limbo land right now.......14Dpiui and 13dpo light spotting on and off....so makes m think I'm out...but no cramps really, sore boobs........</p> <p>I have not tested yet, I am going to give it until tomorrow morning, like I had planned!!!!</p> <p>I decided to claim I am pregnant and not let those Satan little spots of blood shake my faith until I know for sure!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1390974 Fri, 31 Jan 2014 16:00:43 +0000 HolisticMama 1390974@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Maybe I should take @BakerBee's advice and try DTD to onset AF.<br /> Can't hurt, right?<br /> Although I'm TOTALLY not in the mood. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1388730 Thu, 30 Jan 2014 17:36:56 +0000 HolisticMama 1388730@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sophia: I will keep my fingers crossed for you!<br /> Have you played around with this calculator before?<br /> <a href="http://www.whenmybaby.com/implantation-hcg-calculator.php" rel="nofollow">http://www.whenmybaby.com/implantation-hcg-calculator.php</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1388698 Thu, 30 Jan 2014 17:24:03 +0000 Sophia 1388698@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HolisticMama: I really shouldn't complain, my cycle is actually super regular. I'm on CD 25 and have had 26 day cycles pretty consistently for the past year +. I was just really, really hopeful for a BFP today. </p> <p>I hope your wait ends soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1387814 Thu, 30 Jan 2014 12:57:22 +0000 HolisticMama 1387814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sophia: Not fun! How long are your usual cycles? </p> <p>I have consistently been 27-29 days for years. Years.<br /> And now here I am...CD30. </p> <p>No sign of AF. Creamy white CM. Bah. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1387760 Thu, 30 Jan 2014 12:41:59 +0000 Sophia 1387760@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm kinda feeling like I'm there now. I'm 14 DPO and got a BFN this morning. I should be out of limbo land tomorrow morning one way or another! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1387733 Thu, 30 Jan 2014 12:34:27 +0000 HolisticMama 1387733@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Snowdrop: Kind of sort of. I didn't temp this cycle and my OPKs can right before I thought I was going to O. I had a dark OPK- not quite a positive. So I figured I Od on the 15th, because OPKs started getting lighter. </p> <p>But then I had OPKs that started getting darker again the following week. So I'm just a weirdo, I think. LOL. </p> <p>I'm going to track practically everything if there is a next cycle. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1386773 Thu, 30 Jan 2014 05:37:11 +0000 Snowdrop 1386773@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Did you track O? Im so hoping this is it for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1386411 Wed, 29 Jan 2014 21:57:40 +0000 Crystal 1386411@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HolisticMama: I'm still keeping my fingers crossed for you!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1386293 Wed, 29 Jan 2014 21:17:12 +0000 HolisticMama 1386293@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: @mfa_lady: @MrsMccarthy:<br /> Thanks for listening. :)</p> <p>Part of me totally thinks I'm out. I packed a pad in my purse today. </p> <p>But then the other part of me thinks there might be a possibility, because usually my skin condition flares up REALLY bad before AF. Yet my skin is just dandy. </p> <p>Or I guess it could just be a long cycle? But I feel so crampy. -_-<br /> I don't think DH and I DTD at all the week of the 20th. So timing would be shot if I O'd past the 20th. :: shrugs :: Guess I will just have to wait and see. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1386165 Wed, 29 Jan 2014 20:47:44 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1386165@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hope you get a BFP darling! I've neve had a long cycle but I know many who have. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1386150 Wed, 29 Jan 2014 20:45:00 +0000 mfa_lady 1386150@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This happened to me my BFP cycle - I didn't get a positive until 4 days after AF was due. (That pregnancy ended in MC, but I believe the two things are unrelated. I think I just ovulated late!) Those four days were insane - the waiting is the worst! AND two of those four days were my now-SIL's bachelorette party! Yikes. I hope you get an answer soon - and preferably a BFP! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1386131 Wed, 29 Jan 2014 20:41:27 +0000 Crystal 1386131@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's happened a few times this last year, and it's just the worst. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-are-you-in-limbo-land#post-1386022 Wed, 29 Jan 2014 20:11:01 +0000 HolisticMama 1386022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>How often do you find yourself in limbo land? That awful time between a BFN and when AF _should_ be arriving, but then it doesn't...</p> <p>A long cycle? A late implantation? A later ovulation?<br /> Who knows...</p> <p>You're in limbo land. </p> [attach=4604/14/n06wme.325x241.pregnancy-test-question.jpg]